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When I saw it, I immediately thought about what an honor it would be to be marked in such a way as to memorialize my gift of submission to Mistress K, my beloved wife.
here is how the texting commentary went:
Me: I would do this for you (insert above picture here)
Mistress K: What about your annual physical?
Me: Even still
Mistress K: KISS
Me: I'd wear that just like I'd wear your ring, your plug or your panties
Mistress K: Maybe we should discuss further.
Me: Yes Mistress I look forward to that.
In a perfect world, I would wear those very words and substitute Mistress Cherry for Mistress K. The reality is that I could never have that same exact tattoo on my genitals because of the fact that I have annual physicals. What I absolutely could and would do is to be permanently marked in some way that would memorialize the nature of our relationship. Perhaps even in relation to our upcoming Vows Renewal Ceremony that we are planning in October (read about it here ...
http://subhubphx.blogspot.com/2014/02/we-found-our-officiant.html Sorry, I don't know how to do the "link" thingy.
Which reminds me, since I first started posted about our upcoming vow renewal ceremony, Mistress K and I have made many new friends here, and it occurred to me that hadn't asked for suggestions or comments on some of the thins we should have in the vows and in our very private, very intimate ceremony.
So, new friends, what do ya think?
When we first began M/s, one of the first things Heron insisted I do was mark in the same area as pictured above "Pain Pig". Every day, I had to use a sharpie and write it on. Eventually, he wanted something more permanent. Of course, with kids that frequently barge in on me, among other obvious reasons, having that tattooed on me probably wouldn't have been realistic. So I offered to design something that I was comfortable with but still honored the original intent. So I came up with 2 artistic P's. One is black and one is red and the lay intertwined but facing in opposite directions. It's tattooed very low on my left hip bone and while the 2 p's stood for pain pig, we actually think of it now as pleasure and pain.
ReplyDeleteAs far as vow suggestions...I'll have to think about it. That's a tough one because vows can be so personal.
Hi little girl. First, let me say thank you for choosing to be a follower of the blog. I really do appreciate it and am so excited you think enough of it to comment.
DeleteI love the idea of the 2 P's. Something that is a permanent reminder that you have been branded.
I hope you will give the ideas surrounding our ceremony a think and let me know. They can be vow suggestions and/or suggestions on how we should run the ceremony. It will be private with only Mistress, myself and the female officiant with whom we have already met to discuss the Femdom, D/s nature of both our marriage and the ceremony.
Do about the tattoo. I myself would get one like that and since I work in the medical field you wouldn't believe what I see ! That is tame compared to what's been seen with my eyes lol. You could always use symbols for true words too make your doc think lol.
ReplyDeleteFor vows ? I have to think a min but I'll think of something good for you :) ~ s
PS I have a certain tattoo I can't say here well because duah if anyone read this and knows me by disguise would be blown lol. You are more than welcome to email me and I'll share with you might give you an idea :)
bigdlils0113@gmail.com
Thanks so much bigdlils. An email is on the way. I hope you do give the ceremony and vows a think. Mistress and I would love your input. It's something that we are going to be talking about it appears.
DeleteWell....related to tattoos I can only admit that I love them and that my Mistress body is adorned with them....So, I would love that on my hubby slave. The thing is that I never thought about asking that from him, I think that in this case, and just in this case, it makes much more sense if the proposal or idea comes from him.....although I'll show him the pic anyway.... ;-)
ReplyDeleteThanks Mistress Angie.
DeleteI have always been anti tattoo. Mistress K. has a small tattoo on her back that she got when she was young, and to this day she regrets it.
Be that as it may, a tattoo for this reason is something entirely different and something I would be eager to do for my beloved Mistress, as a symbol of my dedication and loyalty to her and as a constant reminder of the gift of my submission to her.
Maybe your hubby slave will be inspired likewise.
Not sure about the vows but would be along the lines of control and submission, such as for her she would vow to keep control of you and your body that she accepts that control. for you it would be along the lines of you giving yourself to her to control and do with as she wishes and you accept any punishment she feels is necessary.
ReplyDeletearchedone
Your words are very simple and such are awesome! For months now Mistress K and I have been staring at a blank sheet of paper when it comes to the vows, mostly because we were probably over-thinking it.
DeleteThank you arched one.
Interesting tat; I'm certain my Mistress will enjoy seeing it. Some years ago she had one put on my bottom. Because of where it is I almost never see it, and rarely think about it, but it is something she enjoys viewing often as I rub her feet, or she is pegging or spanking me. Just knowing that her mark is so permanently there pleases me. We have talked about adding to it sometime soon as part of our renewal ceremony. She has no tats and never wants any, but I love the idea of her having them put on me. My doctor has never said a word about it. :-)
ReplyDeleteI like the idea of a Renewal Ceremony. During our last one we had candles, I was naked, mostly at her feet, while she remained fully dressed. We adjusted our contract; really my duties and responsibilities within the relationship. I read the new contract aloud agreeing to it at the end.
Thanks so much for the information Penny. I love the idea of a tat on my ass. After all, if there is viewing pleasure to be had from the tat it should be in a place that will be where Mistress is more likely to see it and not me.
DeleteThanks for you input on your renewal ceremony. Our ceremony coming up will be the first time we have formally exchanged vows relative to our FLM. Every 5 years since we got married, Mistress K and I would renew our original wedding vows. Our marriage began vanilla and each of the last renewal ceremonies were vanilla. Our 15th is coming up this Fall and since we are going on our 3rd year of FLM bliss, we thought we'd formally memorialize our commitment to each in the context of our lifestyle now.
It was always our desire to do that from the very beginning so that we would be able to consciously reaffirm our love for each other. We spent time earlier this year looking for an officiant that would preside over our vows. It as kind of a difficult thing to find someone that would be open minded enough to understand our lifestyle and not be judgmental. We found that person, met with her, explained our lifestyle, explained the significantly intimate ceremony we had in mind and she readily agreed. The ceremony is a little more than 2 months away and we still need to finalize our vows, what Mistress will wear, what, if anything I will wear, and some of the symbolic things we want in our ceremony.
I love your Blog, you are very lucky to have a Queen that so completly embraces the lifestyle. I personaly have asked my Queen to Tattoo me with her ownership of me, so far she has said no, she does Not want anything that could be Seen, i think its more my thing than hers. She did Brand me once, with slave, NeXT to my member where the thigh meets. I had to beg her, she did IT for me, Not for her, which is what i crave. IT has since faded away.... But yes, i would get IT, even on my back, if she just wanted IT.... Mark
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for the kind words Mark. I am so very lucky to have Mistress K. as my Keyholder, my Mistress, my Wife.
DeleteWe still have to talk about what, if anything, might be considered as a permanent mark. it isn't a forgone conclusion.
Thanks again for commenting. I really appreciate it.
Ee, I love it. Ma'am and I have tattoos of puzzle pieces, mine is a puzzle piece with a heart locket, and hers is a piece with the key. Sir has the marking of what He wants on me as well, which is a lot closer to what you posted here. We're just waiting for the extra funds before we do it. :)
ReplyDeleteCongrats on the renewal ceremony! How exciting and wonderful!
I remember seeing the puzzle pieces you share with your Mistress. I think that is so awesome. I can't wait to see what marking you'll have from your Master. It's amazing how well you seem to be able to balance all of things in your life as a submissive to a Master AND a Mistress simultaneously. Remarkable!
DeleteThanks for congrats on the ceremony. It's a couple months off, but we are looking forward to it.
Thank you! It takes a lot of work to balance things smoothly, but it is very worth it. :)
DeleteMy pleasure!
DeleteLove it, i am hoping to be permanently marked, well i have asked to be, and my Master is thinking about it.
ReplyDeleteCongrats on the renewal ceremony, how lovely for you both.
Thank you tori for commenting. Good luck on getting your permanent marking. It's obviously what you want so I am hopeful for you.
DeleteThanks on the congrats for the vows renewal. It hasn't happened yet, but we are excited for it.
Subhub!
ReplyDeleteCagedmonkey and I just got our matching tattoos the other day. As you know, we already have a lock & key and since we're doing our vow renewal in January we got what we affectionately call our "marriage" tattoos.
So happy to hear you are reaffirming your vows too!
~ Lady M
Thanks you so much Lady M. It's quite an honor to have you comment on my blog posting.
DeleteMistress K. and i still have to have the conversation about my the post and what our vows and ceremony will be like coming up in 2 months, but i like that you and monkey got matching tattoos. We shall see what Mistress K. thinks.
thank you for your support and for your comment!
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