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Friday, September 12, 2014
Chastity, enforced by device and/or the other kind
Earlier today, one of my blogger friends (Locked Husband - http://locked-husband.blogspot.com/2014/09/porn-while-locked.html?zx=71051daccca5a0dc ) posted about how much more enjoyable it is for him to view pornography when he is locked in his cage. I encourage you to look at it. The reason was essentially that since touching himself and stimulating himself to pleasure is not an option, it allows him the absorb the images in a more meaningful manner, thereby appreciating it more.
I commented, and here was my comment:
I'm right there with you brother. I enjoy it waaaay more and much prefer looking at porn while in chastity. That being said, I haven't worn my cage for 3 months, and even then it was only for a day and was a part of my punishment that day. I'm lucky enough to be able to maintain my chastity without the need for a cage. I've demonstrated that I don't stroke with permission, I don't touch myself or otherwise play with myself without permission or supervision, and as a result, Mistress has a comfort level that my cage is not necessary. I think it goes without saying that I never yet have had an orgasm (knock on wood) without her permission, and only one time did i have an orgasm that wasn't supervised and witnessed by Mistress K. That one time was not only with her permission, it was an order. The cage has been relegated to a device used solely now for punishment and because of that, I take a bit of pride in being trusted by my Mistress like that.
I am so very proud of the trust that Mistress has in me with regard to her rules and my chastity. In the very beginning of our FLM, I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to keep my hands off my cock, or my fingers out of my ass because I thought I had enjoyed it so much before our new life. I was able to convince myself that if the FLM thing was to work out and be a real thing, i would be able to do that for my beloved Wife because it meant that I truly did want to please her ... and certainly betraying her trust would not please her.
I am so incredibly honored to be given the right to earn her trust and to demonstrate my devotion accordingly. I love you Mistress K. More than you will ever know.