It is written by Georgia Ivey Green, better now perhaps to some as Mistress Ivey. It's an excellent blog to check out, especially for woman who want practicable information related to being in Female Led Relationship/Marriage.
Any, the topic was about ruined orgasms of course, which is something that seems to be constantly on my mind ... especially when it comes to being the default method that I would prefer to have an orgasm, of course if i were given the chance. There are times when Mistress K simply wants me to have a full-on, shake the ground orgasm, and i don't have the choice.
The reason i now prefer to have a ruined orgasm is obvious to those that use them (or experience them) in the FLR's. There is little, if any, waning of desire that usually accompanies a full on orgasm. Most men, hell every man, loses his sexual desire immediately following an orgasms. I won't go in to explaining why here because there are plenty of other resources from more intelligent people than me that can explain it. After a ruined orgasm however, my desire is still usually right there and as we all know, a submissive husband that is horny is way more attentive than a submissive husband that has recently had an orgasm. I truly love being in that constant state of desire. I truly have come to crave, as my primary sexual release, the non-pleasurable feeling of having my semen drain from my cock. Frankly, for me, it's very much like being milked anally. The semen just comes out of your body without the usual pulsing that accompanies a "real" orgasm.
My "real" orgasms are more and more rare as time marches on in our FLM. On the surface that might sound like I'm complaining about that very thing. I absolutely am not. My devotion to My Wife, to my Mistress naturally and lovingly also increases during that same time.
Then, when Mistress has decided that I've had enough, I get up, I clean up and we go on about our day. Sometimes there is a lull in desire afterward but not usually. If there is, it is very short lived and it is measured in hours. I don't know how I survived all these years without the knowledge of ruined orgasms. Frankly, this is something that should be taught in school! *smile OK, maybe not yet.