- spanking, with or without the use of an implement such as a paddle, hair brush, wooden spoon, ruler, riding crop. Spankings may be administered by M-K in any position she deems suitable, at her sole discretion
- Repeated intense Tease and Denial
- Longer duration of chastity
- Sleeping on floor
- Humiliation, the scope of which to be determined at the sole discretion of M-K
Monday, June 26, 2017
Our Rules ... posted here!
In my last blog post, I mentioned I would ask Mistress K. if I could publish our rules here after we updated them and edited them. Guess what .... she said YES, and here they are:
· M-K is the Dominant. The s-man is the submissive.
· These rules may be amended or modified at any time at the sole discretion of M-K.
· S-man will be kept in constant chastity to M-K. Such chastity is expected at all times whether it is voluntarily self-enforced, or M-K has required the s-man to wear a chastity device (lockable cage) that will prevent s-man from touching or otherwise stimulating his penis, obtaining an erection or receiving stimulation directly against penis.
· The s-man acknowledges that his pleasure is derived from providing service and pleasure to M-K.
· The s-man shall make every attempt to keep his body in pristine condition so as to further enhance the enjoyment of its use by M-K. S-man shall submit to physical inspection of any part of s-man’s body, at any time, for any reason, at the request of M-K. Any failure of s-man to keep body healthy, at the sole discretion of M-K, shall result in punishment of s-man by M-K.
· As a default and at all times, when M-K and s-man are securely alone (as determined by M-K), s-man shall be expected to be naked and to be kept naked even while performing normal duties and functions. S-man shall be expected to become naked and remain so without being asked. M-K may require s-man to wear something, anything, exclusively of M-K’s choosing, as determined solely by M-K.
· In normal life, during the normal course of a regular day, s-man will wear normal clothes. M-K may require that the s-man wear something in particular under s-man’s “normal” clothes at her sole discretion as she deems appropriate.
· All s-mans’ orgasms are owned by M-K. If s-man is to have an orgasm, it will only be because M-K has decided to allow it. Any such permissible orgasm for the s-man shall be achieved solely in a manner dictated by M-K.
· S-man is required to see to it that the garage and the cars are kept cleaned and in presentable condition at all times.
· S-man will maintain a calm and in-control demeanor, and work hard to not project that stress to others around him.
· M-K will manage and control the release of all semen as M-K deems appropriate, at her sole discretion. Such release may or may not include orgasm, at the sole discretion of M-K.
· S-man will be required to orgasm on demand, or conversely, may be denied an orgasm as M-K deems necessary, at her sole and absolute discretion.
· The duration and sensitivity/roughness of s-man’s sexual performance at the pleasure of M-K is at the sole discretion of M-K.
· S-man’s complete body belongs exclusively to M-K. As such, M-K has unilateral use, control and direction of s-man’s body at all times.
· Any part of s-man’s body is available for use by M-K at any time, day or night, for any reason including sexual, visual or physical pleasure of M-K, in any way M-K determines. S-man may be required to perform sexual acts that give direct stimulation to M-K or s-man may be required to perform sexual acts on him for the visual pleasure of M-K. Any such acts are at the sole discretion of M-K.
· Any sexual demand/request made of s-man by M-K will be immediately carried out without question and with enthusiasm.
· S-man is only allowed to have an orgasm, full or ruined when given permission and under the direct supervision of M-K. When in the presence of M-K, and when on the verge of achieving orgasm, even a previously approved orgasm, s-man must still ask for permission to orgasm. S-man will only be allowed to orgasm if such permission is granted by M-K
· S-man may not fondle, massage, stroke, rub or otherwise touch or sexually stimulate his penis (except during natural human functions and cleaning) without permission or instruction from M-K.
· S-man may not fondle, massage, rub, enter or otherwise sexually pleasure his anus (except during natural human functions and cleaning) without permission or instruction from M-K.
· S-man will wear any accessory or device, externally or internally, M-K deems necessary at any given time, for however long is deemed appropriate by M-K, without hesitation and without argument. Such device may be anything that might harness or control s-man’s penis or something that may be inserted and held in s-man’s ass.
· Any item that may be inserted into s-man’s ass will be at the sole discretion of M-K. Items may be inserted for a variety of reasons, such as training s-man’s ass; as a punishment; as a reward; as a visual stimulation for M-K; as a constant reminder of s-man’s dedication to M-K throughout the day; just because M-K wants to.
· S-man is required to communicate with M-K about any physical issues that may prevent s-man from performing his duties in the service of M-K.
· The s-man is under the exclusive authority and is the property of M-K.
· Finding a punishment that has the desired effect of correcting behavior, is an exercise for M-K to determine, at her sole discretion. Such punishments shall be determined to be corrective punishment or punishment that is in direct correlation to displeasure of the s-man by M-K, at M-K’s sole and absolute discretion.
· M-K may determine that regularly scheduled, maintenance punishments will be useful. The type, duration and severity of said maintenance shall be at the sole discretion of M-K.
Punishment may include, but are not limited to the following:
I would love to hear your honest thoughts, comments or questions, good or bad. We tried hard to keep these rules as a general reference point from which to operate, and not attempt to specifically drill down into the weeds on absolutely each and every point. That became too tedious. Besides, at the end of the day, the REAL RULES in our lives are the ones that Mistress K. decides at any given moment. To that end, in the absence of exceeding any hard, already agreed upon limits, I trust Mistress K. to pilot our vessel to continued and renewed happiness, and would do anything she asked/told of me.