Is it Feminization When She Fucks You?

Some say yes.  Some say sometimes.  Some say nah.  I say if that's what your goal is, then pegging is probably a central component of your journey, but it, in and of itself, does not define feminization.

I came across this blog post that is titled "Your Dildo - The Best Tool To Feminize Him", and it comes from a site called Naughtygurl.  The site is primarily dedicated to the feminization of men and sissys.  I'm not a sissy and Mistress K. currently has no desire to turn me into one.  Yes, she will often require me to wear panties under my clothes for work and for her general viewing pleasure.  Other than that, there is no desire to feminize me.

That said, as our WLM relationship as evolved over the years, I find that I am caged 24/7/365 (mostly) and that the source of my orgasms is increasingly limited to while I am caged, and while I am penetrated anally.  In fact, Mistress K. made it a point to let me know that I was under NO orgasm restrictions when I am caged and being penetrated anally.  In every other circumstance, I am required to ask for and receive permission to orgasm, which rarely happens.  This may sound awful, but it isn't.  In fact, it's wonderful.

"Feminization is an on-going process that includes many things that can be summarized as "making him behave like a woman."  This process includes, turning his ass into a pussy; dressing him in panties, bras, skirts, high-heels; putting make-ups, and so on.

"Among all of these tools, the one that is the most serious and successful is "strap-on sex."  By merely fucking his ass, you'd have passed 50% of the process of feminizing him."

This excerpt from the blog I mentioned earlier states, correctly in my opinion, that turning his ass into a pussy and dressing him in panties (not the rest of the stuff listed), has a profound positive effect on a happy, devoted submissive husband in a loving Wife Led Marriage.  

"The act of fucking his ass has dual effect, psychological and biological (yes, biological too), on each of you and him.  As he bends over to you, he physically and psychologically behaves like a woman.  The more he gets fucked, the more he'll like it and the more he'll behave femininely, and the less he would think of his dick for fucking; rather he would think more of being bottom".  

"This is because the ass is a natural part of the man, and since it gives him more pleasure than his dick, then his thinking of anal sex would replace that of him being on top."

I agree with these comments from the blog.  Anticipating and desiring her cock does cause me to behave like a woman.  A slutty woman, but a woman nonetheless.  I often will say to my Wife, "I'm trying to earn your cock Mistress."

"For you, the process is reversed.  The more you fuck his ass, the more masculine you become.  You physically and psychologically behave like a man.  When you wear your dildo under your pants, you start looking for a pussy to fuck.  When you fuck your hubby's pussy, your self-esteem is higher and your muscles become stronger and stronger."

I have asked, and Mistress K. has agreed, to start wearing her harness and dildo around the house under her regular clothes in order to enhance her comfort and familiarity with having a cock.  And yes, we do think that she will start looking for a pussy to fuck, and I hope that pussy is mine.  

Besides merely fucking his ass, it is equally important the way you do it, and the way you think of each other as you have sex.  Of course, most people love different positions in sex.  However, it is very crucial that you frequently fuck his ass hard, and while you be in full control of the position.  Pounding his ass is a good idea.  The more you are in control and powerful, the more you love yourself on top and the more he'll love you on top too.

The easiest way of fucking his pussy is the doggy-style, but the most meaningful position is the missionary (or the girly position).  Lifting his legs backward, putting his ankles on your shoulders or around your back is the loveliest position.

My favorite position, to start, is lying face down, legs together while Mistress K. straddles my legs while she fucks my ass.  In the end, I always ask for Mistress K. to fuck me in the missionary position because it is the most intimate way to be fucked.  I get to stare at her face and into her eyes as an orgasm builds (hopefully), and in the end, we can share an incredibly intimate moment.

"You can both look at each other.  You look at him under your control, and he looks at you in control of him.  Having strong muscles would have a great effect on his psychology as he'll see your muscles tightening and loosening while you take him."

Being fucked by my Wife is the single most effective way for me to be immersed in subspace, followed closely by punishment spankings.  

Being allowed to be of service to my Wife is the most beautiful place to be.  

Some day ... when we both really want to get fucked.

Have a beautiful day and thank you for stopping by.

Sickness and Surgery

 

Since January 2nd, our house has been filled with refugees from the LA fire mess, sickness (flu), and minor surgery for me.  These have conspired to keep me away from the keyboard.  

As a result, not too much fun, WLM stuff to report on since the time.  I didn't want too much time to elapse without putting something here.  I'll apologize in advance for harvesting the low-hanging apple by posting pictures here that make me horny or fantasize about.

This picture is hot because, well ... because it is.  Before we got sick and invaded by California refugees, I had asked Mistress K. to wear the strap-on around the house during the day to get intimately acquainted with the sensation of having a cock.  I was inspired by a blog (here) from my friend Emma over at Evolving Your Man.  Anyway, Mistress K. said that she would do that and that it sounded like it would be fun, but the circumstances of the past few weeks have prevented it.  Something to look forward to though.

Gotta be sure, sometimes doubly sure.  You know our minds expand as we get older.  LOL

Yeah ... this says it all.  

One of my favorite things that happens in my marriage is when my Wife decides she wants my mouth on her glorious pussy, and then just pushes me down.  Not asking.  Not flirting. Not insinuating.  Pushing!

This is what Mistress gave me right after when she was especially pleased with my behavior.  "Good boys get treats.", as she likes to say.

A spanking really doesn't begin until those white marks disappear.  I suspect that Mistress K. will feel like catching-up is in order when circumstances allow (next few days).

Because this is so true!  Successful marriages DO require discipline!

Love this.

Nothing sexier than a Mistress Wife that knows what she wants, and makes it happen.

Don't tell her I put this one here.  It's been a while since Mistress K. told me to be her Master for a few hours.  I want to again ... soon. I used to be the Dominant one.

There's no question.  I'm a lucky husband.  

I have other things that make me horny or that I fantasize about, but I'm just too shy to talk about them.  I need to go continue to recover from my minor surgery.  I'll be back soon.

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