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Sunday, August 24, 2014

Sleeping with a butt plug

Mistress was helping her girlfriend by agreeing to stay with her while she hosted a birthday party for 10 (or so) screaming 9 year old girls at a local resort for most of the day yesterday and over night.  Local resorts here are a favorite place for locals to stay-cation at because it is so inexpensive.  In any event, after dropping Mistress off at the hotel, she instructed me to go home, shower and insert a butt plug.  I thought she only wanted me to wear it for the evening and remove it before going to bed.  Why?  I guess I don't know.  I guess I assumed that she would want me to remove it because even though I had done it before, it was when Mistress had given me free reign for a couple of days, and it was something I had always wanted to try because I had heard that it gives you erotic dreams (it does, btw). 

This morning, I had sent a "good morning Mistress" text so she would see it when she awoke.  After she responded a couple of hours later, I asked her if she wanted me to re0inseret the plug this morning or not.  That's when the trouble started. 

Mistress was none to happy that I was even asking because, as she pointed out, I hadn't asked for permission to remove it in the first place.  I apologized and tried to explain why I took it out but she was having none of it.  The only thing that mattered to her (and rightfully so) was that I removed it without permission.  I am getting better at it but I need to better at not assuming anything and that I need to ask permission for most such things.

After a bit of silence on the texting front, a short "no BP this morning" text comes thorugh, followed by a "i'll be home in ten" text.



11 comments:

  1. I have that problem too...assuming. It's kind of a hard habit to break but I am really trying to remember to ask whenever I am in doubt or instructions are somewhat vague. Good luck in whatever punishment awaits!

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    1. HI little girl. Thanks for stopping and commenting. I know that assuming is hardly the right thing to do, but sometimes it just isn't practicable to get clarity and one is sort of forced to have to choose based on an "assumption". When faced with that, I will always try to "assume" what it is I think Mistress wants and not what I might prefer. In this particular case, I would've thought it a bit of a treat to sleep with my plug in and as such, didn't feel that it would've been ok for me to just assume that is what Mistress wanted for me. Especially since the last time she had me wear my plug, I asked if I could/should wear it to sleep and she said no, she didn't think it was a good idea.

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  2. Assuming gets me into trouble every time. I always try to ask upfront the requirements of the task. How long? When/what allowed removal?, etc. Hope you aren't in too much trouble.

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    1. I'm right there with you His slut. I always try to ask too, and while i'm asking, I try not to be a pest. Be that as it may, at the end of the day, in this particular situation, I did remove the plug from my ass without permission from Mistress, and even though I thought (assumed) it's what Mistress would've wanted me to do, she's in saying that it is not my place to assume.

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  3. When we are given instructions and you have any doubt always ask.
    archedone

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    1. Yes< anonymous archedone, you are absolutely correct.

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  4. UPDATE: Mistress has decided that even though it is not my place to assume, and even though it removed the plug from my ass without permission to do so, there will be no punishment for this.

    With that in mind, and even without a red, stinging, sore bottom, the lesson has been learned by this sub. I will not just assume.

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  5. I can truly say that most of punishments I inflicted on my slave were due to him assuming too much.
    Better for you if you are not going to be punished in the end...make sure that the lesson is learned otherwise next time....well you know.... ;-)

    kiss

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    1. Yes, of course Mistress Angie, i do know. After all, lesson learned is always the goal.

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  6. I couldn't help but think back to my high school years and hearing someone tell me for the first time that when you Assume you make an ASS- out of - U - and -ME- and after a few seconds that those three words spelled Assume :). My friend, you sure do know how to keep the waters of trouble stirring on the home front :) Next thing you will be hearing is "48 hours"! Be good!

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    1. No 48 hours this time. Like you IH, that's exactly what I expected, but Mistress K. surprised me and said that there would not be a spanking punishment because she felt that the circumstances warranted that an assumption may have been warranted on my part. I told that I assumed that she would've wanted me to remove the plug because it was my belief that she knew that it would've been something that I would've enjoy immensely (and it would've been) and so therefore I assumed on the side of not taking sexual pleasure without permission ... so to speak.

      In any even, i am so glad you weighed-in. Thanks for commenting my friend!

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