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Sunday, May 10, 2015

It's time to be spanked again

I was out of town on a business trip last week for 3 days.  Unlike earlier in our marriage, being apart from Mistress K. is a rare appearance these days.  I just don't travel for business much anymore, which is a good thing.

I was in Miami and one day I went deep sea fishing.  On this particular day things were hectic and I just simply failed to communicate with Mistress K.    I texted her in the morning and let her know that I was about to go fishing and she responded by telling me that she thought it was awesome that I had a chance to go.  Long story short, several hours later she received a picture of fishing activities and then for the next 6 hours, she received nothing.  We had a banquet to attend at the conference I was at and on the way back to the hotel, traffic and other issues caused for us to return late.  I had to rush to shower, shave and put my suit and then hurry down to the banquet and schmooze with the other attendees.  Standing in the shower, I was thinking to myself .... I am beat and wish I didn't have to go to this dinner.  My phone battery was dead, so I left it on the charger and heading down to the ballroom.  Knowing I didn't go to Miami to sleep, I "pressed flesh and kiss babies" like I was running for Mayor or something.  When it was over (I actually left earlier than most and avoided the inevitable "let's go to the bar and get hammered" group that was forming.  I got back to my room, flopped onto the bed and fell asleep in my clothes.  I was beat!

I was awakened by the beeping of the phone which turn out to be a number of texts from Mistress K.  At this point she was not happy that I had not checked in to tell her that I hadn't fallen into the ocean or some other miserable fate.  Shortly after I woke, the phone rang and Mistress K. read me the riot act for allowing her to worry like that.  She said that my not checking in with her after my return to the shore, and before going to the banquet was not acceptable, that she was not happy and in the stupor of deep slumber I heard her say emphatically .....  "48 hours from the moment you get home". Then she hung up the phone after telling me that she was glad I wasn't dead.  Of course that means that I am to receive a punishment spanking within those 48 hours and that it is my responsibility to allow time and a space for that to happen within those 48 hours no matter what!  Failure to do so will elevate the punishment to whole different level .... the kind of level that neither of us wants to have happen!  This 48 hour period expires tonight (Sunday night) at 11pm, so I am certain that I will be sent to bed with a sore and red bottom.

That's not all.  The day after I returned from my trip, I asked Mistress a question about her job that was snarky and wise-assey.  Immediately before leaving for my trip, Mistress had scolded me about my being snarky sometimes when I communicate with her, or in the way I ask her questions.  "Another 48 hours" was her reply to my snarky question.  That 48 hour period expires at 10pm on Monday evening.  It looks like Monday evening will be busy because recently Mistress introduced a new ritual that will be a part of our life into the future, until future notice.  From now on, the second Monday of every month will be "milking day".  On milking day, I am required to remind Mistress on that morning that it is milking day.  I am to remind her again in the afternoon and that I am to see to it that it happens on that, which means clearing any obstacles (family or otherwise) that may conflict with our new ritual.  It's going to be a busy Monday for sure.

Forgive me for being "off the grid" the past several days.  I have so much reading and catching up to with all my blogging friends and others.  It's good to be home!





14 comments:

  1. Boy oh boy sub hub, you are lucky she didn't kill you. Hubby, whom I've now dubbed Greosn is an avid fisherman - deep sea - the Atlantic. Know where this is going? He never goes out alone but he always gives me the travel plan - where he's putting the boat in, where he's planning to travel, and an estimated ETA. He only forgot to do that once and I went Apeshit on him. Had not heard from him in hours and was ready to call Harbor Patrol. Finally the call came. Hasn't happened again. He will also text periodically while he's on the ocean if he has service. While he's never been in serious trouble, there have been times when the boat broke down or he had trouble and kept me up to date. Doesn't matter if you're on your boat, a friend's boat, or a charter. Shit happens. I'm glad to hear you lived to get back home so Mistress K can properly handle you. I'm sure it will be hot, and not in a good way. Take care. k

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    1. Hi K. Oh boy is right. First, I was completely unaware of how Mistress K. was feeling, but absolutely agree that what I did (or didn't do) was totally unacceptable. I appreciate your comments and mostly that you are glad I am alive. *smile Thank you.

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  2. Oh goodness sub hub, I'm sorry about the double punishment! I can definitely understand Mistress K being worried having not heard from you and also the situation you were in ... a full day, obligations and little time.

    Wishing you the best and hope things and resolved soon. Take care.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thanks so much Roz and I apologize for the delay in replying. Mistress has meted out the punishment and yes, it did have the desired effect ... to all but insure that it won't happen again.

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  3. Hi Subhub. It's your friendly neighborhood submissive idiot with a silly question for you.

    What is the difference between milking and a ruined orgasm? It's not something that I have any experience with, but you are careful using those terms. So I assume there is a difference. Can you clarify for us ignorants?

    Thanks dear.
    Rye

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    1. Hi CollaredMom, and think you for your question. In some respects, there is no difference except that perhaps it might have something to do with what may be intended before beginning. Although the term milking usually implies direct stimulation to the prostate in order to expel semen from the man, it can also be properly used (in my opinion) when using what a mounts to a ruined orgasm to achieve the same result.

      In my world, a ruined orgasm usually comes as the result of a reward during sexual play with Mistress where she believes I deserve a ruined orgasm. This is somewhat because a ruined orgasm has become a preferred substitute to a full orgasm in our marriage. Therefore it usually comes about (no pun intended) as a result of sex play where Mistress deems me worthy of a reward. When it is milking that is the intent from the beginning, the goal there is to simply empty all of whatever semen I may have in me, both methods will suffice but when milking is the intent, and penis stimulation is the method, usually it requires several ruined orgasms in a row (which the great thing about ruined orgasms). When the milking goal is achieve through prostate stimulation, it usually drains me completely and without any sexual satisfaction, Tat being said, there certainly is a satisfaction component involved when naked before Mistress and she has something in my ass, intending to expel all of my semen. *smile

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  4. You made a mistake my friend and now you will accept the proper punishment even if it is a double punishment. One must watch how they behave or be ready to bare their bottoms. I was not aware of milking day hope you enjoy it.
    archedone

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    1. I couldn't agree more my friend, and i have accepted my punishment willingly. Thankfully, as of this writing, it is over and done with.

      Thanks as always for stopping by. Please forgive the delay in replying.

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  5. If I were Mistress K I would be beyond furious with you and you would be getting a much harsher punishment than a spanking for making her worry like that. In fact for every minute from the time she was wondering till she got to talk to you would equal the # of spanks. But then maybe for each hour she had to wonder and worry I'd take away privileges for you for that many days. Making your Mistress and wife worry is really unacceptable. That should never happen. Also snarky comments are very out of line as well. I dont get why your behavior is slipping when it seems lately she has been kind enough to start a few new rituals with you. You were wishing for a little something more from her to feel her control more and she gave you more but you thank her by letting your behavior slip. What's to motivate her to continue finding new ways to control you or use you if you clearly can't remember your place? Just giving you another perspective here.

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    1. Mistress Marie, I totally understand with your sentiments and total understand why Mistress K. was indeed furious. Although the punishment that she handed out wasn't as harsh as what you would've done, believe me when I tell you that has left a lasting impact and such a thing will not likely happen ever again.

      Snarky comments were and always are very out of line as well. I agree. I have been corrected for that as well, with similar lasting effects. Both corrections were something that i was so very much appreciative of. It hurt, but it was supposed to hurt and I deserved both of them.

      Mistress K. has indeed has exerted significantly more control and we have never been closer and happier as a result, the two recent events notwithstanding.

      I love your perspective always Mistress Marie! I certainly hope you already know that. I promise i do not take that for granted. Thank for taking the time to explain your thoughts here. I truly appreciate it!

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  6. Let us know what the punishment will be for your snarky and wise-assey comments as well as not staying in better contact. I would assume the punishment will be quite severe since a Mistress is not likely to tolerate either behavior, especially the snarky comments. I would thnk he will want to put you in your place and remind you again that you must serve her and please her 24/7. There is no off time.

    FD

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    1. Both punishments were severe enough Florida Dom, to leave the proper lasting effect. Mistress ordered to strip naked and then accompany her into our large walk-in closet. it was pitch black in there and Mistress kept it that way while she punished my poor white ass with her pink leather paddle. Her inability to be able to see her "preferred landing spot" each time allowed for the occasional "miss", which only added to the memorable correction of the spanking. In other words, it hurt!

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  7. Hey friend,
    I know that often my absence in blogland is directly related to spending my time focusing on my submission and making things better between my Man and I. I am very much hoping that your Mistress K is taking the reigns and re-focusing your intent on submission...or, maybe I am reading too much into this and all is well?? Either way, take care my friend, talk to you soon.
    XOXO Pearl

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  8. Pearl, I so much adore you for reaching and being concerned about my recent absence from my blog. It warms my heart and I appreciate it very much.

    To be clear ............ everything in our lives is a perfect as it can be! Our family, our marriage and our dynamic is all top notch. It was merely a case of being uber busy with real-life stuff that has prevented me from being active as much as i want(ed) to be here.

    Yes, Mistress K. has indeed taking in the reigns and has been refocusing my obedience, my submission and our love for each other. We couldn't be happier.

    Thank you again my dear for caring.

    XOXOX

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