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Saturday, March 7, 2015

Question from K in New England answered

I have noticed that more experienced blogger friends are creating new posts in order to answer the questions that they receive.  I've just been answering them in a follow up comment, but I think it's easier to keep track of this by posting it this way.

This question from K in New England was: 

"have you and Mistress talked about sharing/cuckhold and is that something either of you are interested in? Her bringing in another woman to partake in play/punishment or her becoming involved with another man and creating a cuckhold arrangement? Thanks. K"

Hi K.  Thanks for stopping and for the questions.  Always nice to see you!
 
Mistress and I have only talked briefly about sharing/cuckholding.  When we did, it was not something either of us indicated that we wanted to try.  Mistress K has, on occasion, playfully suggested during play that someone else might have to take over if I wasn't up to the task and even once help my bottom open while I was straddling her and mentioned that someone could come up behind me and fill me up.  She didn't elaborate on who that someone could've been, and neither did I.  I merely moaned a little and said "yes Mistress".  It was obviously playful talk.  There may even have been a tiny nugget of wishful thinking on both our parts, on both occasions.  That being said, Mistress has said that she doesn't have a desire to cuck me and quite honestly, I don't think my tender could talk if it were to become a reality. 
 
On the other hand, I have encouraged her to consider bringing on another woman in whatever capacity might interest her. I know, double standard, right?  I'm just being honest.  But, if that were to ever become a reality, I know it wouldn't have the same negative emotional affect on me.  When I do encourage her to bring on another woman, I am genuine when I say it. Whether that other woman was someone that would punish me alongside her, be submissive to her alongside me, or even be dominant to her, I think it would be a wonderful thing that she would enjoy.  However unlikely it may be, I have no delusions that there would be any sexual contact between and whoever this other woman might or could be.  I have a recurring fantasy about being brought by Mistress to a place where she receives a sensuous massage (with several happy endings) where I am caged, bound or secure in some way, and only able to witness her getting pleasure.  In those fantasies, the masseuse is always a woman, but I suppose it doesn't have to be as long as the pleasure she gets does not include her getting fucked or sucking his cock. 
 
 
Thank you again K for your wonderful questions!

11 comments:

  1. Thanks sub hub. Always a pleasure reading your blog and I appreciate your answer. We too have had the conversation from time to time. I'm thinking that if you and Mistress really get on board with adding a 3rd, it happen at some point. Such a big step and lots to consider.

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    1. K ... Why does my heart race when I read all this? Yes, such a big step and SOO much to consider. We've been a couple of times in the past, but that was before our FLM, and we knew it hadn't been thought through enough for us to jump into and risk our love.

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    2. I should've said "we've been close".

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  2. hmmm nice...its nice to dream.

    L

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  3. Good honest reply sub hub. We have never talked about a third person but R would never be interested in cucking me nor would I want to. She is not interested in having sex with another woman either. As far as spanking if she wanted to bring in another woman I'd be happy to accept it but that will never happen so I just dream.
    archedone

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    1. I hear ya brother! A boy can dream though, right?

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  4. Nice to fantasize about things sometimes but from my personal experience I find someone gets hurt emotionally. Since you seem to have an ideal marriage I wouldn't recommend it.

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    1. Thank you ana louise. yes, it is nice to fantasize. Mistress K. and I have always been keen on safe-guarding our emotions. probably the reason it remains a fantasy.

      Thank you for your advice and for the time you took to give it.

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  5. I really enjoy your blog. I've finally managed to read it chronologically from the beginning to now. (Some comments had little meaning since the photos they referenced had been taken down.)

    A March question if I may: You have spoken often of asking Mistress K not to take you beyond a ruined orgasm. Why isn't that topping from the bottom?

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    1. I suppose it could be considered topping from the bottom although it is not my intention. Mistress K. and I often talk about what "preferences" each of us may have. Obviously her preferences are realized and my preferences are merely something that she likes to know about. We all have preferences in our lives (kink or otherwise). My preference to receive a ruined orgasm is eclipsed by my desire to strictly adhere to what Mistress K. prefers. If that includes her wanting me to have a full orgasm, then of course so be it.

      At the end of the day, I'm not telling her of that preference with any expectation that it will change how she feels about it. It's similar to me asking her to stop paddling me. If it hurts, at that moment it is my preference but I have no expectation that it will stop before Mistress believes it should.

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    2. Thank you so much for taking the time to stop by and comment/ask your question!

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