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Tuesday, June 23, 2015

What did you wear?

Sitting at the computer this morning, reading the news, answering some email, Mistress walks over and leans into my ear and asks "what did you wear yesterday?"  I replied "nothing Mistress because you didn't tell me to wear anything".  "48 hours"!  She went to say "that's not how it works my love.  You are required to inform me each day that you are about to get dressed so that I can decide what you will wear.  Remember?"  Yes Mistress, I replied.

On this day, I am wearing panties and the glass butt plug that I wear every Tuesday.  I just Mistress a text that said the following:

"I apologize for not letting you know that I was about to get dressed yesterday. Even though I am not looking forward to the ramifications of that, I can't tell you how much it means to me that you hold me to my responsibility. Thank you for that."

It's these small moments of appreciation for all the hard work that Mistress is willing to do to keep our rituals and lifestyle relevant.  Without moments like these, the basic responsibilities can become taken for granted.  Thank you Mistress for preventing that from happening.

8 comments:

  1. That is wonderful that your Mistress requires you to ask what to wear that day. Occasionally my wife will ask if I am dressed properly when doing a chore for her. Sometimes she will be in the mood to tell me to wear panties or wear something special to bed, but she prefers to do something when she feels like it, not because it is her job. I truly wish that we would have rituals and required behaviors, maybe someday.
    Good for you to thank your Mistress for putting forth the effort and work to make this lifestyle happen. I think it is soooo worthwhile.

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    1. Thanks MRBILL. I completely agree. It is worthwhile and I am so very grateful for her efforts.

      Thank you for stopping by.

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  2. Hi sub hub, I am happy for you being in a loving relationship like this. In addition, I can only agree that the rituals are important, they make things easier and help to keep up the submissive state of mind. Nevertheless, I do hope that the ramifications are not meant to refer to a too harsh punishment.

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. Thanks, as always Ni Na. Rituals are important and I am so very grateful for them. Still haven't received my punishment because our real life has not allowed for the time to receive it.

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  3. Consistency is such an amazing thing. I'm glad that she appreciates how necessary that is.

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    1. Thanks for your comment CM. You know I always appreciate hearing from you.

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  4. Hi sub hub, I so love reading about you and Mistress K. I love your rituals and the importance you both place on consistency. It is so important.

    I also love how you both encourage each other in your roles. It's easy to overlook the fact they too need it.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thank you for the kind words Roz. Yes, the rituals are important and not taking them for granted is equally important.

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