Again Today

She let me wear my plug again today.  Bonus day!  *Grateful!

I still Love Tuesdays

For those of you that remember, this is what I wear every Tuesday.  All day, every Tuesday.  the good news is that TODAY IS TUESDAY!

I miss blogging ......  I'll try to be here more often. 

Happy Spring Everyone

EVERYTHING IS JUST FINE!!!

I've always felt a little uneasy about apologizing for being away from bloggie-land for such a long time.  There have been a few people reach out to me privately, just to see if everything is ok, and I can't tell you how warm that makes my heart.  Who doesn't like to cared about anyway?

I casually mentioned to Mistress the other night that it has been 6 weeks or so since I last posted on my blog.  There was an immediate, audible gasp followed by a narrowing of the eyes and furrowing of the brow.  She was not happy about it!  As she put it ... "you have an obligation to stay in contact with those nice people that take the time to be your friend."  You know what .... she's absolutely right.  And so, I apologize my friends.  Although I haven't been writing, I have been reading and I love being there with you in each of your lives.

Mistress asked why I hadn't been writing recently.  I just that I hadn't been inspired, and so ..........  It wasn't meant personally against, but I believe she may have initially taken it that way.  I know that all relationships have ebbs and flows as far as activity goes, and we certainly are no different.  But the core feeling are always there .... after all, I am a collared husband!

You see that thin strip of wood?  It is a piece of unfinished wood trim.  It is flat on the bottom and has rounded edges on the top.  The flat bottom is just less than 3/4 of inch wide and the whole thing is less that 1/4 inch thick. 

See that countertop it is laying on?  That is an island in the our closet that Mistress will often have me lay on to receive spankings.  But, that's not what happened this morning.  What did happen this morning was Mistress called me into the closet after getting out of the shower and before getting dressed.  When I arrived, she told me to fetch the stick pictured above.  I did so, handed it to her and was told to lower my pants.  Instead of having me lay on the table, Mistress instead had me stand against the wall with my hands on it, above my head.  She reintroduced me to the "stick" and proceeded to elicit some yelps as she administered my punishment for not washing the dishes one night.  Right about when she was done, she reached for my cock and giggled a bit to find it rock hard.  I mean rock hard! 

Now I realize that there is indeed a kinky, sexy element associated with received a bare-bottom spanking.  I get that.  But for me, the actual act of being spanked is NOT what arouses me.  What arouses me when I am being spanked is the incredibly intimate attention that my Mistress Wife is giving me in that moment.  Her willingness and ability to adjust and correct my behavior in such a ways as to please her, touches me on a very deep, emotional level.  I think most subs can appreciate what I am saying here. 

I could tell.  Mistress was about finished punishing me when she discovered my super hard cock.  Mistress likes to incorporate spankings with edgings and this morning was no exception.  Mistress would stroke my cock and get me so dangerously close to coming, then give me several hard swats with the stick/paddle/hand, and she will repeat that process several times.  As always, after being punished, I was ordered to my knees in front of her so I can lay my head on her tummy, thanks her for my spanking and so she can administer after care. 

Over the past couple of months, episodes like this have been few and far between.  Sometimes real life takes you in that direction.  Mistress and I have recognized that and have both acknowledged that we need to make our FLM a more primary part of our life again.

I've come to realize two things:  First, I really miss you guys  and second, I really need spankings.  I am going to ask Mistress K. if we can have a spanking boot camp.  Have any of you done a spanking boot camp?  Can you enlighten me/us on how to do it?

The 1st time

For the first time ever in our loving Female Led Marriage, I know ahead of time that I will be having a full on orgasm, which will be later tonight later tonight.  Mistress has informed me that we will be having sex because she is horny, and because I am leaving town for 4 days on a fishing trip with my buddies, she has decided that I will be having a full orgasm. 

That's the first since we started our beautiful lifestyle that I have been aware ahead of time that I will be cumming.  I feel like a nervous schoolgirl.  He he!

She has instructed me to bring out "pinky", which is the cock sleeve that she likes me to wear sometimes.  She also has instructed me to numb my cock with desensitizing spray well enough ahead of time so that my cock is good and numb.  She wants to gets fucked really good it seems.

I'm a lucky boy!

at the core of our being

The other day, Mistress K. and I got into an argument.  We were talking about something that happened at school with one of our kids and it escalated into frustration for me about how Mistress was telling me the story.  The detail are unimportant, but eventually Mistress ended the conversation and left the room.  I was not happy about how the conversation seemed to end, but that is how it goes.

I was in our closet a short time later and she returned to start up the discussion again.  Being still hot, I was passionate and the volume of my voice was elevated.  During this time, Mistress K. told me that I was right in what I had described to her as being my problem with how the conversation went.  Being a stubborn moron sometimes (like now), I didn't let it go and the conversation continued, and so did the high volume of my voice.  I was still hot.

Suddenly, she sneered at me, turned on her heels and left me alone in the closet.  I thought she was walking off again and ending the conversation again by just abandoning it altogether.  I was wrong.  She left the closet to lock the bedroom door.  Then she stomped back into the closet, ordered my hands on the island in the middle of the closet and went for her paddle.  Now she was hot and she was about to put an end to it.  I hesitated in putting my hands where she ordered me to and that only added to her frustration. 
With my hands on the island in the middle of our closet, she came behind me, pulled down my shorts and proceeding to blister my ass with the leather paddle.  She had made her point in short order, returned the paddle to her drawer and left the closet. 

Even as upset as I was, I instinctively yielded.  Yes, my stinging red ass helped me focus on what had happened, but nonetheless, she ended my bad behavior.  I am just so grateful that the lifestyle that we live gives us the opportunity to be able to settle disagreements quickly, justly (by her determination) and with no lingering hard feelings.  It is at the core of our being.

I've missed it



 

 

I hadn't been spanked in nearly 6 weeks.  Not because I haven't deserved to be spanked, but because living the suburban dream seemed to have conspired against Mistress being able to dole out the punishment spankings when they were earned.  When I woke up on Friday morning, I had 2 harsh, punishment spankings coming my way for infractions I had along the way. 

Friday evening, after I came home from the office, we were waiting to head out to meet friends for dinner.  We had 45 minutes before we had to leave, and THE KIDS WEREN'T HOME!  After asking Mistress if the coast was clear, I began to remove my clothes while we waited, because I am required to be naked in her presence, unless told otherwise.  Mistress was watching and when my pants came down, she remembered that she had ordered me to wear pantie that morning and instructed me to leave the panties on. 

We were watching Nurse Jackie when Mistress summoned me over to where she was on the couch and had me lay across her lap.  For 30 minutes, Mistress enjoyed her television show while she spanked my bottom with her hand.  When I first laid across her lap, she very carefully adjusted my panties on my bottom so they looked cute for her.  She then proceeded to spank me with my panties on.  I laid there, saying nothing, and not moving.

A few months ago, I had said to Mistress that when I was being spanked, I had every intention not to move or attempt to overly influence her as she was dolling out the punishment. I wanted for Mistress to better be able to concentrate on the spanking she was giving, rather than having to deal with m shenanigans of moving or whining.  Obviously there reaches a point where it become impossible to NOT react when the sting of the paddle/hand/cane/wooden spoon reaches a certain level.  Nonetheless, it was/is my goal to be a better spankee for Mistress by sucking it up and accepting what she has to offer without unnecessary reaction.

As I laid there, I was in haven.  I was exactly where I was meant to be and how I was meant to be.  I was in my own beautiful home.  My beautiful wife happy and contented right then to be relaxing and watching her favorite show.  I was naked (well, except for my panties) because that's how I'm supposed to be.  My wife calls me over so I can lay my nearly naked body over her lap so she spank me.  The spontaneous moment was heaven!

I informed Mistress that it was time for us to leave if we were going to meet our friends in time at the restaurant.  Mistress agreed, but before telling me to get up, he lowered my panties to just below my bottom and gave me several really good smacks with her bare hand for good measure.  Panties still lowered, she ordered me "up" so she could go freshen up for our dinner out.  I stood before her, hands behind my back with my panties pulled down in the back yet still covering my hard cock in the front.  She said "you may thank me for your spanking now".  I dropped to my knees, exposed her yummy belly, planted some kisses there and laid my head down and sais "thank you for my spanking Mistress".

She shooed me away to freshen up and told me to get dressed, but not before taking this picture:

5 minutes later, I was helping my beautiful Mistress into the car, waiting by the open door with a freshly spanked bottom.  I smiled and thought to myself .... I'm a lucky man!

One of the two punishments I had coming to me was satisfied.  The other was not.  It was for smoking .... and Mistress was not happy about it.  I suspect that one will hurt!

Nietzsche .......

 

 

 

"Stupidity in a woman is unfeminine"

 

 

-   Friedrich Nietzsche