Via long distance instructions (texting), i informed Mistress this morning of my intentions to get dressed for the day. Yesterday, on Her way out of town and right after She paddled my bottom kinda red, She instructed me to wear panties to the office. As it turned out, i didn't go into the office because W/we had workmen there all day. Because i never got dressed for work, i never put the panties on. Not because i didn't want to follow instructions. i get genuine pleasure out of following Mistress's instructions, but rather because i was busy with workmen and distracted all day and it simply dropped out of my mind. Nothing too sexy for me to be around and dealing with sweaty workmen all. Although, i'm certain that Mistress would've gotten a kick out having me in panties while i was dealing with these workmen.
Well, after receiving a reply to my text this morning, and while Mistress was contemplating my instructions for this day, i informed Her that i inadvertently failed to follow her instructions yesterday. She replied and said that i was to wear my balls-separator harness and the panties was to wear yesterday. She made a passing comment that i "should've worn the panties yesterday", but did not elaborate. Although She didn't say, i suspect i am in line to be punished for that. Something else that i wish i had read in a text but never came was the direction/authorization for free self-play (no cumming though). Poor me!
Sub Hub, Looks like, when you step back an analyze 'yesterday' you really didn't put your wife's instructions first - meaning you didn't put on the panties she told you to wear and because it wasn't your top priority that order got tossed aside in lieu of other more pressing things. I know that I do the same thing too sometimes. I don't intentionally do wrong but I forget (or choose) to not put her orders at the top of my priority list. I always regret it afterward. Hopefully this is an example of a lesson learned and will keep you from repeating the same thing next time. Nice post!
ReplyDeleteThanks bud. Exactly right ... I didn't put the proper importance on what my instructions were. That being said, there is no excuse. It wasn't the end of the world but at the very same time it is not at all acceptable behavior to be sure. As such it's all a part of the growth and of lessons learned (as you said) and i know that whatever retribution may come of it is inevitable.
DeleteThanks so much for your comments. I love reading your blog and admire your words and so I consider it a source of pride to have you as a reader. And when you comment, and when you say things in your comments like "Nice post!" .... even more so!
a ball seaparater- that sounds uncomfortable-!
ReplyDeleteI know, it does sound that way but it is actually very, very comfortable. I wish I had a better name for it but essentially that is what it does. In this recent post there is a picture of what one looks like, although mine is a little different.
Deletehttp://subhubphx.blogspot.com/2014/03/balls-harness.html
Mine is made out of neoprene which is the same material they use to make wet-suits, which makes it very comfortable to wear all day. Yes, it stretches the balls away from the body but not in a disfiguring way. It also holds my balls out just enough all day that I am constantly reminded that they are harnessed by my Mistress as symbol of my devotion.
Thank you so much for the comment little. I enjoy your blog very much.
There was no reason not to wear the panties you were instructed to wear.
ReplyDeleteYou are absolutely correct, and I feel terrible about it. Thank you for your comment
DeleteOh day one and you forgot ... Stay on top of her instructions or 9 days are going to be long ! And I'm sure she's keeping track of things .. Yikes
ReplyDeleteD has only been gone a few days, it sucks too ! I think separation is hard for all of us it sends our world spinning :; ~ s
Couldn't agree more lils. I want Her bad right now!
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