Saturday, June 6, 2015

Punishment Spanking on my mind

Over the past few days, I've had punishment spankings on my mind.  Not fantasies (well not all fantasies), not questioning it use or importance in my life with Mistress K. (I never have a single doubt about), but more along the lines of how and in what context.

I told Mistress K. about a very short dream I had the other night that mostly included a spanking wall.  We were somewhere (I don't know where) and we were with people (I don't know who) that we were with in a banquet room (I don't know why) eating dinner or something at a table that probably sat 10.  The chair next to me was empty (Mistress K.'s seat I presume) but the rest of the table was full.  Oh, and I was naked and wearing a ball harness that is basically a Velcro secured piece of rubber that wraps around the base of my balls and separates them from the rest of my body.  Mistress will sometimes have me wear this under my clothes.  Also, it has a "D" Ring attached to it.  Even though I was naked, it didn't seem at all out of place.  I was engaged with everyone else at the table in witty banter when all of a sudden Mistress comes up to me, grabs me by the ear, pulls me to my feet and begins to scold me for something.  I don't what for though.  She is NOT happy (thank God it was just a dream).  She attached a leash to my balls harness and roughly pulls on it indicating that I should follow her.  She leads me into a room and on the far wall there are three hooks.  Two of them are high and have cuffs attached to them and the other on is the same height as my balls harness.

She leads me to this wall, still obviously not happy with me for some reason.  She secures my wrists in the cuffs and attaches them to the hooks in the wall.  It fully stretched my arms and body although my feet are still comfortably on the floor.  She attaches my balls harness tightly the third and by doing so, it pulls the entire front of my body flush and tight up against the wall.  I'm scared shitless.  Not because it appears that I am about to get a punishment but because she is obviously not happy with, I mean really, really not happy) and I don't know why.  Standing there, securely bound and pressed to the wall, she whispers behind me in an obviously angry voice .... This is going to test your boundaries, your devotion to our marriage and your courage.  With that she left the room, closing the door behind her, leaving me all alone in that position.  Then I WOKE UP!

When I woke up I was so relieved that it was a dream because I never, ever want for Mistress to be angry like that toward me.  I told her about it briefly and we haven't had any time alone to discuss it further other than for her to say "I like the sound of that wall".

Then, when browsing this morning, I came across this story from Femdomous:

Take a moment and read it.  It's a fantasy site that has all kinds of Femdom stories, but I mostly like it because there is always a sexy drawing accompanying the story.  This story happened to be about what I believe to be the absolute worst kind of punishment spanking there.  The dreaded post-orgasm story.  If you are a submissive man, and have ever been required to an orgasm immediately preceding a harsh punishment spanking, you know what I am talking about.  It's the worst!

Mistress K. has done this to me on only 2 occasions in the past.  I can tell you I high degree of certainty that is never something I want to have happen to me again.  Did I mention it was awful?

Submissive men .... do what you are told and behave yourselves soyou can minimize the chances of this ever happening to you. 

Dominant Wives/Women  .... if you ever want to really emphasize the punishment part of a punishment spanking. this will do it.

I'm pretty sure that these two things are a primary reason that I have had spankings on my mind the last few days.  Oh, that and the fact that Mistress owes me 2 punishment spankings.


  1. Outside of the anger you felt from your Mistress K in your dream- it was kind of really sexy!

    1. Scratch was like REALLY hot!!!

    2. God I know Pearl! I don't even know if anger is the right word. You know are dreams are. Things don't always make sense.

      Thank you as always for coming by. Have a great weekend.

  2. SH,

    I can't believe you told her about it, giving her ideas like that - you may live to regret it or really REALLY be thankful you did. Hummm, guess we will all have to wait and see if it becomes a reality you naughty boy. Hugs and enjoy the rest of your weekend.

    1. HA K, I never thought about that. I'm pretty sure that not telling about things like would ultimately turn out to be a bad idea, for a lot reasons. Coincidently enough, about 10 minutes after posting this yesterday, we found ourselves with a couple hours of alone time. I received my punishment then, but only after I was allowed to worship her naked body for about 30 minutes. yesterday morning, Mistress put me in a leather cock ring (tight) that has2 additional straps that spread and separate each of balls as well (also tight). I blog about it hopefully today but being in that device when not hard, having it synched up tight, then worshipping body, well the pain to my cock and balls was exquisite.

      *whew ... I'd better stop

      Thank you as always for coming by darling. Hope your weekend is going well.

  3. Even if it is mainly for the art it is nice to see Femdomous mentioned. You have an intelligent and sensitive F/m blog.

    1. Thank you so much Richard for the very kind words. Is Femdomous yours?

      In reading it again, I may have been careless with my words. I should've said it was the sexy art that drew me to the blog, and now, when I get an an almost daily email telling me a new entry is there, I get all excited and can't wait to see it.

      Please forgive me for my poor choice of words when describing Femdomous. Thank you again for stopping and commenting. I really appreciate it.

  4. Hi sub hub, your dream had something of the sleeping beauty books, it seems you have sort of pretty exciting dreams. :) Wishing you a happy Sunday.



    1. Yes NI Na, I guess you are right. I don't always have exciting dreams but this particular dream was exciting AND scary.

      Thank you as always for commenting.

  5. Wow sub hub, that was some dream! The wall sounded very interesting :) Hope you are having a wonderful weekend.


    1. Thanks Roz ...... Muah! I hope you are having a great weekend too.!

  6. Hello SHIP,
    If my husband related a dream like that or started talking about post orgasm spanking I would suspect he had been very naughty and was apprehensive that he was going to be severely punished. If you have not been particular naughty but are just dreading the punishments your wife has already scheduled, maybe you need to ask her to get them over with to regain your peace of mind (and good sleep) But if you have been particularly naughty ( and you know very well if you have) you should confess it to your wife and ask her to punish you even with a post orgasm spanking if you have earned one. You will feel much better if you do and she will be very proud of you

    1. Hi Marissa. I'm so thrilled to have you stop by and comment.

      I understand what you are saying, but I can assure, there was no lingering guilt nor hiding of transgressions. I have made a commitment to Mistress that I would not lie (or lie by omission) about my behavior, including any transgressions that may have occurred. Over time, I've earned her trust which first manifested itself by her believing that I no longer should be required to wear a chastity device. She trusts me and I've worked real hard to earn that trust.

      Mistress had also corrected my unintended topping from the bottom. She will no longer allow me to utter "suggestions" about anything as a way introducing ideas to her. Even if it is in the form of a dream. Therefore, if I have earned a spanking, even the god awful post orgasm spanking, I am well aware of the benefits of owning up to it right away.

      I do ask Mistress to consider implementing my punishments as quickly as is feasible and convenient for her. She is mostly accommodating in this regard, but you know how life can be sometimes. To Mistress K., me wanting to get it over with so I can clear my slate and regain peace of mind matters, but not to her.

      Thank you again for coming and commenting.

    2. I rarely make him wait preferring to punish as soon as possible after an offense. But your lady is doing a wonderful job judging by what an obedient and truthful husband you have become. i do put stress on confession and believe it is good for the soul and the relationship. I am glad you practice it too understanding there are lies of commission as well as omission, the latter sometimes being the worst

    3. Thank you for the kind words about my beautiful Mistress. I agree, confession is a must. Like you said, it avoids lying by omission which in my mind is just as bad as outright lying.

      The only reason for a delay in executing punishments for us has to do mostly with the realty of children and other vanilla activity that we constantly find ourselves in the middle of. We both look forward to the day when we are empty nesters and things like instantaneous punishment can become the rule rather than the exception.

      Thank you for taking the time to stop by and comment. I really appreciate it>


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