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Thursday, June 11, 2015

Milking Ritual

Hi everyone.  Hope you are all having a good week so far.  Here in Phoenix ... we've been lucky and have been able to avoid the really hot heat, but it seems our luck has run out.  We'll be 110 or so for the better part of the next 2 1/12/ months with some occasional monsoon thundershowers thrown in for fun.  Enough about the whether.  You probably didn't come here for an update on the weather. 

In my recent post, I made mention of an upcoming milking session that is part of a few rituals Mistress K. implemented 6 weeks or so.  To summarize, this ritual is that I am to be milked (drained of the semen in my body) on the second Monday of every month.  "Milking", like so many other things in the D/s world means different things to different people.  For many, milking is the act of producing semen by stimulating the prostate and coaxing the fluid out without any stimulation to the penis.  To others, milking is merely a broad definition of a means to a goal, that goal being to drain the male of his semen, which could very well include penis stimulation most likely resulting in some sort of ruined orgasm event.  To still others, milking could be defined as having an ejaculation in whatever means available, including a full orgasm.

For the purposes of the new milking ritual Mistress K. has implanted, it is simply a means to a goal, and that goal being a draining of my semen on a regular basis.  Mistress K. has not said why she implemented this ritual other than to casually say that it is something she wants to do on a monthly basis.  She also made it very clear that there would be no routine defined manner in which my semen would be extracted each month.  The important thing seems to be that the extraction of my semen is what mattered and how she did that would depend on her mood at the time.

In our busy lives, even though there is a scheduled ritual, it doesn't relieve us of the constraints each of us has on our time together.  In other words, just because something has been scheduled doesn't mean that there will always be a lot of time at that moment to accomplish what she wants to accomplish.  As such, it will always be a "game day" decision as to how the milking will be accomplished.

This past Monday was no exception.  We both knew that the preferred time for a milking (in the evening after the kids went to bed) wasn't going to happen.  So, on Monday morning, Mistress decided that it needed to be done right then and right there.  Sort of a "let's get this over with" kind of thought.  Mistress called me into the bedroom (kids where elsewhere in the house getting ready for their own day), informed me that we were going to milk me right then.  She ordered me to strip naked and get the lube and the rubber butt plug.  I returned to her with both items and she instructed me to put some lube in her hand and then to insert the plug.  While I was inserting the plug, she began to stroke me.  The combination of inserting the plug in her presence and having her stroke brought me to the edge in record time.  I felt pressure to be able to get the plug in before the fluid started flowing from my cock.  Just as the plug plopped into place, I informed Mistress that I was about to cum.  Her demeanor went from "business like, let's get this over with", to "don't you dare" and she stopped stroking.  I was barely able to ask for permission and get it before the cum started dribbling out of my cock. 

Just like that, we had completed this month's milking ritual.  In a very businesslike manner, Mistress said "good boy", kissed me and instructed me to clean up because we were through.  Mistress seemed content this particular ritual had been satisfactorily accomplished for this month and she moved on to the busy part of her day. 

A couple of thoughts:  It was very clinical how the ritual had been accomplished.  Other than the absolute joy of presenting myself to Mistress for such an act, there was no "sex" involved.  There was no orgasm (yes, there was ruined orgasm, but those don't count), there was no tenderness and exchanges of lovey-dovey words that usually accompany our naked time together.  it was just business-like.  At first, I didn't know how to feel about that but in no time, I began to fully appreciate the mere fact that my Mistress would take the time to accomplish a ritual that she had establish.  My submissive heart soared and after I clean everything up, I went to her, placed my face in her neck, hugged her deeply and thank her for my milking. 

I can't wait until next month!

15 comments:

  1. Well dahlin that was very matter of fact and BTW we ARE NOT going to AZ for our Blogger get-together. 110 degrees for 3 months - hell no, I say we head to Northern Maine or Sawki (we might see Jimmy Fallen or Mitt Rommney). Hugs.

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    1. Coward! Just think of the pleasant warm feeling when a freshly spanked bottom is exposed directly to the Arizona sun.

      The blogger get-together. What an interesting idea. I'll send you an email.

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  2. Hi SubHub!

    This is a great ritual, and her clinical, business-like approach along with the ruined orgasm sound just great!

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    1. Thanks jen. Yeah ......... it is great. As much as I would like it to be a sexual experience for me, it is necessarily.

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  3. I could see having a similar response to your initial one. Going from a more tender exchange to something more clinical could be quite jarring. But you seem to have handled it beautifully.

    Her consistency and routine is a wonderful thing. I am coming (pun intended) to appreciate how much love and work that requires.

    Hope next month is just as good!

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    1. Thanks so much CM. I agree, I love our routine and her consistency. Looking forward to next month!

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  4. Sounds as though it turned out s wonderful way to start the day and a win/win for you both. I too can understand your initial reaction to Mistress K's business like manner.

    I so love your routines and Mistress K's consistency. It's awesome :)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thanks so much for the kind words Roz. This was only our second scheduled milking so we're still finding our way. I imagine, over time, many months from now, Mistress will find a routine within the ritual that she prefers, whatever that may be. Whatever it may be, I will still very much appreciate her willingness to consistently drain my cum from me.

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  5. Routines are good. I miss having the routines I had with db. It's hard with him living so far away now after his job transfer. I only get to see him every 6 weeks now

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    1. I'm sorry to hear that anna louise. Here's to hoping that this will change for you and he.

      Thank you as always for saying hello!

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  6. Hi sub hub, I am glad that you have this ritual and enjoy it. When your Mistress is so business like in this intimate moment, I think it cannot be easy, so I get that you must have been so confused at first. I am happy for you, because everything worked in such a good way and brought you closer. This is wonderful.

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. Thanks so much Ni Na. I don't want to pain the wrong picture of my Mistress. She is a loving, sensual, tender, strict Mistress. Seeing as how this milking ritual is something new, and since it is a scheduled thing, circumstances sometimes (like this month) cause for the need to make it business like. Even so, being present in such an intimate, submissive way, for her to conduct something she feels that needs to be done, in and of itself is a wonderful thing.

      Thanks again for stopping by. I always appreciate seeing her in comments.

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  7. I love Male prostrate milking and look forward to it.

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  8. Do you think She is focused on your health? Not only does this focus on your releases (ruined or not) being in Her control, but She also might keep in mind that releasing semen is vital for prostate health -- no orgasm or semen release sends prostate cancer risks through the roof. Either way, this routine is a bonding time, no matter Her attitude; however. . . Her attitude is wonderful with this.

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    1. I'm no doctor, but my Dr. has told me there is no prostate health concerns. I agree ... it is a bonding time and yes her attitude is awesome. Thank you for your reply.

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