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Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Objectification. It's the little things

I was in the shower this morning getting ready to go to work.  Mistress returned from taking the kids to school and stood in the entry to the shower to tell me a story she had just heard on the radio about a cat that was thought to be dead, was buried, then clawed it's way out of the grave and is alive.  It was an interesting story.

While I was washing myself and rinsing my hair under the warm water, she was looking at me in a way that made me feel she really enjoyed what she was seeing.  When we were through talking about the cat story, she reached for a small wash cloth and placed it on the floor of the shower.  She told me put some soap in my hand and then told me to kneel on the small cloth.  I was instructed to masturbate for her.  I was not erect when I was given these instructions but started to masturbate anyway.  She likes to have me masturbate for her, I think partly because she just likes to watch and partly because she likes to allow me to because I no longer am able to masturbate like i did before we entered this glorious life that we lead. 

She said "I don't want to watch you stroke a limp cock.  Get it hard for me."  Even though i was limp, I was at the edge of orgasm.  She didn't care, and repeated her instruction to get it hard.  It was very much like what is expected in a "Devotional Sex" relationship where the man (knight) is expected to reveal his penis and then become erect when the woman (Princess) utters the word "present".  My erection was on it's way, albeit slower than either of us wanted.  The moment she raised an eyebrow as if to project that failure to become erect immediately would result in disappointment, I became hard as a rock!  This pleased Mistress to no end and as such, she lifted the pajama top she was wearing to reveal her breasts and torso and moved toward where I was kneeling, and offered them to me to worship.  I so much love to worship Mistress' breasts and tummy, and especially that part between her belly button and her, um, promised land.  After only a few minutes, she told me to stop, finish my shower and then get ready for work.  She told me (for the 3rd day in a row) to just dress normal under my clothes today.  Since starting our FLM, there has never been a 3rd day in a row that Mistress has instructed me not to wear something.  It's rarely ever 2 days in a row for that matter. 

Did I feel objectified by Mistress during this impromptu little scene?  Yes I did.  Did I enjoy being objectified by Mistress?  YOU'RE DAMN RIGHT I DID!  There is hardly anything I enjoy more than performing sexually for Mistress' viewing pleasure.  I just love it when she tells me to do it, whether it is masturbating while she watches or showing her how I fuck my self with the dildo she has for me.  When it is not something planned like this morning, it is especially rewarding.

Thank you Mistress!



18 comments:

  1. It's the unexpected rewards that keeps us coming back for more. DtBHC.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by and commenting DtBHC. I totally agree with your statement and will even go on to say that all of it, whatever it is she decides that makes her happy, is a reward.

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  2. Your and my Mistress think alike. R also loves to tell me to masturbate for her, and while I'm doing it she never takes her eyes off the point of interest. I wonder why she is letting you dress normal?
    archedone

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    1. Thanks arechedone. I wondered why she was having me dress "normal" the past few days as well. this morning, when she had me do it again, I asked her why. Her knee-jerk response was because she said so, but being the gracious Mistress that she is, she also elaborated and said that she felt that maybe I was getting too dependent on her telling me to wear something that would be a symbol on that day of our kink. That explanation, in and of itself made me love her a little bit more.

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  3. I forgot to add that last night I got a just because spanking. We were watching TV and a commercial came on and she said go and get me the wooden spoon I'm going to spank you. I fetched the spoon and brought it to her asking did I do something wrong? She said no pull your panties down and get across my lap, I just feel like spanking you. I did as told and for the next half an hour or so she spanked just giving my bottom a little sting and getting mostly grateful moans of pleasure from me. I was a nice red color when she was done and I thanked her for spanking me. I love those kind of spankings.
    archedone

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  4. A fully clothed Mistress standing before her naked sub and demanding that he masturbate for her on the spur of the moment is an excellent example of one of my favorite words - CONTROL. Sems as though your Mistress's control of you is in excellent shape, especially since she demanded a hard cock into the bargain and you complied as a good sub should. Kudos to both of you.

    It is a little unclear, though, as to whether she told you to stop before you actually ejaculated. Perhaps you could clarify? I would think that denying you an orgasm after ordering you to get hard and masturbate - and allowing you to worship her breasts and tummy - would have been some icing on the cake, and an interesting adjunct to your objectification. If that didn't happen....well, there's always the next time:)

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    1. Hi Lady Grey and thank you so much taking the time to read and comment. You're right, I did leave out that little fact. please forgive me for that. I usually intend to pain a clear picture in the readers mind when I post.

      To clarify ... yes, Mistress did purposely have me stop before ejaculation, which is what I am accustomed to. So indeed, there was plenty of "icing on the cake" in that regard. My desire to ejaculate (even if only a ruined orgasm) was incredibly high as it usually is in a edging/demonstration situation such as described in the post. Mistress is incredibly adept and building my desire to a fevered pitch before shutting me down. So much so in fact that I literally am left panting and moaning for a couple minutes after she has stopped all activities. Ain't she great?

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  5. What a great scene that shows the control she has over you as she leaves you panting and moaning after she has stopped the scene. She is doing a great job in denying you after getting you so close. Will be curious to see how many times she will do this in the future before you get a ruined one. The more she does it, the more controlled and submissive you should feel. Also will be interesting to see whether you will dress in normal clothes Friday.

    FD

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    1. Hi FD. thank you as always for participating. Indeed you are correct, I do feel more controlled and submissive, and not just because of sessions like this, but because it is naturally where our lifestyle is taking us.

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  6. How do you explain to someone outside of our world that the reward is realized by NOT getting what you want (or could have wanted)? Isn't it nice being used? Loving it. JT

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    1. Hi JT,and thank you for stopping by and commenting. My answer to your first would be .... you can't, unless they are open-minded enough to hear about why our lifestyle has merit based in many things like logic, reason, love, honor, respect. You get the idea. In the absence of a general understanding of a Dominant/submissive relationship, my guess is that most "outside" people would merely think we are deranged perverts.

      To answer your second question ... YES! Yes it is, because it seems to provide my Mistress Wife and after all, that's what I live for.

      Thanks again for stopping by.

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  7. That picture is so hot, and matches perfectly with your post! Pointing out the obvious here probably, but, yum! :)

    What an awesome way to start the day, huh? xx :D

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  8. Wow, that is a subby dream! I have had a few occasions where my wife wanted me hard and it just wasn't happening quick enough for her. I have also had the feeling that you describe of not being erect, but totally ready to cum, usually with minimal stimulation. Love it!

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    1. thanks so much MRBILL. I always enjoy "seeing you" when you stop by.

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  9. sub hub I just read strict Julie. Reading some of the comments from her readers and her response can you imagine the embarrassment and submission david will have if she follows thru by locking his cock in front of his trainer then the embarrassment he would have to present his bottom to his trainer so she can peg him. When Mistress Julie is done training david he will be very well trained.
    archedone

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    1. Archedone, I just love her blog. She is very strict indeed and beyond being an obviously sexy, hot and accomplished Mistress, she seems like a generally cool chick as well, which only adds to her hotness.

      I can see how he might have been embarrassed initially in his relationship with Miss Julie, and maybe even a little with this new trainer, but I'm certain that david would adapt very quickly and assume his proper role of obedient sub, and do so with pride and not embarrassment. I know I would be.

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