Maintenance Spanking - What are your thoughts?

 Men do need discipline.  I realize that not everybody in the FLR/WLM world believes in or practices spanking of the male by the Dominant Female.  That's cool.  But among those that do, what are your thoughts on maintenance spanking?  You know, the kind of spanking that perhaps happens regularly as a not-so-subtle reminder of what is in store if disappointment of the Mistress should happen, for whatever reason.

Should maintenance spanking be the kind that is really kind of not fun?  

Should it be the kind that is memorable but maybe not as severe as a punishment spanking?

Should it be the kind that is used for conditioning?  Perhaps so there is an association of some stinging and edging?

Mistress K. and I have talked recently about implementing maintenance spanking in our house but just haven't yet.  We both realize that it does require some physical effort on her part, which isn't something she want to do at a given moment.  She is contemplating whether or not the effort is worth the benefit.

Please do share your thoughts and experience about maintenance spankings.  I'd love to be able to provide Mistress K. with feedback she can use while she contemplates.

Have a great weekend everyone, and thank you for stopping by.

Every Once in Awhile

 A year ago, when my Mature Metal Bird Cage chastity cage arrived, I went from a husband that wore a cage only on very rare occasions, and even the was only as punishment for severe infractions.  It was used as a punishment then because it was very uncomfortable and frankly, not very sanitary after just a day or so.  The Bird Cage solved both of those problems.

We soon began to recognize that my attitude was greatly improved when caged, and as such, Mistress K. began to cage me more and more and more often and for longer periods of time.  Then, when we had and Mistress wanted to be penetrated, she would have me wear a dildo and strap on cock, for a few reasons but not the least of which was there was no reason to remove my cage.  

We began rapidly to move in the direction of (mostly) permanent caged chastity and (mostly) exclusive use of the Vixskin dildo in the strap on harness.  That may sound terrible on the surface but it's not!  We have both had some of the best sex of our marriage during this time.  Yes, me too.  

I was allowed as many ejaculations in this past as I normally would have.  Once Mistress learned I was able to orgasm (ruined) while caged, it added to the list of good reasons to not have to remove the cage.  Most of those ejaculations came via an uncaged ruined orgasm, and I still get those from time to time.  The ruined orgasm that comes because I am caged is a just a new variety she's discovered from the (mostly) permanent cage wear.  The 2-3 non-ruined orgasms, although there was stimulation allowed until all the ejaculate was, well, ejaculated (full-on orgasm), they were still just a slight improvement over a properly ruined orgasm.  Last night was different.

We went and had a nice Italian dinner at our favorite neighborhood joint.  Enjoyed some fine 18-year-old scotch were just chillin.  Both of us complaining about how tired we were, etc.  The dinner was delicious and the scotch, well the scotch lit a fire in Mistress that needed to be put out - pronto!  "Let's go now.", she said.  In the car she said we were "having sex" when we got home.  "The minute we walk in the door you are to get naked and take your cage off. "  In the time it took to do that she was naked and growling.  

She took hers.

Then she gave some of it to me.  

After she came down to earth from her massive orgasm, she said "I want you fuck me and yes, you may cum!"  It was the first time I had a full-on orgasm since September.  It was the first time I was inside her since the beginning of February.  It was the first time that I wasn't on the edge of orgasm, entered her and thrusted, and thrusted, and thrusted and kept thrusting until I came inside her.  It was the first that happened, and the first time I came inside in I don't know how long.  The absolute cherry on top was that we had massive simultaneous orgasms.  It was wow!

Immediately following ... "put your cage back on!"

I have the greatest life because I have the greatest wife.  I love you Mistress!