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Monday, May 7, 2018
Love is ........
“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.”
That's the key to a submissive heart. Her happiness is a requirement. And that comes with a whole host of wonderful gifts: vulnerability, empathy, kindness and connection.
Um, not to be the proverbial wet blanket, but that's not the definition of "love" but rather the definition of 'emotional dependence' (which is not a good thing).
Being prone to this flaw resulted in some very serious damage in my previous relationship. Now, I actually WORK to minimize my inclination to have my own happiness revolve around my S.O. being happy.
sub hub, I do agree with that statement. I do things to keep my wife happy. And my wife did things to make me happy that many women would never do (chastity devices, finances, making many of the decisions, etc.). And that’s why I do what she asks and pleasure her in ways she wants. I just kissed and licked her feet thoroughly this morning. It’s worked both ways for love.
*smile* :)
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Roz
Love your smiles Roz. Thank you
DeleteThat's the key to a submissive heart. Her happiness is a requirement. And that comes with a whole host of wonderful gifts: vulnerability, empathy, kindness and connection.
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Key
Thanks Key Barrett. I completely agree.
DeleteUm, not to be the proverbial wet blanket, but that's not the definition of "love" but rather the definition of 'emotional dependence' (which is not a good thing).
ReplyDeleteBeing prone to this flaw resulted in some very serious damage in my previous relationship. Now, I actually WORK to minimize my inclination to have my own happiness revolve around my S.O. being happy.
Maybe not the definition, but a key ingredient, don't you think?
DeleteSo KD what is your definition of love?
ReplyDeleteNice quote. Did you know Heinlein had something of a spanking fetish? It's true, I've looked it up.
ReplyDeleteI did not know that. Doesn't surprise me though. *smile
Deletesub hub,
ReplyDeleteI do agree with that statement. I do things to keep my wife happy. And my wife did things to make me happy that many women would never do (chastity devices, finances, making many of the decisions, etc.). And that’s why I do what she asks and pleasure her in ways she wants. I just kissed and licked her feet thoroughly this morning. It’s worked both ways for love.
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ReplyDeleteTo me, love is the total dedication and submission I give to my Dominant Mistress/life partner.
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