Is it Feminization When She Fucks You?

Some say yes.  Some say sometimes.  Some say nah.  I say if that's what your goal is, then pegging is probably a central component of your journey, but it, in and of itself, does not define feminization.

I came across this blog post that is titled "Your Dildo - The Best Tool To Feminize Him", and it comes from a site called Naughtygurl.  The site is primarily dedicated to the feminization of men and sissys.  I'm not a sissy and Mistress K. currently has no desire to turn me into one.  Yes, she will often require me to wear panties under my clothes for work and for her general viewing pleasure.  Other than that, there is no desire to feminize me.

That said, as our WLM relationship as evolved over the years, I find that I am caged 24/7/365 (mostly) and that the source of my orgasms is increasingly limited to while I am caged, and while I am penetrated anally.  In fact, Mistress K. made it a point to let me know that I was under NO orgasm restrictions when I am caged and being penetrated anally.  In every other circumstance, I am required to ask for and receive permission to orgasm, which rarely happens.  This may sound awful, but it isn't.  In fact, it's wonderful.

"Feminization is an on-going process that includes many things that can be summarized as "making him behave like a woman."  This process includes, turning his ass into a pussy; dressing him in panties, bras, skirts, high-heels; putting make-ups, and so on.

"Among all of these tools, the one that is the most serious and successful is "strap-on sex."  By merely fucking his ass, you'd have passed 50% of the process of feminizing him."

This excerpt from the blog I mentioned earlier states, correctly in my opinion, that turning his ass into a pussy and dressing him in panties (not the rest of the stuff listed), has a profound positive effect on a happy, devoted submissive husband in a loving Wife Led Marriage.  

"The act of fucking his ass has dual effect, psychological and biological (yes, biological too), on each of you and him.  As he bends over to you, he physically and psychologically behaves like a woman.  The more he gets fucked, the more he'll like it and the more he'll behave femininely, and the less he would think of his dick for fucking; rather he would think more of being bottom".  

"This is because the ass is a natural part of the man, and since it gives him more pleasure than his dick, then his thinking of anal sex would replace that of him being on top."

I agree with these comments from the blog.  Anticipating and desiring her cock does cause me to behave like a woman.  A slutty woman, but a woman nonetheless.  I often will say to my Wife, "I'm trying to earn your cock Mistress."

"For you, the process is reversed.  The more you fuck his ass, the more masculine you become.  You physically and psychologically behave like a man.  When you wear your dildo under your pants, you start looking for a pussy to fuck.  When you fuck your hubby's pussy, your self-esteem is higher and your muscles become stronger and stronger."

I have asked, and Mistress K. has agreed, to start wearing her harness and dildo around the house under her regular clothes in order to enhance her comfort and familiarity with having a cock.  And yes, we do think that she will start looking for a pussy to fuck, and I hope that pussy is mine.  

Besides merely fucking his ass, it is equally important the way you do it, and the way you think of each other as you have sex.  Of course, most people love different positions in sex.  However, it is very crucial that you frequently fuck his ass hard, and while you be in full control of the position.  Pounding his ass is a good idea.  The more you are in control and powerful, the more you love yourself on top and the more he'll love you on top too.

The easiest way of fucking his pussy is the doggy-style, but the most meaningful position is the missionary (or the girly position).  Lifting his legs backward, putting his ankles on your shoulders or around your back is the loveliest position.

My favorite position, to start, is lying face down, legs together while Mistress K. straddles my legs while she fucks my ass.  In the end, I always ask for Mistress K. to fuck me in the missionary position because it is the most intimate way to be fucked.  I get to stare at her face and into her eyes as an orgasm builds (hopefully), and in the end, we can share an incredibly intimate moment.

"You can both look at each other.  You look at him under your control, and he looks at you in control of him.  Having strong muscles would have a great effect on his psychology as he'll see your muscles tightening and loosening while you take him."

Being fucked by my Wife is the single most effective way for me to be immersed in subspace, followed closely by punishment spankings.  

Being allowed to be of service to my Wife is the most beautiful place to be.  

Some day ... when we both really want to get fucked.

Have a beautiful day and thank you for stopping by.