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Sunday, April 12, 2015

Stop occasionally and appreciate the things that you have

This morning, I was the first one awake (which is usually the case) in the house.  It was 5am, I had a nice hot cup of coffee and I was cruising the news on the internet.  For some reason, all of a sudden, a feeling of deep appreciation came over me for the things in my life that make me happy.  Here I was, sitting in a beautiful home, with a beautiful family, blissfully living our lives.  The kids are happy and healthy (to the extent teenagers can be), the weather is beautiful because I live in paradise, the cat is even rubbing on my leg showing me devotion and affection. 

Oddly, the cat's devoted demonstration of love got me to thinking.  When I initially started on my journey of interest in and contemplation of a FLM, one of the first tumblr sites I came across was Continuous State of desire.  Here is the link:


I knew then that the name itself is what drew me to that site.  What I didn't know then is that a constant state of desire would turn out to be the catalyst for pursuing my own Female Led Marriage.  There was nothing especially different about that the content of that particular Femdom/submale tumblr site. It had all the requisite pictures, some of which where incredibly hot and others that were, well meh.  Yet there was something about the title of the site that caused me to repeatedly return. 

I have said in the past that my primary goal in initially pursuing the lifestyle that we live now, was to be able always demonstrate my desire for the woman that I already knew I loved so much.  I was focused on not allowing the distractions and stresses that naturally come from normal suburban/professional/family/societal life to distract me from being able to naturally always feels in love and in lust with my beautiful wife.

Then one day, during my journey to and research I felt I needed in order to probably propose to my wife that she accept my submission, my then wife (not yet my Mistress) asked an off-handed question about whether we will still want to be with each other after the kids have left the nest.  I knew at that very moment that FLM and my asking her to be my Mistress, accepting my submission and to control all aspects of my sex was the right thing to do in order to avoid even the slightest risk of us growing apart as we raised our family.  So far (knock on wood), the continuous state of desire that I am lucky enough to live in is accomplishing that very thing.  Every aspect our lives together, our family in general, my work, her work is continuously getting better and better with each day.  Never in a million years could I have understood how I could be sitting here in the middle of April, having had only 1 full orgasm in the last (almost) 5 months, feeling so content with my sex life.  So happy and content in my marriage and so much in love and in lust with my beautiful Mistress Wife. 

With all of this in mind, in the supreme quiet of the pre-dawn, I leaned back in my chair, sipped don my delicious coffee and just smiled. 

I love You Mistress!

24 comments:

  1. Hi sub hub, I am happy for you!

    hugs

    Nina

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  2. Ohhh Sub Hub, that was so sweet and insightful. Thanks for sharing. You still going to feel that blissful after you get your punishment or has that already happened :-)

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    1. Sadly no K, it hasn't happened, but I am at peace with and will be grateful for it when happens. I'll be more in love with her as a result. Thanks as always for popping in and commenting.

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  3. Such a great post sub hub! I love those early mornings when I'm the first one awake just enjoying my coffee. So much to be thankful for

    But don't forget, they are all very lucky to have you as well:)

    Hugs

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    1. Thank you for lg. I really appreciate it !!!

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  4. You are so right. And it is what I do every day, counting my blessings.

    appy

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  5. Such a beautiful post. Very happy for you both. I hope when a few months go by David can sit back and think and feel the same way you do!

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    1. Thank you Mistress Marie. I'm certain that in a few months You and david will be living the life, each of you fulfilling the other's needs, living a love story. With the distance between you gone, that will happen and it will be wonderful.

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  6. Sub hub what a beautiful way to describe submission.
    archedone

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  7. Such a beautiful post sub hub, I'm so happy for you both. Thank you for sharing this with us. Made me smile :)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thank you for the kind words Roz. It ain't perfect but the love is there.

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  8. Amazingly beautiful SHIP! Thank you so very much for your open and honest thoughts. I love hearing how happy and content you are in your relationship. :)

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    1. Like I was telling Roz Lady M., it's not perfect. We have our "warts" like any other relationship, but they never last long.

      Thank you for the kind words

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  9. Very nice post, SHiP.

    Taking a moment to appreciate what you have is not a bad way to start the day, especially on a Monday!

    Your desire for "being able to naturally always feels in love and in lust with my beautiful wife" is a wonderful endeavor.

    Enjoy the day,

    Scott

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  10. I am so happy for you. It is amazing that the both found each other within the marriage to start with this kind of lifestyle together.
    Now for the tumbler page.. I do find it erotic as well…

    Oops did I say that…
    I love looking at women.. I have to admit and man…

    Thanks I enjoyed it
    Ara

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    1. Thanks as always for stopping by ARS. I appreciate it.

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  11. Awwww, that is very nice SHIP! )Never thought of your initials being SHIP, maybe I can come up with something for me that spells boat).
    Yesterday as I was doing yard work for my wife, I thought about how this is my goal now, that for the rest of our lives together, I will strive to serve her and love her as much as possible. And I am so happy to have that goal!
    Yes, I am also surprisingly happy to be in a constant state of lust for my wife as she teases me, keeps me aroused and denies my orgasm for various lengths of time. So far not anything like you SHIP, only once this year so far! But I have gone as long as three months and now feel that I am happy with no more than once a month. With only four months to go till our youngest goes to college, I am really looking forward to that empty nest!
    After reading about your great weather all winter, we finally have great spring weather and got some outdoor loving yesterday!

    mrbill

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    1. Hi MRBILL. Thanks for commenting. Like you, I am looking forward to the joys of an empty nest too. My wait is several years longer than yours I'm afraid. I'm happy to hear that your weather is finally getting good. What's better than beautiful weather?

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  12. What a very emotive post. You and your Mistress prove that FLM works perfectly

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    1. Thank you anna louise. I don't know about perfectly, but it sure works well for us.

      Thank you as always for taking the time to read and comment.

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