Thursday, January 19, 2023

I Missed an Important Text

13 years ago, when Mistress K. and I entered into the beautiful wife-led love affair that we have now, then again 8 years ago during our collaring ceremony, I pledged to dedicate my life and my efforts to being attentive to her needs, and just as importantly, her desires.  It was then and is now the cornerstone of our beautiful marriage together.  

This morning my phone beeped with a text notification.  I looked and to my disappointment I noticed that Mistress K. pinged a text she sent at 1 in the morning, long after i had gone to sleep.  It read simply:

"Wake me at 9am.  Hot cup of coffee in only red panties kneeling bedside - Don't disappoint.

To my horror, it was 9:25am and it was the ping that brought my attention to her middle of the night text.  I immediately went in to apologize for being inattentive.  She was sitting up in bed and none too happy.  "I'm so sorry Mistress, I didn't notice the text until now", I said.  She was not having any of it.  Sitting up, arms crossed and stunningly naked, she said "make it happen!  Now!

I immediately got her coffee ready, stripped naked, put on my red thong panties, went to her bedside, kneeled and presented her coffee to her.  

Still not happy she said "Get your paddle!".  I returned with the paddle, and she proceeded to make the necessary correction to my forgetfulness and behavior.

It hurt!  Mostly because it has been a while since I was last paddled, and before that it had also been a while.  It hurt!

I thanked Mistress K. for my spanking, and thanked her for loving me.  She allowed me to nuzzle and kiss in her neck for a bit and then return the paddle to it's place in her drawer.

Really, some of the best, closest, most loving moments we have is immediately following a punishment paddling.  Thank you Mistress K.  I love you!

Tuesday, January 10, 2023

Ruined Orgasms - Femdom Think Tank

One of my favorite bloggers, Mz Kaylee, just posted a wonderful blog about ruined orgasms.  You can find it here.

I have been a huge proponent and lover of ruined orgasms for years, and I believe this blog entry is excellent.  I hope you'll take a look. 

Friday, December 30, 2022

"You Will Be My Sex Slave Today"

She whispered that me this morning when I was summoned bedside when awoke earlier than usual.  "Remove your pants and make it hard for me." "Stroke it for me." "You are going to be my sex slave today.  I don't know what means yet, but that's how it is going to be.  Put some panties on."

She massaged by hard cock through the lacy material of the panties with beautiful, warm hand.  "Leave me now.  Be ready when I call for you."  Yes Mistress, I said ... and left the room.

90 minutes or so later, after she woke up again, I was again summoned again.  "Pull your panties down just enough to expose your cock and ass.  Get hard ... now.  Hand me my vibrator."  She told me to lay on my side and had me enter her in the T-position.  Read about that here.  She gave herself 3 orgasms, then summarily dismissed me from the room to fetch her phone, her reading glasses and the remote for the TV.  She was settling in to watch episodes of Sex in the City.  I returned with the items I was sent for, thanked Mistress K. and left her to watch her show in peace.

In the meantime, I will continue to stand by at the ready.

Sunday, December 25, 2022

Christmas Morning

Since we had a houseful of company last night, Mistress K. did not want me bumping into anyone accidentally with my cage, so I was told to remove it.  I was allowed to go to sleep without putting it back on.

I went in the bedroom this morning, like I do every morning, to see if Mistress K. was ready for her cup of fresh, hot coffee.  She was groggy and all snuggly warm under covers, sleepy eyes, adorable as fuck.

She pointed at my shorts and then to the floor as if to say that is where my clothes should be.  

Naked, she commanded me to get hard.  

Took but a second.  

She removed the covers, scooched to the edge of the bed, opened her legs and pulled me inside of her.

"Let's soak for a bit."  For those that don't know, soaking is where I am allowed inside of her but there are NO thrusting movements, or any movements for that matter, allowed.  Just peaceful, beautiful loving canoodling, kissing and expressions of love.  It was heaven!

After a few minutes she slid back to the middle of the bed and commanded me back inside her for more soaking.  After 10 minutes or so of blissful soaking, I asked if I could cum.  The answer was no.  

Another 5 minutes of soaking then she said, "Go get my coffee."  I thanked her for the unexpected Christmas morning surprise and treat and off I went.  

What a beautiful morning!

Wednesday, November 23, 2022

Ordered to remove my cage (update)

OK, so Mistress K. removed my cage just because she wanted to.  Read about it here. She didn't tell me my, nor did she have- to of course.  I still wondered why.  The reason?  Because she felt like it mostly.  What a beautiful reason.

During the six days I was unlocked, there was a lot of spontaneous edging and denial.  Lots.  Frequently called to her bedside while drinking her coffee and watching her home improvement shows to produce an erection, "now", stroke to the edge, then sent on my way.

Then she told me on Monday night that will be caged again in the morning for another undetermined period of time, and that I would have a release before going into the cage.  The "release process" was soaking, followed by enough thrusting to being me to edge of orgasm, then denied an orgasm, then remove my cock from her haven, then ejaculate on her tummy, ruined orgasm style.

She is so good to me.  Back in the cage I go, then I have work to do.  We have a shit ton of people coming to our house for Thanksgiving.  See you on the other side!

Thursday, November 17, 2022

Ordered to remove my cage


Since the early spring this year, I have been in (mostly) permanent caged chastity.  Exceptions for the obvious reasons ... air travel, venues with metal detectors, the two times Mistress K. felt especially charitable and wanted to fuck her with my own real cock, and even cum inside of her, but for the most part, always caged.

Last night, right before I dozed off to sleep, Mistress K. rolled over, kissed me goodnight, said "I Love You" and ... "when you serve me my coffee in the morning, you will have removed your cage.

What does it mean?  I don't know cuz she's still sleeping.  I'll let you know what, if anything, comes of it.

Sunday, November 13, 2022

We continue to evolve .... (a lazy post because it's got a lot of pictures)

The following works exactly the same (maybe even better) if you replace the word girls, with the word boys.  Just sayin.

 Forever .....

Perhaps he means the ruined kind of orgasm in his cage.

There is wisdom in "be careful what you ask for".  That said, our sex life has never been better.

A truer statement has never been said.

Who wouldn't want to know the answer to this?

No, my glorious Mistress, you have to pretend anymore.

The above pictures and captions were obtained from the marvelous Tumblr sites of my friends, Mrs Edge Says, and her dutiful, loving husband Tom Allen.  They have been an inspiration to Mistress K. and I on our journey.  Thank you both.