On Friday morning, I was waiting naked in my usual spot for Mistress to return from taking the kids to school. Being able to greet her naked when she walks in the door is one of those simple little pleasures that mean the world to me. I am grateful for being able to frequently do that during the school year. I will sometimes daydream about it being this way at all times once we are empty-nesters ... someday.
She walked in the door and as usual said "hello there naked boy" and came over and held me close. While we were hugging and I was pressing myself against (because she allows me to do that), she said "we need to trim your body hair. Come with me". With that she led me into the bathroom and instructed me to retrieve the clippers and get them set up. She took me into our walk-in shower and proceeded to trim (very closely) on my entire body. This process usually take about 10 minutes, not because I am that particularly hairy (she might disagree) but more because Mistress likes to do nice job. It's a wonderful feeling to be required to "stand still" and be naked while Mistress attends to my body, even if it is for a trim.
When we were done, I was cleaning up the hair from the shower floor (wasn't too much) and putting away the clippers and whatnot, Mistress was watching me intently. A quick rinse in the shower followed and when I emerged, Mistress wanted to touch me. Yummy. I love it when Mistress touches me but I especially do when she is feeling amorous and frisky. I love how she holds my ass cheeks open and reminds me that it is hers. I love it how she will tease me unmerciful by moving her hands all over my body but avoiding my cock and balls. On this morning however, she didn't avoid anything. She had me sufficiently teased and edged in no time. She'd bring me to the edge and then while I'm teetering on it, she tell me that I had better not cum. Then she'll stop for a moment and do it again. All this was happening while we were standing in the middle of the bathroom, in front of the mirror while she was having me look at what she was doing to me. This process repeated six or seven times and in the mirror, I was able to see the ledge on the edge of our big tub where just 5 or 6 days earlier, Mistress had called me into the bathroom while she was in the tub. She had me bring my phone to her. On that ledge I was told to stand facing her, spread my legs as far as need to straddled that end of the tub, and then masturbate for her viewing pleasure while she bathed, shaved her legs and shaved her pussy. Seeing the spot in the mirror brought my mind to what an incredible thing that was. All this reminiscing was happening while Mistress was edging me mercilessly. I was right on the verge, dangerously so and urgently I let Mistress know i was there. She didn't stop. I tried to wriggle away to avoid cumming without permission but she ordered me to not move. She continued despite my pleas to stop or "I will come". From experience I knew that Mistress had every intention of ruining my orgasm right then and so i asked her permission to ejaculate. She didn't say a word but it was obvious that I was at the point of no return when Mistress abruptly stopped stroking me and simple, and calmly said "yes, you may ejaculate if you are able", and then starting to rub my ass and hole. Within 10 seconds, my ejaculation was pouring out of me and on to the floor where I stood.
Once all the cum stopped draining from my needy cock, Mistress removed her hands from my body, kissed me tenderly on the cheek and said "clean up your little mess and get dressed for work". I said yes Mistress, thank You Mistress and went to retrieve a towel and some wet wipes while she walked out of the room. With all the talk recently about cum eating, I paused for a moment and wondered how it would feel if my instructions were to eat my cum. It was only a second and I was glad those weren't my instructions. I cleaned up the mess on the floor, went into the kitchen where Mistress was and thanked her for my ruined orgasm, for the body maintenance and for loving me like she does.
It was a good morning.
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I can see the submission in being required to consume your cum. But I can very much see that if it does nothing for your Mistress - then it really has no place for you two.
ReplyDeleteMy Man has me clean him off- which thankfully I happen to find equally submissive and sexy as hell! Not sure if I would feel sexy at all if I had to lap up my cum from squirting- clean him off yes- outright drink- wow- not sure how I would feel about that.
Totally agree PearlNecklace, and the last I heard from Mistress, it still does nothing for her. Whew!
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Sounds like a great morning. I'm with you on the empty nest dreams. Someday..not soon, but someday.
ReplyDeleteA Young/middle aged couple can dream, right? Thanks for taking the time to comment CollaredMom!
DeleteIt is absolutely wonderful to have come across a blog with the topic of ruined releases in it. It Is amazing to me what an unknown and underappreciated topic they still are. bravo and congrats on what sounded like the perfect start to a day.
ReplyDeleteThank you Anonymous. I totally agree ... ruined orgasms are (or should be) an integral part of any FLM/FLR. So useful to the Domme/Mistress in that she doesn't have to suffer through those woeful hours, even days of reduced dopamine levels in her submissive male. Although we have never talked about it specifically, I believe it is the default reason why the number of full-on orgasms that Mistress K. allows me to have been significantly minimal ... like in maybe 4 per year. That was last year. Who knows what this year will bring. But that's kind of the point isn't it. Why would Mistress K. allow the kind of orgasms that make any male pouty, lethargic and less interested in pleasing her when ruining his orgasms avoids all of that?
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Obviously a very good morning. I wonder if cum eating will be part of your future. And does she shave you often?.
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Hello FD, and thank you as always for taking the time to stop by and impart your wisdom. By virtue of me bringing up cum eating in my post, it wasn't my intention to imply that Mistress (nor I for that matter) feel any different about the topic of me eating my cum. Mistress and I have talked about it only a couple of times, but only in the sense that she didn't see any benefit in event thinking about it because she thinks it's gross ... so no, I don't think it will happen.
DeleteMistress K. does not shave me, perse. She requires that my balls, cock and ass be shaved smooth at all times, and that I am subject to random inspections to that end. Any hair that sprouts up on other parts of my body is trimmed (very short) by Mistress when she looks at me and decides it's time to do that.
You two have such a special relationship and it is clear that you both compliment each other perfectly.
ReplyDeleteSuch a very nice thing to say DtBHC. Thank you for taking the time to say it.
DeleteSounds like a wonderful way to start the day! :)
ReplyDeleteIt really was. I love it when Mistress surprises me like this. I don't know if she plans it or if it is impromptu, but it's always wonderful when it happens.
DeleteYour morning was very complete. First standing nude while she shaved you smooth as the day you were born. Then teasing you time after time bringing you to the edge and then stopping before finally letting you have a ruined orgasm. For those that have blogs or follow blogs we know what we do is not for everyone. What counts is that what we do makes us both happy. At times my Mistress will feed me my cum using her finger if I climax on her stomach or breasts and at times she will have me lick her smooth pussy after we have sex. She likes the way it shows my submission to her and it puts me in a very high sub state. If you and Mistress do not care for it that is super. You both have a wonderful relationship and nothing should ruin that.
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Thanks as always for stopping by and commenting archedone. I always appreciate your kind words.
DeleteYou made a good point to explain why Mistress limits your full orgasms. She understands her submissive and knows how to keep you under her control. Allowing you just four full orgasms a year is a good way to keep you very interesting in pleasing her..Are they spread out once every three months or just when she decides it is time to give you a full one? And a good idea that she gives you random inspections to make sure you aren't sprouting any unnecessary hair. Do you usually pass those inspections or does she usually fine hair she must trim?. Are you ever punished for having unnecessary hair? And I understand that eating cum isn't her thing so that won't be part of your submission.
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HI again FD. As far as I know, full orgasms for me are not something that are strictly planned for, say once every three months or so. Rather, it appears that it is around that time that Mistress feels the desire to force me to have a full orgasm. For the several (more than 4) orgasms I have had, they were orgasms I was required to have, with each of them being while inside of Mistress. She says there are just times that she wants to see and feel me have a complete orgasm while inside her. Each of those times, when she told me that I was expected to have a complete orgasm, my knee jerk reaction was to ask her not to allow me to orgasm. Since, my reaction has changed to usually asking (begging) for a ruined orgasm instead.
DeleteI usually do pass inspection. It's nearly impossible to be completely, I mean literally hair free, and Mistress is aware of that. Heck, 6 hours after the smoothest shave ever, there is stubble. I think she cares mostly that I don't take the obligation to be smoothly shaved for granted. I maintenance shave on average every 2-3 days. Yes, I have been punished for not having kept myself smooth. While being spanked, I distinctly remember Mistress telling me that her discovering my lack of maintenance there, indicated to her that I really think that the rules needed to be followed, which she felt was disrespectful. I have been punished for hair, yes, but not often.
Eating cum isn't her thing, at least as late as the last time we talked about it at our most recent dinner "meeting" where we assess our FLM. I mentioned it because there were several post and comments in the not-to-distant past about the topic, plus I have an occasional anonymous visitor that like to drive home the point that any respectable submissive male should always be expected to consume any ejaculate he produces, not because the act itself is sexually arousing (it isn't), but because it is a basic symbol and gesture of submission ... much like the pain of a harsh spanking ... the pain and sting itself is not at all arousing wile it is happening. Not at all. The idea that it is something required to endure is. I hope that makes sense.
Finally getting caught up around here! Oh how I missed reading your posts, brother sub! xx
ReplyDeleteWell .... get after it will ya? It's about time! *smile
Delete*giggles* Right? I need a good paddling, I tell ya! ;)
DeleteOh what a great post. So happy for you.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Brooke! I really appreciate it.
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