Mere moments after leaving a comment on another blog about Mistress rarely ever tells me to wear my chastity cage, out of the blue came this instruction. Here I sit, wearing my chastity cage for the first since we exchanged our vows and Mistress properly collared last fall.
It feels like an old friend that I haven't seen in a while. A very distinct constant reminder of who owns my sex. I love you Mistress.
WOW! It seems that Mistress has you very well monitored. A "Helicopter Dommy"?
ReplyDeleteYes, Mistress K. always has me well-monitored. Isn't that how it should be? *smile
DeleteThanks as always jen smith for stopping by
Hi sub hub, I think I get you on wearing your chastity cage. Hubby likes to have control of my sex too, which means that he basically decides about my orgasms, and it feels great that way (without a chastity belt though). I am glad that you enjoy your old friend.
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Nina
Hi Ni Na, and thank you as always for reading and leaving a comment. Like most every other D/s relationship, the control of my sex/orgasms by Mistress K. is at the core of our FLM. We are lucky in that we both had been able to discover that we wouldn't want it any other way. Yes, I agree, it feels great and I am grateful to her for assuming that control.
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DeleteI was just going to send congratulations and then I accidentally deleted.
this stuff can be pretty fun huh
Do you think Big Brother (or more appropriate to this case, Big Sister is reporting on you? ;)
ReplyDeleteHi vs-boy, and thanks for commenting. Not sure I understand what you are asking though.
DeleteWelcome back my friend I've missed your posts. Re: cages I'm jealous. You have one to wear and I can only think of one. R and I have looked on line at different cages and read reports on them. She says she likes the look of a caged cock but at this time has not told me to order one. When the time comes to order we will probably get a metal one we have read they are more comfortable.
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Hi archedone old friend. Don't be jealous. For me at least the idea of wearing is much more appealing than wearing one. I will dutifully and happily wear my cage because if that is what Mistress K. wants of me, that's what I want for her.
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Awesome sub hub, glad you enjoyed your old friend :)
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Roz
Thanks Roz. in general, I'd prefer not to have to wear one. I will admit though that there is hardly a more appropriate symbol of male submissiveness than the sight of a securely locked penis.
DeleteDo you feel more submissive in the cage? Do you think she will cage you more often? Considering how dominant she is, I am surprised she doesn't cage you more often.
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Hi FD. Always appreciate your contributions and comments.
DeleteI actually don't feel any more submissive although the sight of my caged manhood is indeed a very poignant symbol of the essence of FLM. Mistress does enjoy the symbolism when she sees me locked for her. It makes her happy so I t makes me happy.
Mistress did mention last night that I should become more used to wearing the cage more often. Almost as if Mistress had forgotten the joy she gets from knowing that my cock is locked.
DeleteGreat to hear it sounds like she will be keeping you in the cage more often as a symbol of the essence of FLM. The fact you prefer not to wear one makes it an ever better symbol of your FLM. As you know so well, this lifestyle is not about what you prefer but what she prefers for you. As you said there is no more appropriate symbol. of male submissiveness.
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Indeed my friend. Indeed! Thank you.
DeleteMe I just completed 110 hours continuous in my Holy Trainer 2. Surprisingly, there were no problems with skin etc, even though I showered thrice. The trick is, don't use a hairdryer...
ReplyDeleteWhy no hairdryer? In my CB6KS it's the only way I can get the inside of the cage dry after a shower. Works perfectly without any issues and I've gone as long as a month in it.
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Found your blog today, as a fly by, lovely photograph Xx
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DeleteHi Anon. So glad you found it today and I hope you stick around or come back once in a while!
ReplyDeleteI'm in the same boat. Just when I thought lockups were over, I find myself locked up.
ReplyDeleteI don't particularly like wearing the cage at work, but it is nice not to have to worry about hiding my erections when I think about her, and her controlling me from afar is a turnon.
I also don't like the hygiene aspects of it; perhaps if this becomes more of a thing, we will need to get a cleaner solution.
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I'm with you brother about the hygiene aspect, especially when peeing. I should probably suggest a cage that does not make the pee spray all over.
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How long did she keep you in the cage? And does she plan putting you back in nany time soon?
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Hi FD. She only kept me in the cage for day and allowed me to remove it when I got into bed. She did say that I needed to get comfortable with wearing it again because she just so much likes how it looks.
DeleteNow that she likes how it looks, it will be interesting to see how quickly she puts you back in it. You will only get more comfortable in it by wearing it more often. And the fact you prefer not to wear it should give her more incentive to keep you in it.
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I agree wholeheartedly with you FD. I don't really hate wearing it. I love feeling what it symbolizes when I am wearing it. I will look down and see this elaborate device that was engineered for one purpose, to keep me for accessing my own sex. That realization makes me appreciate that I have a wife that cares enough about me to want me to wear it.
DeleteThe only "hate" part about wearing one is going pee (sometimes a big mess) and wearing it to bed. I sleep on my tummy and wearing it makes that uncomfortable, and when I get a nocturnal erection (which is several times every night), it is genuinely painful while being caged. Any downside reasons are eclipsed by the joy of knowing that wearing is something that please my Wife.
It's good that you understand and appreciae that you have a wife who cares enough about you to want you to wear it. I understand is is uncomfortable to wear it on your tummy and it is painful when you get a noctural erection and can make a mess when you pee. But it is a positive that you feel joy that wearing it pleases your wife. Will be interested to see how often you have to wear it going forward.
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