On Wednesday, Mistress K. told me to wear a cock ring that day, and every other Wednesday, again, until further notice.
I'm really loving the establishment of some routines. I love being expected to automatically adorn myself in a certain way so as to symbolize my submission to her, and her ownership of me. In fact, during our most recent dinner "to review and discuss our FLM", we spoke about maintenance spankings. recently, Mistress K. took a temporary, part-time job in the field of her previous career because she wanted to. As such, our previous "opportunities" for treats and punishments (in the morning, after the kids went to school) no longer exist. *pout
I hope that we continue to gravitate toward doing things in a more ritualistic and routine fashion.
Have a great weekend my dear friends!
You (and Mistress K) are such a role model for my dreams! I crave doing more ritual activities like this that would remind us both of the ongoing basis of our relationship.
ReplyDeleteI occasionally wear a brass ring around the base of my cock and balls while doing various acts of service (washing dishes, laundry, vacuum floors) and refer to it as my "wedding ring". My wife has told me to show her when I put it on so she can be aware that I am wearing it if nothing else. I feel that is a start towards a routine and love doing it.
Always nice to see you MRBILL. Thanks for commenting and thank you for the kind words. Hopefully you and your Mistress Wife will be able to build on your wearing your brass cock-ring. Hopefully, wearing it will not be your choice and instead will be worn because she has instructed you to do so.
DeleteI love this. Those routine/scheduled things are so important to keeping one in the right head-space, I think. I know I do much better with it when I have rituals to follow, from putting in a butt plug at required times, to kneeling by the bed at night awaiting permission to get into bed etc.
ReplyDeleteI agree with the above comments, such awesome role models you both are. xx
Here here sis!. Scheduled rituals and routine requirements have always been something I had hoped we'd get, and i didn't even know it. The knowledge of being required to do or wear something, even if (maybe even especially if) it may not be something I may really want to do at that moment is exciting. You mentioned "putting in a butt plug ....... one of my favorite things to do. Funny thing ... it takes less (almost none) preparation anymore for me to accept the plug. I used to have to lube up a finger and move it around in there, then add another one in order to loosen up enough to begin the process of accepting the plug. Now, it's almost as if the plug and my ass have known each other well enough that is just simply slips right in without knocking first. I especially enjoy lingering at it's widest part, removing my hand just allowing it to plop into place. Before, I used to just stand in the closet, put a foot on a stool and work it inside of me. Now, I lay on my tummy on the bed and make a short intimate moment out of it.
DeleteThank you as always Amber for the kinds words and the comment.
It was panties today, but was also noted that it was not something i should assume would be every Friday!
ReplyDeleteI'd read your post earlier but wasn't able to comment. It lead to an interesting conversation with db ( my sub ) about us establishing some routines of our own.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the nice comments anna louise. I can't wait to hear all about it.
DeleteWay to go Sub Hub. Hubby and I have been discussing rules and expectations. Butt plug is on the list. Keep up the good work. K
ReplyDeleteI don't know about you K, but wearing my butt plug during the day is something that I very much love to do.
DeleteI have to love the way Mistress K thinks. Making a certain day butt plug day and another cock ring day. Each is a good reminder of your status to her and the reminder lasts all day. We have had maintenance spanking for some time usually 2 times a week and I never know when they will happen. At any time she can tell me that I'm getting maintenance. They are wonderful to receive and for maintenance sex usually follows.
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Very nice archedone. We will begin to discuss maintenance spankings as well. We'll be doing for the sake of being able to maintain her ability to implement punishments in our busy, not always private lives. I'll keep you posted.
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ReplyDeleteI certainly find these rituals intriguing and would love to someday be required to wear a plug. I do wonder how it is for you to wear all day. This may be too personal, but don't you sometimes need to, you know, take a dump or something during the course of a day? What about gas buildup for that many hours?
Thanks for anything on this you choose to share, or not, it's your blog.
mrbill
Thanks for your question MRBILL. It's not too personal and is obvious something to be aware of when wearing butt plug all day.
DeleteFrankly, it hasn't been a problem. Only once have I had "to go" while I was wearing my plug. I'm very regular and eat pretty healthy so it just hasn't come up much. On that day, I was wearing the plug, sitting at my desk in my office, and I had to go. I went into the bathroom, removed the plug and did my business like usual. When I was done, I wrapped the plug in paper and headed for the sink to wash my hands. I had decided that I would try to get away with washing it since nobody else was in the bathroom. It was a little nerve racking, but I was able to get it cleaned without much trouble. After it was clean, I went back into the stall, lubed up my bottom hole with saliva and slid it right back in.
I will tell you this. Since I got the glass plug, I have enjoyed wearing it soooo much more. Before the glass plug, I used a rubber one. I loved it because it was just the right size, but being rubber, it was porous. When it came for it to come out after a long day, it felt stuck in there, even though it really wasn't stuck. The glass plug, of course, is not porous and so when it is time for it come out, it comes out very easily. In fact, when I pull I out, in enjoy pulling it to it's widest part and holding it there manually for a moment or two, just Like I like to do when inserting it ... you know, imagining that it was Mistress' rubber cock filling me.
I love how Mistress comes up with ways to reinforce and remind you both of your roles. Rituals and routines like this are great reminders. I have a vanilla collar (necklace) and love wearing it. Although we haven't been practicing ttwd for sone time and have only recently started playing again, I have continued to wear it.
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Roz
So do I Roz. She's wonderful to me. I'm happy for you that you are engaging again. I can't wait tohear more about your play.
DeleteThanks as always for stopping by.
Thanks sub hub...now i am all hot and bothered ...
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SK♥
How did you know that was me? *smile .......... No, I'm a little older so I don't look like that anymore. That and that flaccid cock is a tiny bit bigger than my flaccid cock. I'm a grower ...............
DeleteThanks as always for stopping by subkitty. You know how much I appreciate it.