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Friday, March 25, 2016

Happy Spring Everyone


EVERYTHING IS JUST FINE!!!

I've always felt a little uneasy about apologizing for being away from bloggie-land for such a long time.  There have been a few people reach out to me privately, just to see if everything is ok, and I can't tell you how warm that makes my heart.  Who doesn't like to cared about anyway?

I casually mentioned to Mistress the other night that it has been 6 weeks or so since I last posted on my blog.  There was an immediate, audible gasp followed by a narrowing of the eyes and furrowing of the brow.  She was not happy about it!  As she put it ... "you have an obligation to stay in contact with those nice people that take the time to be your friend."  You know what .... she's absolutely right.  And so, I apologize my friends.  Although I haven't been writing, I have been reading and I love being there with you in each of your lives.

Mistress asked why I hadn't been writing recently.  I just that I hadn't been inspired, and so ..........  It wasn't meant personally against, but I believe she may have initially taken it that way.  I know that all relationships have ebbs and flows as far as activity goes, and we certainly are no different.  But the core feeling are always there .... after all, I am a collared husband!


You see that thin strip of wood?  It is a piece of unfinished wood trim.  It is flat on the bottom and has rounded edges on the top.  The flat bottom is just less than 3/4 of inch wide and the whole thing is less that 1/4 inch thick. 

See that countertop it is laying on?  That is an island in the our closet that Mistress will often have me lay on to receive spankings.  But, that's not what happened this morning.  What did happen this morning was Mistress called me into the closet after getting out of the shower and before getting dressed.  When I arrived, she told me to fetch the stick pictured above.  I did so, handed it to her and was told to lower my pants.  Instead of having me lay on the table, Mistress instead had me stand against the wall with my hands on it, above my head.  She reintroduced me to the "stick" and proceeded to elicit some yelps as she administered my punishment for not washing the dishes one night.  Right about when she was done, she reached for my cock and giggled a bit to find it rock hard.  I mean rock hard! 

Now I realize that there is indeed a kinky, sexy element associated with received a bare-bottom spanking.  I get that.  But for me, the actual act of being spanked is NOT what arouses me.  What arouses me when I am being spanked is the incredibly intimate attention that my Mistress Wife is giving me in that moment.  Her willingness and ability to adjust and correct my behavior in such a ways as to please her, touches me on a very deep, emotional level.  I think most subs can appreciate what I am saying here. 

I could tell.  Mistress was about finished punishing me when she discovered my super hard cock.  Mistress likes to incorporate spankings with edgings and this morning was no exception.  Mistress would stroke my cock and get me so dangerously close to coming, then give me several hard swats with the stick/paddle/hand, and she will repeat that process several times.  As always, after being punished, I was ordered to my knees in front of her so I can lay my head on her tummy, thanks her for my spanking and so she can administer after care. 

Over the past couple of months, episodes like this have been few and far between.  Sometimes real life takes you in that direction.  Mistress and I have recognized that and have both acknowledged that we need to make our FLM a more primary part of our life again.

I've come to realize two things:  First, I really miss you guys  and second, I really need spankings.  I am going to ask Mistress K. if we can have a spanking boot camp.  Have any of you done a spanking boot camp?  Can you enlighten me/us on how to do it?

17 comments:

  1. Great to see your post! Was just thinking yesterday that I hadn't seen a post from you in a while. Glad to hear that all is well, and that the wonderful FLM relationship you have with your wife is continuing nicely. You're a very lucky man! :)

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  2. Thank you so much coco! From the looks of it, you are a very lucky man too!

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  3. I definitely know what you mean when you write "But for me, the actual act of being spanked is NOT what arouses me. What arouses me when I am being spanked is the incredibly intimate attention that my Mistress Wife is giving me in that moment." Being spanked is such an intimate act to give and receive. Perfectly put. Unfortunately I can't advise on the boot camp idea, but I hope you're able to receive the spankings you want and need. We're having a slightly off few weeks right now, too - maybe it's the weather here this time of year - I'm in a confused cycle of too warm, too cold, and back again. I like when the only temperature I'm noticing is the heat in my backside from a spanking!

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    1. Thank you Abby Williams. That spring weather can be like that, although here in Phoenix, it got down to something like 65 degrees the other night and I was shivering!

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  4. That was a very nice discipline session you had there. Your Mistress was very generous with her time. No help on a boot camp as we have never held one.

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    1. Hi Michael M, and thank you as always for stopping by. I agree, my Mistress was exceedingly generous with her time, and I am always grateful

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  5. Welcome back sub hub you were missed. You deserved that spanking for more than the dishes I think you know what I mean. I wish I could help you on boot camp. Maybe look it up on the computer you should find a few things.
    archedone

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    1. Hi archedone, and thank you for the warm welcome (back). I've tried to look it online but it seems to be the best kept secret since Area 51

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  6. We miss you, too! Please thank Mistress for telling you to write -- and finding the proper "encouragement" for a post!
    i'll be interested too if people have info on boot camps.
    Here, my Wife has also recently started a thing for spanking me while we both stand. i lean into Her submissively, and She tells me what i've done wrong in one ear, while reaching around with a paddle and working over my behind!! This is usually followed by Her tossing me down on the bed (i love that!), where it continues.
    My Wife also likes to feel the hardness of my cock as she progresses. i think Women like it, at it shows Them clearly the power They are wielding! I get really hard at first, then subside a bit from the pain.
    sara

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    1. Hi sara. I'll be sure and pass along your thanks to Mistress K.

      I think being spanked while standing (arms above their head) is the most efficient and meaningful way to be punished, especially when the spanked is required to press their body up again the wall while being spanked.

      I often worry that Mistress will mis-interpret my hard cock while being punished, as a sign that I am enjoying the pain. It's not. It's that hard because I am wallowing in the intimate attention I am receiving from her at that moment. Although, there have been times that Mistress didn't have any interest in worrying about the source of my hard cock when she was really pissed. Those would be the times that I would be required to masturbate to a full-on orgasm prior to receiving my hard spanking.

      Thanks as always for topping by sara.

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  7. Hi Subhub,
    So good to see you are back, I was afraid you had drifted off to dust like so many good blogs do. I'm not one to talk since I go long periods without posting, but you are very regular so it was very unusual. Glad to see that all is well and probably just too darn busy like we all are.
    Good to see that you are getting the whipping you deserve. I got a good belt thrashing last week because I forgot to bring my wife some cookies.
    Actually, it was just an excuse to give me the whipping I crave. She doesn't discipline me even though I wish she would.
    But being whipped because we both enjoy it, or at least I enjoy and she gives me what makes me happy, is very fun and loving.

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    1. Thanks MRBILL. Glad to be back. Seems like things are going well for you as well!

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  8. Welcome back and how about a maintenance schedule for spankings each day when you get out of the shower and before you go to bed. Make spankings a regular part of your lifestyle.

    FD

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    1. Hi Florida Dom. I think that's a wonderful idea. I will surely pass it along to Mistress K.

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  9. I too am glad to see you back, and pleased to see that your Mistress has been keeping you on your toes. Penney

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    1. Thanks Penney. So good to be back. I've missed you!

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  10. Glad to see your posting again. I thought you had the same sickness I've been dealing with... the "I don't have anything to write about" one. I hope you keep at it. I always enjoy reading the story of your life as you allow us to see it. I can't help you with the spanking part (my bottom is a virgin one :) Enjoy your Mistress friend.

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