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Friday, February 3, 2017

The source of happiness in a Wife Led Marriage

I came across this captioned picture.  Normally I think captioned pictures are generally lame or overly porn-like.  This particular picture, and more particularly the caption, captures the essence of what makes my FLM (and I suspect many, many others) a happy, loving union.


This accurately describes our life together before my submission was accepted by my Wife.  The numbers at the end of the caption aren't exactly accurate for us in that I was only allowed 5 orgasms all of last year, and 4 orgasms the year before that.  That being said, I have never been so happy with my sex life with the woman I cherish more than any other.  I DO worship the ground she walks on!

Thank you so very much Mistress K. for accepting my submission, for owning my sex and most of all my orgasms.  I cherish the collar you have placed on me.

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  1. And all the (full) orgasms you are allowed to have are, I'm sure, epic. The build up to a real orgasm takes days weeks or months in such a relationship and really can be mind blowing.

    You're a lucky boy, as I know I am too, in similar circumstances.

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    1. Thanks so much John. Not only are you a lucky boy, you are a lucky dog too. *wink

      I don't know about you, but my "full" orgasms are forever changed. They are mind blowing yes, especially when I am able to have one while in the missionary position and am able to look my wife directly in the eye while cumming. But they are different after so much time being led to the edge of orgasm and denied.

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  2. I'd say yes, that caption does get to the heart of most WLM's for sure. But 12 full orgasms a year? Somebody put a finger in that dam!

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    1. I know, right? I think little fact alone is what defines the caption as porn fueled. Only being allowed one full orgasm per month is NOT the denial I am accustomed to.

      Thanks as always brother for stopping by and leaving your words. I always appreciate it!

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  3. This is great, seems to sum it up perfectly from everything you describe.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Roz .... thank you. You are just so sweet for commenting on almost every single post of mine. I absolutely adore you!

      XOXOXO

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  4. Twelve FULL ejaculations a year? You are a very fortunate little subby! She must love you a lot.

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    1. Such and honor to have you stop by Mistress Julie. Thank you.

      Actually the stats were 5 FULL orgasms in 2016, and probably 10 or so full ejaculations. Mistress K. has me on a monthly, mandatory milking schedule that happens on the first Monday of every month. Sometimes that ejaculation comes via a ruined orgasm. Sometimes it is solely from prostate massage. All that being said, I have evolved to preferring ruined orgasm or denial of an orgasm over a full orgasm. In fact, Mistress informed me yesterday that "we" will be having orgasms tis weekend. I have pleaded with her to consider denying an orgasm for while she has several.

      Thank you again Julie, for stopping by and commenting.

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  5. So true, my girlfriend now my wife caught me a couple of times masturbating, looking at F/m magazines, it was not until the third time she took control. Oh I got a spanking, but only after she relieved me of my erection, not fun. Knows if I've been masturbating when we are enjoying one another. Spankings always get me a erection, she knows it, I will stand naked, hands on head, erection on display, she will insure I'm really hurting prior to the spanking, wanting to relieve myself. Worse spanking, vacation, discussion in the room, dinner afterwards, squirming in seat, older waitress smiled and told my wife, must have been really naughty, my wife softly said, caught him that was all.

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    1. Does that mean she has you masturbate before your spankings?

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    2. Yes, sometimes I must sit on the toilet, where she caught me and masturbate, other times a towel on the front room floor. Facing the wall most of the time or when she is really mad, stand facing her, holding limp penis.

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  6. sub hub if I may ask a question. I know you are pegged and enjoy it as I do. My question is this. I've looked at pegging films and pictures and in almost every one the man is clenching the sheets like he is going to tear the bed apart and his eyes are closed tight like he wants it to get over with. are you and me different in that we enjoy it? If you are so inclined maybe you would like to ask your followers that get pegged how they react. They are also holding still and when I get pegged I move with her.
    archedone

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    1. I'm with you archedone, It seems the porn industry has an idea of what a pegging should look like, like it should hurt as if it were punishment. I move with her when she pegs because I want to be one with her.

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  7. I envision finding a woman of such, but was not happening. I was seeing an older woman, we got along, lived in same apartment. Well she dropped in unexpected, was common, and caught me sitting on the toilet masturbating, looking at F/m magazines. Disgusting she said and told me to stand up. She looked at the magazines and said this is what you want, I softly said yes. Pull your pants up she said and to her place we went. Been awhile since I've used this, showing me a large paddle, but still good. I froze, to the bedroom she said and I felt the sting of the paddle, best do as I tell you young man and in the bedroom I was soon naked, over her lap and getting the spanking I've been wanting. I was a mess when she finished, sitting on her lap she said is this what you want, I hugged her and said yes. We continue to see one another and a few months later introduce me to a girl my age and we started seeing one another. I thanked her for the introduction, she smiled and said there is more and I thought nothing of it. It was not until I stepped out of the shower one Saturday morning, I saw her with that paddle, a present she said, now get to the bedroom young man and I did as told. She knew how to spank and I squirmed, kicked, pleaded and when she stopped and stood me up, still wish to be spanked, yes I said. My rules, do as told, oh she said I heard you got caught playing with yourself, I said nothing. It was not until a few days later I was kneeling on the floor, a blanket place down and was told to masturbate for her and I did as told. The spanking afterwards hurt a lot. I found my wife and could not be happier.

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    1. Those post orgasm spankings are the worst!

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    2. Yes they are, but I cannot explain, but I've always thought when I married it would be a woman who was in charge. There are times that the little boy comes out and she knows how to address it. To me, either totally undressed or just bare from the waist down, a otk spanking is the best, a lot of stress released. I have no concern when facing the wall, a quest drops in. Once during a spanking, a friend of her did drop in, the spanking continued, when done her friend smiled, and said been a naughty little boy, I said yes and was then told no rubbing and face the wall. I wired in away I cannot explain.

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  8. My wife allows me to cum only 3 times a year . And she will do it by rubbing me thru my silky panties , and telling me I have one minute to make a mess. And I usually do. If not, I have to wait another week or two and she will give me the same permission. I almost always cum, but he few times I have not, I loose my chance and have to wait another four months. Sometimes that is not so bad, her daily tease and deny is fabulous, and the feeling of denial keeps keeping better.

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    1. Wow, only 3 times a year. I thought it was rough for me with 5 time last year and 4 times each of the last two year. Does she only allow that many ejaculations, or are you milked and otherwise given ruined orgasms that cause ejaculation without the pleasure of an orgasm?

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  9. This male look long and hard for a female who would take charge. So after a couple of years of dating came across the one who I ended up marrying. We dated for several months and she would mentioned I needed a female to correct some of my ways. Met her mother several times, one time she smiled and said a trip to the bedroom would do him good looking at her daughter, that was all said. A week or so later I asked her to marry me, she said yes but and then layed down the rules, one of which was she would correct my ways. A week before the marriage stepping out of the shower, she greeted me, I saw the hairbrush in her hand, to the bedroom young man and I did as told dripping water. This is only the beginning she said and I received a very sound spanking. On our wedding day, married my mother-in-law, a widow, smiled and handed her daughter a present, its for you really she said to me. That first night I knew what she meant, it was a nice large hairbrush, my wife put it to use that first night. I squirmed at breakfast in a nice restaurant, the waitress smiled and to learning who is in charge, wish a pillow. I said no and continued to squirm.

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    1. How fantastic. Thanks for sharing. My wedding to my Mistress Wife was vanilla. 15 years later we had collaring ceremony in front of an officiant that officially and fully changed the dynamics of our marriage. We couldn't be happier.

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  10. My marriage is the strongest and I know it will last forever, when I stand before my wife, either naked, or pants and underpants around my ankles, a long scolding, followed by a sound spanking, and wall facing time to insure I know why a spanking was necessary. Sitting on her lap afterwards, squirming and she telling me that her love for me is why I at times need a trip across her lap. I agree with her, but it really hurts, and she said it should, or it would not be effective. Only once has another person seen me standing naked, red bottom on display, it was her best friend, but her husbands is also soundly spanked.

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    1. I completely understand those words Anonymous, and totally agree. Just the other day right before Mistress K. administered a punishment spanking, she asked why I usually have an erection when I am on the verge of getting a spanking. I told her it was because I just love so much that she cares enough for me to discipline me the way that she does. That she is willing to do it. I also told her I hate it when the paddle is doing it's work, but crave the correction. My erection is usually gone when the spanking is over.

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  11. I enjoy this blog, have yet to find a woman who would spank me, so thankful for this blog and F/m magazines. I will masturbate looking at this blog or my magazines, it does not matter where in my apartment. I find the front room is the best, could get caught, to me it is being very naughty doing it there. I've been able to hold it back, I learned to stroke slow and looking at the pictures I do not want it to end. Say what you will about coming out and admitting I masturbate, but it is the deepest secret I have and one day a woman might come along, but until then, this blog, the magazines and my hand will have to do.

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    1. I completely understand my friend. If I were unattached, I would do the same thing. If I weren't absolutely prohibited from masturbating, I would do it often I suppose. I love it that you masturbate to this blog. What about it do you enjoy the most?

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    2. This blog just let me know others like me are out there. If you are asking what about masturbating I enjoy the most, it is holding back, seeing myself over a woman's lap and being soundly spanked, I find at this times I stroke faster and hold back as long as I can, when I cum, I see myself standing before her, rubbing a soundly spanked bottom.

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  12. Masturbating, how about a woman's view, It is Disgusting and I will not accept, tolerate, condone, it. Shows that men are little boys, my brothers growing up at a young age were caught by Mother doing such, needless to say in those days, their bottoms will soon soundly spanked and Mother had them stand in the corner, I so enjoyed that. Recently a boyfriend of mine I caught, he was not expecting me, found him looking at magazines and stroking away. He was beyond shock, I tore into him and finally said, wish to be a little boy again, I can help. I had him strip, then had him finish what he started, trust me the spanking this pervert got insured he would not that again. He sure danced around the room afterwards and he thought I was done, he faced the wall, then I gave him another spanking to make sure he knew I was mad. I did enjoy going out to dinner, it was already planned. Squirming during dinner, so cute, just handed to his punishment. Was a couple of weeks before we had sex, part of his punishment.

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    1. Mistress K. sees unauthorized/unsupervised masturbation as akin to cheating.

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    2. Very much so and my bottom learns how hard a woman can soundly spank it and facing the wall along time. Also no longer to go to the bathroom alone, she watches and insures I just do my business, and that I wash my hands good. What to feel like a naughty little boy, have your wife supervise as you use the bathroom.

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    3. Mistress K. considered monitoring my bathroom activities in the beginning but came to the conclusion that by doing so she was setting the tone for an expectation of failure .... by trusting me, she is setting the tone for an expectation of success (not touching my cock)

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  13. This submissive husband lives in the country, which is great. The woman I married is a farm girl, and we hit it right off. She is a take charge woman and while dating the subject of her having to be in charge was okay with me. After a few drinks one evening I mentioned spankings, the next morning she brought it up and I admitted it was something I desired. It was not until after we married a couple of months I stayed out late with some friends, came home early in the morning, hung over and looking forward going to bed. She was standing in the door, she sternly said time for her take charge and I better do as told. I was told to undress, naked, she took my arm and to the woodshed we went. Leaving the shed I was rubbing, crying, and she landed that paddle all the way to the house. A knock on the door and the woman who delievered the paper saw me, naughty husband she asked, more like naughty little boy my wife said, nice work she said and my wife Thanked her and said she was not done with this naughty little boy. I faced the wall in the kitchen, she bathed me like a little boy, told me to get to bed. I awoke late afternoon, had my pajamas on, told to remove them and that second trip to the wood shed I dreaded, naked and still sore. the walk back feeling the sting of the paddle told me best not stay out late again. I'm spanked always in the same matter and my wife means every spank and boy do I know it.

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    1. What an awesome story. Thank you so much for sharing here!!!

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  14. I'm sure that my wonderful wife, Cindy, agrees with some aspects of the caption. I'm glad that she doesn't seem to agree with all of them. She has definitely taken control of my cock and balls. However, I am very glad that she doesn't feel a need to limit my orgasms. Her philosophy is that she will maintain control and insure that we each are equally sexually satisfied. She is looking out for herself, but also not forgetting about my sexual needs.

    Larry

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    1. Thanks for stopping by Larry. I always appreciate comments, especially from new friends.

      We're all different in how we live our respective lives and as such I am happy you are happy. That being said, I worried so much about not being able to orgasm whenever I wanted in the beginning as well. Mistress K essentially took control of my orgasms at my request because she was inclined to want to allow me that freedom as well. We both came realize quickly that her exclusive control of ALL of my sex, in every form, would turn out to be the cornerstone of our FLM. soon enough I realized that even though my sexual releases were becoming fewer and farther between, the sexual satisfaction we BOTH enjoyed was enhanced greatly!!!! Even though I had 4 orgasms in 2015 and 5 in 2016, I can honestly say that my sex life has never been better than it is right now. Yes there were times she needed to remind me that our committed lifestyle was everything to do with her orgasms and not mine, I quickly was able to replace my orgasms as being the defining moment of sex. I get soooo much sexual satisfaction from her orgasms that sometimes even beg her to deny me an orgasm.

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