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Monday, June 15, 2015

Never take it for granted

It's Monday morning.  The house is quiet and Mistress is in the bathroom getting ready to go to the office for the day.  There are some men working in the yard outside and we are busy with the things a normal couple does on a Monday morning. 

I had just handed Mistress a fresh cup of travel coffee for her trip to the office.  She had s few things in her arms and was leaning in to kiss me good bye when she suddenly set everything on the counter and said "oh, I almost forgot.  Let's get your spanking out of the way".  My involuntary response was "no, please".  Without batting an eyelash she said "Yes!  Let's go" and she pointed toward the bedroom. 

I knew I was due for a punishment spanking.  It was because I left the car a mess.  It being summer and the house always full of kids, she needed to delay the spanking until a suitable time could be found.  Apparently, now was that time.  She walked into the bedroom and a few seconds later I followed her in.  She was already in our closet (it's a huge walk-in closet which is where she likes to give punishments when the kids are in the house).  When she heard me come in she said, "lock the door and come in here." 

Her spontaneous declaration that the spanking would be now left me feeling regret and some fear.  There was no time to contemplate.  No time to think about what was about to happen because in a few seconds, it was about to happen.  When I walked in, there she in all of her magnificent, feminine glory.  She was fully dressed and ready to leave the house.  She was wearing a pretty dress that hugged her beautifully figure nicely, conservatively, yet still a little sexy.  She was wearing high heels and she had her arms crossed and was holding a paddle in her right hand.  Her spanking hand.

She pointed to the floor, told me to strip and to get on all fours.
There was nothing sexual about it.  I had disappointed my Mistress and it was necessary for her to correct that behavior. When I know I am about to be punished, even though I am NOT looking forward to receiving the paddle, I will often get an erection.  In the beginning, Mistress would sometimes think I was being disrespectful to her authority because I had an erection.  She thought then, that I thought it was all just a little sex game that I had convinced her to play with me.  I can't easily explain why I get an erection when I am about to be spanked (maybe a topic for another post someday), but I often do.  I did not have an erection this time. Nothing! I think it was because I was completely surprised and didn't have time to think about it, and was genuinely processing what was about to happen to me.  I thought about what I had done wrong.  I thought about how I had disappointed Mistress.  I thought about how this was going to hurt.  I was pouty in my head about .... "now Mistress?  really?  Now?"

Mistress me my spanking, and yes, it hurt.  She lectured me during about how she is determined to train me well enough that the need for these spankings will become less and less frequent.  When she was done, and with my ass on fire, she rubbed my red bottom with her tender hand and said "up".  I immediately rose to my feet, hands on my stingy ass when she said "I didn't say stand".  I knew to get to my knees.  When I did, she stepped toward me and allowed me to rest my head on her belly, hug her, tell her I was sorry for displeasing her and to thank her for my spanking.  It was at that moment when I began get hard.  After care!  After care always brings to some level of subspace, and I love to wallow in it.

There I was, kneeling before my Mistress, having just been paddled red.  She was stroking my head and asking me if I had a lesson.  She told me to stand, handed me her paddle and said he needed to get to the office. After I helped her to the car, kissed her goodbye, thanked her again for my spanking, I realized right then what a lucky man I was.  She started the car, put in reverse and told I would be wearing panties today.  Then she back out and off she went, me waiving goodbye in the driveway. 

I came back inside and stopped for a moment and thought ...... wow, I actually am living this life.  I am so much in love with my Wife, so genuinely so.  She accepted by gift of submission when I opened my heart to her in the beginning and asked her if she would.  She has grown, and continues to grow as the owner of my mind, my body, my soul and my sex.  Standing there, I put y hand to my neck as if to feel the collar she placed on me when she officially took me as hers in our ceremony.  A giant smile came over my face and the erection showed no signs of receding.

I will never take this life for granted.


17 comments:

  1. Hey buddy, nice to see Mistress K is staying on top of you and not letting you slide. Lucky, lucky guy. Take care and have a good week. Oh, and do try to stay out of trouble. Hugs. K

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    1. Hi pal! I am the luckiest man in the world for a lot of reasons. Chief among them, the collar my wife has asked me to accept and wear.

      I do try to stay out of trouble, honestly I do. I don't like getting punished (because it hurts) and i certainly don't enjoy it when Mistress K. is mad/disappointed in me. That being said, the tenderness and deep, deep loving emotions that we each experience during and after my spankings is something I would never want to live without.

      You have a good week too. It's going to 112 here for the next days! Water temp in the pool? 93 degrees. This is our "blizzard" season

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  2. A small episode, but an important one, as it shows Katie's ever evolving proprietary attitude toward you. Simple, direct orders with no need or desire for discussion on her part, and immediate compliance on your part. Well done - both of you.

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    1. Thank you Lady Grey and yes, Mistress K. and i each notice (and celebrate) her evolving proprietary attitude. It occurred to me that yesterday's spanking was the spitting image of one of those captioned pictures where the dominant wife, dressed for business, was paddling her husband. I don't want to diminish the event by comparing it to porn, but it was kind of cool that way. I've always had a CFNM thing and with our kids, we don't ever get to be that way in our house much.

      Thank you as always for taking the time to stop by and comment.

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  3. Pardon me for calling your Mistress Katie! I'd just read the "I'm Hers" blog and I guess I still had that name on my mind. My apologies to "Mistress".

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    1. You are most certainly pardoned! I have to be honest, when I read the comment, and before I read this, I said to myself .... she must've just been interacting with my old buddy at I'm Hers. I will extend your apologies to Mistress K., and explain how it is complimentary to be momentarily confused with Katie.

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  4. Oooh SubHub, you are one lucky sub indeed!

    It sounds like you are getting both what you want/need and deserve :-D

    It seems like Mistress is developing nice habits and creating fun rituals for the two of you. That is so hard with kids!

    I agree with Lady Grey, your prompt compliance is very respectful of your Mistress's commands. Keeping that up will let her know you are truly committed and dedicated in your submission to her.

    Keep having fun :-)

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    1. Thanks so much jen. We both try very hard to give each other what we need, and want, and so yes, we are thankful for that.

      When Mistress gave me the order to go dig her a hole in the hot, hot sun, it was the last thing i wanted to do. At the same time, it was the only think I wanted to do because she told me to do it. I gladly did, not expecting anything as wonderful as an edging session, but there it was. I am so grateful that Mistress believes just as much in rewards as she does punishments.

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  5. Hi sub hub, I am sorry that your spanking had to be a punishment. However from what you write this session has made the day a good one for both of you. I love to read how much good your Mistress and you derive from these intimate moments. Wishing you a wonderful week!

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. Thank you so much my friend. No need to be sorry that it had to be a punishment spanking. It's what we do. I hate the sting of her paddle while being punished. Hate it! But, I love it so much more than my beautiful life mate is willing to punish me like that.

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  6. Hi SubHub
    Great post as always. Even though I am not a fan of pain, and certainly wouldn't appreciate the spanking you just endured, I am still envious of you and the life you are living, you lucky lucky chap!
    :)

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    1. Hi Robert_Anthony. So nice to see you and thank you so much for the kinds words and sentiments. I'm not a fan of pain either, but it is something that I gladly endure in order to demonstrate my love, devotion and dedication to the happiness of my Wife.

      I am indeed a lucky, lucky chap! Thanks so much for stopping by and sharing your words.

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    2. My absolute pleasure SubHub, I'm only sorry that I don't comment more often. I will endeavour to do so.

      Robert Anthony

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  7. Love your title for this one ship! So very true- even at this level of love and commitment- I imagine complacency could still set in. Your Mistress K is SO deserving of that love boner as she drove away- I hope you told her about it!!!

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    1. Thanks so much Pearl. We try hard to prevent either of us taking the other for granted by openly talking about it. I agree, Mistress K. is always deserving every frequent love boner that pops up from time to time.

      Thank you as always for commenting my friend. Have a great Friday and a great weekend.

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  8. I always enjoy visiting here sub hub. You and your Mistress have such a wonderful and loving relationship. Those surprise spankings are something aren't they? No time to think or anticipate. I can't quite decide whether it's better that way or not lol.

    I'm sorry it was a punishment, but love how this ended and how it left you feeling :)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thanks so much Roz. Having you visit here is always a pleasure and when you enjoy, especially so!

      Surprise spankings are indeed "something". I do appreciate it when there is a spontaneous opportunity to sneak in a spanking. It relieves the need to wallow in regret leading up to a scheduled spanking.

      Thanks for being such a loyal reader and commenter. Have a great weekend.

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