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Sunday, April 9, 2017

Hello again world ........

It's funny how life is.  You wake up one morning and realize ... het, this is how my life is.  Hopefully, in the days weeks, hours, years leading up to that point, you've had enough courage and wisdom to lead it into a direction that you know will make your soul happy.   No ... I'm not setting you up for a big dramatic announcement about anything bad ..... there is nothing bad.  It's just life and for Mistress K. and I, life continues to be good.

 Life is good in my mind because I still have the same type and amount of deep admiration, respect, love and lust for my beloved Mistress Wife.  As we make our way through everyday life, our kids are getting older (14 and 16) and we really enjoying these years with them.  I stop on occasion and look at my life and realize what an incredibly lucky man I am to be with this beautiful redheaded woman, who is the sweetest, kindest person toe everyone she knows and meets, who is the greatest mother in the world, who is the sexiest female I have ever seen or fantasized about, and ............. this woman is also the same woman that owns my heart, my soul, my body and everything on my body and controls every amount of sexual pleasure that I am allowed to receive ... from a single source .... her.

I know Mistress K. in happy and content in her life because of the way she genuinely will stop me from time to time and let me know how much she loves her life.  She loves how comfortable she is in life, how much she loves her family, her children, her husband, her friends ............. Everything. 

About 6 months or so ago, she became aware that she had waaaaay too much on her plate in terms of outside volunteer activities.  PTA, club sports administration, work, ...... everything.  Since then she realized that she needed to shed those volunteer obligations in favor of concentrating on her life at home, her family and to the leadership in our marriage, which she feels to needs to maintain a clearer focus on the path, the journey and the destination that she and I will travel in our FLM.  She has said recently that she has had a epiphany as to where it is she wants to be, what she wants to do and a "way of life" that she wants to life.  She has told me she will be focusing more on getting us there. 

I didn't use the occasion to ask her what she meant, or for clarity.  I purposely held back on my instinctive desire to press her for details.  To ask her what that.  To try to "help" her by giving advice (essentially steering her in a direction I might decide she wants to go - or topping form the bottom).  She was confident and determined in her resolve and had informed me that our "way of life" would be changing.  When I mentioned that that terminology she used made me a little nervous, she replied simply by saying "nothing but good my pet.  If it makes me happy, then it will make you happy, right?".  And she's absolutely right.  I replied (by text because I was traveling on business) with "led me to what you want, wherever you want, and I will follow". 

Since, Mistress has made a number of comments about how things for us will be changing .... What will it be?  What will it look like?  Will she be establishing new boundaries in our marriage?  I don't know .... but I do know that as long as she is leading me, I will follow.

10 comments:

  1. Hi SubHub,

    Sounds like great developments. It's also great that your wife is able to take a step and back and look at what is working for her and what isn't. We all sometimes get so wrapped up in the daily grind that it's hard to see that we're just overloaded. It's a good lesson that we can't have it all. Or, at least, not all at the same time.

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    1. I couldn't agree more. Thanks for taking the time to stop by and comment my friend!

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  2. sub hub welcome back you have been missed. We all love to help out where we can but sometimes as we are helping we get involved in helping more and more and soon we turn around and say where did life go? By all means spend as much time with your kids as you can they are getting too close to the time that they will have other interests and you will only see them as they come home or just as they are leaving. It sounds like Mistress K has some new plans and maybe new types of play and to use you. Come back more often if you can.
    archedone

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    1. Thanks archedone. Good to be back. Obviously I am struggling to find the time to be able to post like I should be. I'm not sure if she has new plans or has just reach a level of comfort to be able to start to really dictate how she will enjoy life. She told me last night that this will be a work in progress and that we will be re-writing our "rules" (contract) as soon as school is over.

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  3. Hello friend! Good to see you have something on the horizon that may spark some more posts =).

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    1. Hello Pearl. Thanks so much and it is always a thrill to "see" you. Thank you for your loyal support. You are a good friend! I'll do my best to begin to share the nuances of our life together again.

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  4. Wonderful to see you post Sub hub:) I agree, it's great that Mistress K was able to step back and realise she had so much on her plate and changes she wishes to make, both in and outside of your relationship.

    Exciting times ahead! I absolutely love your reply. Your love for Mistress K shines through in every post :)

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    Roz

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    1. Hello Roz and thank you as always for coming by. I love to hear from you and my other loyal friends! After giving it some thought, it is indeed exciting now that we are coming into our "wheelhouse" portion of our relationship. She is becoming increasingly more confident in every aspect of her (O/our) life and the result is that I am falling even deeper in love with her, if that is possible.

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  5. Good to see you back, and a great post. You have a very wise wife there and I will be interested to see how things change for the two of you. hugs abby

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    1. Hello abby and thank you for stopping by. She is indeed very wise and as she continues to settle into her role of being in control of her pleasure and happiness, I see our life together becoming increasingly more purposeful.

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