Before we were a FLM, Mistress K. and used to switch roles when we played D/s games. Plus, Mistress K. keeps hearing me prattle on and on about how awesome subspace is ............ when in the presence of someone that you love more than anything. I don't think it will be possible for that deep subspace feeling to happen in such a short period of time, but it will be my goal for her. Whether I have 10 minutes or 10 days in a temporary dominant role, that will be my goal.
Not surprisingly, the things that I want to do with/to her are many of the same things she enjoys having me do in my normal sub role. I feel like having her allow me to worship her pussy and her ass. Maybe worship her whole body with those all-over baby kisses that she loves (I love them too) so much?
As an aside, Mistress lost a bet we made the day. The wager was 5 spanks, meaning I would give her 5 spanks if she lost the bet. She lost the bet! I think I'll be incorporating that into my temporary Dom-ness.
There will a point where she hands over the dominant reigns but before doing so we will have discussed what amounts to limits. Both limits of where she is willing to go, and limits of where I am ALLOWED to go. For example, regardless of our temporary status, I will not have the right to unilaterally decide that I am allowed. Specifically, I will not be. Also, I will be operating with the understanding that if I were to cross any previously discussed limits line during our role-reversal play, Mistress K. would likely think long and hard about ever wanting to do this with me again. In short, I'll be required to figure out on my own, where the sweet spot (so to speak) is between my natural sub husband role and my temporary Dom role. After it is over, it must end up being a thrilling, exciting, sexy adventure for Mistress to want to ever do it again with me, but I will have to be able to figure how get her there on her own. I can't ask her to tell me what she wants. She wants to be brought there.
Lastly, I came across this stunningly beautiful picture.
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It is not Mistress K., but if I already didn't know that it wasn't her, I would be wondering when it was taken of her. The resemblance is uncanny. MMMMMMMM
SH, sounds like fun. Also sounds like your Mistress is doing a bit of topping from the bottom - meaning - she has stipulations about just how you will Dom her :). Tread lightly my friend but enjoy the time you are in control.
ReplyDeleteIH ... Thanks for stopping by. Mistress K. was/is most definitely topping from the bottom as she has no desire to let it be anything other than a short-term role play thing. I absolutely do intend on treading lightly because I can absolutely see the mines in the minefield.
DeleteThanks for the advice !
Nice to see that picture looks like Mistress K. Seeing her body must keep your very aroused. Does she let you see her naked very often? And good luck Doming her even if she is setting the parameters. Give us all the details and what you did and how you reacted. Do you have a vibrating egg? If not, I recommend you get one. She is likely to love the sensation of feeling it vibrating inside her.
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Hi FD. Yes, Mistress K. allows me to see her naked without restrictions. I am thankful for that! Yes, we do have a vibrating egg so we will see what, if anything gets done with. I might use that should I decide to allow her to have an orgasm. *smile
DeleteWhat else could I say than....Good Luck! It sounds like a really interesting, challenging and demanding job for you.....
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Mistress Angie
Thank you Mistress Angie. I agree, it will be challenging but I know that I am up for it. Ironically, the whole idea is for Mistress to be able to temporarily experience the unmitigated joy of not being in control, but I had better do it right. *smile
DeleteThank you as always for your support.
I love that you guys do this now and again. I could never do it, I have tried in the past, and I really suck at trying to be Dominant in any way. Sir says it's laughable. lol.
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It's rare my sister sub, that it happens. Very rare.
DeleteHow are you feeling and doing? I sure do miss having you around more.
Perhaps the rareness of it makes it that much more wonderful. :)
DeleteI am doing ok, been quite the adjustment dealing with the pain levels without meds, but I am getting there. I am on a bit over a month of no meds now! :) Finally getting caught up , slowly but surely here.. and I so miss being around as well. I am determined to stay put this time around! lol. Trying to rearrange my schedule so writing/reading/commenting stays in the to do list! Writers block isn't helping much, but hopefully I will get past that!
I so have missed your posts, comments and our back and forth fun! :) You'll be seeing me a lot more like before, I have made it a mission here. ;)
xxoo!
Writers block? You? I don't believe it! *grin
DeleteI'm glad to hear you are starting to feel better and get caught up. Look forward to seeing you around.
Stay well.
Lol! It happens.. I assure you! I am over here pushing the words out for a post as we speak... well, trying anyway!
DeleteI can't think of a name for the community blog still either... ee! x_x
Hugs!
She changed her mind .... for now. I really have to stop posting about this as it's something that is going to happen and only post about when/if it does happen. I think I might be jinxing things.
ReplyDeleteI understand you must obey and post only when/if it does happen.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile, I have two questions. I see you posted a comment that when she puts you in the cage, you feel like it is an old friend. do you wish you were caged more often?
And Dominant's wife husband says he is in financial submission. The wife controls the money keeps the credit cards in her purse and puts him on an allowance or makes him ask for money. is your wife into that?
FD
Hi again FD. yes, of course, I must always obey although that is not the reason why I feel that I must simply wait until it actually happens. I want to wait until it actually happens (if it actually does) so i don't jinx it.
DeleteI don't recall the specific comment where I referred to ho my cock cage felt like an old friend, but I do remember saying it. To answer your question .... I sometimes do wish that i was caged more often but ironically, when I do feel that way, it is a very short period of time before i want to be set free again. Once the cage is on, especially if we are able to be alone and the cage is the only thing I wear in the presence of my Mistress, the feeling is incredible. But, I'd rather not have to wear it for days at a time and under my clothes while I work. Knowing that this is how I feel, mistress K. will only require I wear the cage if she chooses to use it as a form of punishment. One notable exception was the night she placed her collar on me. The symbolism of wearing my cage during that wonderful evening was just so right.
To your other question ... No, Mistress does control the money, at least not in the context of our FLM. We do that together like any other vanilla couple would.
I so very much appreciate your posts FD. Especially your questions. Thank you again.