Day 1 ... 2016. The start of a whole new year. In 2015 I had 20% more orgasms than I had in 2014, and for that I am so grateful to my beloved Mistress Wife. Yep, it's true. In 2015 I was allowed 5 orgasms and in 2014 I was allowed 4.
Immediately after midnight last night, I dropped to my knees before Mistress K. and told her that I will continue to serve her better and in more fulfilling ways. We had a great 2014, our love for each other is stronger than it was before that and continues to grow. As a new year dawns, I am so very grateful to have you in my life Mistress. I am honored that you have accepted me as your husband, your willing, strong, and submissive partner. I so very much look forward to continuing our journey, wherever it is you decide to take us.
God Bless all of you and congratulations on making it to the new year.
Happy New Year to you and Mistress K. Wishing you a wonderful 2016.
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Ronnie
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Thank you so much my dear friend. Here's to wishing you and your husband a happy, safe and loving New Year as well!
DeleteHappy New Year to you and Mistress K
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Thank you so much DF. I truly appreciate your support and love throughout the past year. Wishing and your man a wonderful 2016!
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Lovely post sub hub :) Happy New Year to you, Mistress K and family. Wishing you a wonderful 2016.
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Roz
Wow, nine orgasms in two years. She keeps you denied without much cage time. Was that caged picture and when were you unlocked or are you still locked?
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Hi FD, and Happy New Year to you and your girl. The cage picture was a stock photo that I got off the internet, but event though I am 55 years old, it's not too much of a stretch for what it looked like for real. Mistress K. unlocked at 1am on New Years day, and I was very grateful, although I don't mind admitting, being in my cage is like wearing a comfortable old pair of jeans. The worst part of a cage .... peeing. Yes, you must sit down, but it's mess that takes forever to clean properly.
DeleteThanks so much for the well wishes Roz. Much love and happiness to you and your this year!
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Interesting. I keep pretty good records of my orgasms. I believe I had twenty in 2015 and I will figure out how many I've had in prior years to see if there is a trend forming. Interestingly, she has not let me come so far in 2016. My guess is that I could have missed some of my orgasms (we tend to go a little more vanilla during vacations), so let's just round up and say I have about two orgasms per month. My Domme has gotten more comfortable with denying me, enjoying my better attitude. My guess is that I will get less in 2016, but who knows?
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sherulestherooster
OK, well I added it up. I have a fairly consistent 20-30 orgasms per year. Since I've kept track, she has 273 vs 99 for me, or she comes 2.7X per every time I orgasm. She wins!
DeleteWow, 20-30 per year. I honestly don't know if that would be a good thing or a bad thing for me. a couple of years ago, Mistress temporarily reversed course on me and required orgasms from me. 5 in one weekend, and at least one per day for the follow couple of weeks. It was fun.
DeleteThanks for stopping by my friend!
You're a lucky man and I think Mistress K is pretty lucky as well. Happy New Year's my friend.
ReplyDeleteThank you dear friend. It means a lot. I'm also lucky because I have you as a friend. Happy new Year. Things are going to be great for you this year!
DeleteHappy New Years! I wish you and Mistress K so much happiness throughout this year.
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Thank you darling friend. I hope your 2016 is adventurous, just like 2015 was for you.
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You're hoping for more and I'm hoping for far less :-)
ReplyDeleteI have averaged 2-3 a month and moving forward would like to try 1 a quarter. Happy New Years and good luck on your submissive goals.
Happy New Year to you too my friend. Actually, I am not hoping for more orgasms. If that happens so be it. If less happens, then so be it too. I'm hoping for continued and growing happiness for my Mistress, and however many orgasms she decides for me is what it will be.
DeleteThat's a beautiful 2nd paragraph you have there sub hub. It's just fantastic that after all the years of marriage for you two you are able to now have constant and continual moments when you feel overcome with love for your Mistress wife. Although my marriage is fairly new compared with yours I'm grateful that now, in my beginning 50's I am finally experience that same thing, an overflowing of love for my Queen Wife that I'd always wanted but was never able to attain.
ReplyDeleteI wish you and Mistress K. more of the same for 2016 along with perhaps a few exciting new twists. The unknown is always exciting!
Thanks so much sublove! I wish the same for you my friend!!! I so much look forward to the unknown. Who knows what this year will bring. "Challenge your limits. Don't limit your challenges"
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ReplyDeleteLove your blog and the mutually supportive relationship Mistress K and you are enjoying.
Ms. Fannie and I have been happily married for going on 39 years now. My recollection of being attracted to strong/assertive women originated back when I was about 8 years old. A young woman stopped a friend and I and commanded me to give her my hand. The pit of my stomach fell away and I was overcome by a strong compulsion to do as she requested. I presented my hand to her. She traced a line across the back of my hand with the tip of a shiny leaf. My friend said the leaf was poison ivy and I shouldn't let her. Her devious smile transfixed me. I was paralyzed by my internal responses. It was exciting in a way I had never before experienced and I immediately knew I wanted to feel that way again.
Fast forward 20 years. There’s a mishap where my wife was scheduled for an outpatient procedure. She faints and the nurse misinterprets her physiological response to fainting as an epileptic seizure. It was the nurses first day on the job after graduating Nursing school.
My wife is rushed to ICU - and a liquid only diet for the next three days. All hospital testing shows no abnormalities. The hospital insists she take seizure medication for the rest of her life. Her job is now at risk as a seizure diagnosis would prohibit her from driving for at least six months. Added to that is the cognitive & physical impact that long-term use of these medications has on quality of life.
I remember counseling her that we could not simply accept the nurse's statement that she had an epileptic seizure as a doctor's or the hospital's diagnosis. Without independent medical confirmation of the hospital’s “diagnosis” her life would fundamentally change.
"Let them handle it", she said as she looked through me as though I didn't even exist. Disdain or dismissal was apparent in her gaze. Any input I had on the matter was of no interest to her.
Just from her gaze my will fell away. I immediately fell into the same excited state I experienced with the young girl. I was swamped by conflicting emotions. Outrage that she was dismissive of me. That she wasn't considering the long term impact on her. How a hospital could do this to people as CYA - without due medical process. All of these feelings co-mingled suddenly with submissive heat I felt towards her.
Here are a couple of points worth mentioning. People are more complex than the labels we assign to them. I do identify as submissive. When it’s called for I also remain true to the assertive role that American culture imposed on males in my generation. If I did not assume the assertive role in resolving this there would be negative consequences for both of us.
Outside of the bedroom we consider one another equals and we share decisions. We split domestic duties. I'm an excellent cook and do the shopping and 99% of all meal preparation as well as handling bills and what not. She does the wash and light household work. She gets the coffee in the morning. This is her choice. She does want to be waited on hand and foot all the time - only sometimes.
In the bedroom I would rather that she initiates sex to assure that it occurs at a time that she wants rather than me. It is her expressing her desire for me that facilitates my ability to perform for her.
When confessing my submissive desires to her (now and in the past) I understood there was risk to our relationship. That what one person feels is hard for another person to fully understand. More explanation can make the situation worse.
My concern is that the confession of my submissive desires and behavior towards her can be so off-putting to a woman expecting a traditional, storybook marriage that it can precipitate the relationship's decline.
I'll stop here for the time being. Any comments or questions are appreciated.
Warmest regards,
Desertowl
I went through those very same concerns at the threshold of my "confession" to my (then vanilla) wife. I threw caution to the wind and am so grateful for the strength that she had then, and continues to have today. Now, looking back, we both agree that it has been the best thing we have ever done as a couple.
DeleteThank you so much for taking the time to write that long, intimate and thoughtful comment. I hope you'll continue to be a part of my blog. I so very much appreciate it and especially the kind words!!
Happy New Year to you! Love all your thoughts and inspiring posts.
ReplyDeleteNot caged here, but looking forward to a good subby year with the Wife.
hugs, sara
God Bless you and thank you so much sara. I'm not usually caged either. In fact, in 2015, I was caged on only 3 occasions, totaling maybe days in duration, including New Year's Eve. Mistress would prefer to use the cage for punishment purposes, but sometimes just likes to see it on me.
DeleteHappy New Year my friend and thank you for stopping by.