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Thursday, January 14, 2016
Bonus Day
Mistress K. asks, "what are you doing today?". "I have a presentation in front of a pretty good sized group for people at the office", I said. She replied, "You'll wear your plug again today."
Hi Owen, and thank you so much for stopping by. My hand to God, there is zero sarcasm. I'd wear my plug almost every day if i was allowed to. I actually said "Really?!!!" like a like school girl when she said it!
Apparently you and I are vastly different. When I am making a presentation my competence (or lack of it) is very much on display. I do not welcome any distractions such as a fat plug painfully up my ass. Your wife apparently thinks you are superman or doesn't care.
Yes. I enjoy being required to wear my plug. I wear it every Tuesday ... all day every Tuesday. So being allowed to wear it on a Thursday is a ... bonus.
I chuckled out loud when I read your 1 sentence post. Wearing your plug while instructing others seems to me as if by feeling your Mistresses constant presence while instructing others, it would be added incentive to do a great job. Almost as if she were there watching you.
Mistress K. certainly knows how to exert her presence and show her love all at once. Way to go Mistress K! I'm curious to know how it went for you.
Everything went just fine. I've become quite accustomed to wearing this glass plug. It's just so comfortable. There is zero discomfort when wearing it. About 2 months ago I bought a larger glass plug. That day I tried to insert it but it was a no-go. Then again, on that particular day I wasn't wearing the other, smaller one. The other day, Mistress did inform me that we will making the transition to the bigger plug. Should be fun.
Ah, Yes. Perfect. Such a gift that Misress K. understands the submissive's need to be constantly reminded of her control. Situations like this can actually increase confidence, knowing that she cared enough to challenge her submissive to be aware of her presence while performing.
Yes. We're in the Northeast Valley (Phoenix area). Moved here from the East Coast going on 16 years ago. Love the area. Even love the heat - but then I'm a masochist.
I concur my friend!. All of us submissives need to be cared about. Need that attention. Need to be loved. Her naughty order checked all those boxes for me for that, I am grateful to her.
"...need to be cared about. Need that attention. Need to be loved."
Oh, how true my friend!! The task itself is (almost) a non-issue, it's the fact that our Dominant ones love us enough and care enough to keep our focus clear. Your plug gives you confidence and comfort that your Mistress K is with you...and my sore bottom/ lady parts do the same in reminding me that my Man's presence is all that matters.
Oh, joy! i hear you! Nice having your Wife right there with you, to give you that support. A butt-plug (metal NJoy here) does put one in the right frame of mind for serving and teaching others so they can get the most out of their time! sara
Yeee! We are the luckiest! I wonder the opinion of.someone who has tried both, if they prefer glass or metal plug? NJoy Metal smaller but heavier? Yay Bonus Day..
Do I detect a little sarcasm here?
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't sound to me as though your wife has much concern for your interests.
Hi Owen, and thank you so much for stopping by. My hand to God, there is zero sarcasm. I'd wear my plug almost every day if i was allowed to. I actually said "Really?!!!" like a like school girl when she said it!
DeleteApparently you and I are vastly different. When I am making a presentation my competence (or lack of it) is very much on display. I do not welcome any distractions such as a fat plug painfully up my ass. Your wife apparently thinks you are superman or doesn't care.
ReplyDeleteThat's just it, it isn't painful. Not in the least bit and such I feel like I have her there with me, which gives confidence
DeleteWould this be enjoyment for both of you?
ReplyDeleteYes. I enjoy being required to wear my plug. I wear it every Tuesday ... all day every Tuesday. So being allowed to wear it on a Thursday is a ... bonus.
DeleteI chuckled out loud when I read your 1 sentence post. Wearing your plug while instructing others seems to me as if by feeling your Mistresses constant presence while instructing others, it would be added incentive to do a great job. Almost as if she were there watching you.
ReplyDeleteMistress K. certainly knows how to exert her presence and show her love all at once. Way to go Mistress K! I'm curious to know how it went for you.
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Everything went just fine. I've become quite accustomed to wearing this glass plug. It's just so comfortable. There is zero discomfort when wearing it. About 2 months ago I bought a larger glass plug. That day I tried to insert it but it was a no-go. Then again, on that particular day I wasn't wearing the other, smaller one. The other day, Mistress did inform me that we will making the transition to the bigger plug. Should be fun.
DeleteAh, Yes. Perfect. Such a gift that Misress K. understands the submissive's need to be constantly reminded of her control. Situations like this can actually increase confidence, knowing that she cared enough to challenge her submissive to be aware of her presence while performing.
ReplyDeleteHi Desert Owl. I couldn't agree more! Indeed, knowing she cared enough to want me to feel her in my ass was inspiring! Thank you for stopping by.
DeleteP.S. Does your screen name imply that you live in the desert?
Hi sub hub,
DeleteYes. We're in the Northeast Valley (Phoenix area). Moved here from the East Coast going on 16 years ago. Love the area. Even love the heat - but then I'm a masochist.
Yep, NE Valley (Phoenix) here too. Betcha a dollar we have passed each other on the streets
DeleteProbably wobbled past wearing a butt-plug! :D sara
DeleteI love getting orders like that. Nothing says "I love you" to a submissive more than a naughty order.
ReplyDeleteI concur my friend!. All of us submissives need to be cared about. Need that attention. Need to be loved. Her naughty order checked all those boxes for me for that, I am grateful to her.
Delete"...need to be cared about. Need that attention. Need to be loved."
DeleteOh, how true my friend!! The task itself is (almost) a non-issue, it's the fact that our Dominant ones love us enough and care enough to keep our focus clear. Your plug gives you confidence and comfort that your Mistress K is with you...and my sore bottom/ lady parts do the same in reminding me that my Man's presence is all that matters.
Thank you. We are lucky, aren't we?
DeleteOh, joy! i hear you! Nice having your Wife right there with you, to give you that support. A butt-plug (metal NJoy here) does put one in the right frame of mind for serving and teaching others so they can get the most out of their time! sara
ReplyDeleteI keep hearing about those NJoy plugs. Mine are glass and I love them as well!
DeleteYeee! We are the luckiest! I wonder the opinion of.someone who has tried both, if they prefer glass or metal plug? NJoy Metal smaller but heavier? Yay Bonus Day..
ReplyDelete-HarleyQ420