Hi everyone. We've been away for several days and haven't been able to post, or even read the blog while we were away. We were on spring break with the kids so alas, there is very little to report on the FLM front. We're back now and intend on catching up on the things that have been lingering such as punishment for the several things that i have done wrong in the past 10 days or so.
On March 16 it will be 30 days since my last full orgasm (there has been 1 ruined orgasm in that time) 30 days is by far the longest i have ever gone without having an "O" in my life. Mistress is well aware of this fact and it seems she is relishing in that fact. We'll see how that goes.
I see i picked up 3 more followers while i was gone. So thank you to Subby Hubby, In-servitude to my Wife and cornboy1. I really do hope you will enjoy following this blog as my mistress Wife and i venture through our WLM journey. i tried to send you a message to thank you personally but for some reason i can't. i guess that has mostly to do with not really knowing everything there is to blogging. In any event, thank you for being interested enough to want to follow. i look forward to hearing from you in the future.
Thursday, March 13, 2014
Friday, March 7, 2014
Why don't you go put your plug in?
It wasn't a question!
I immediately went and put my plug in. When I came to report that it was in, She said "masturbate for me". Walked over to her at the computer where she was working and started stroking and she said "stop". She placed a towel on the desk and patted it, telling me to sit on the desk facing her. I knew what to do and climbed on the desk put a foot on each arm rest and began to stroke her cock for her viewing pleasure. I was exposed, plug firmly place with my Goddess enjoying the show. I was near cumming very quickly and was reminded that I was not allowed to cum. She then said stop and shooed me away so she could get back to work. She was done with me.
There is hardly anything I enjoy more than "performing" for Mistress. Sitting the desk like, fully exposed and with the plug in place was wonderful.
So here I sit, naked, plugged and waiting for what Mistress may want next.
I immediately went and put my plug in. When I came to report that it was in, She said "masturbate for me". Walked over to her at the computer where she was working and started stroking and she said "stop". She placed a towel on the desk and patted it, telling me to sit on the desk facing her. I knew what to do and climbed on the desk put a foot on each arm rest and began to stroke her cock for her viewing pleasure. I was exposed, plug firmly place with my Goddess enjoying the show. I was near cumming very quickly and was reminded that I was not allowed to cum. She then said stop and shooed me away so she could get back to work. She was done with me.
There is hardly anything I enjoy more than "performing" for Mistress. Sitting the desk like, fully exposed and with the plug in place was wonderful.
So here I sit, naked, plugged and waiting for what Mistress may want next.
March is Questions month? Who knew
Being still new to blogging, who knew that March is Question Month? Apparently many other bloggers knew, that's who. Not wanting to be a blogging Maverick, I suppose I'll ask you to ask me/us any question you would like to have an answer to. It's my desire to have this blog be a place with interesting content and not be one of those blogs that is, well, full of shit. So please, ask away.
Have a Great Weekend!
Have a Great Weekend!
Thursday, March 6, 2014
a punishment is due
currently, I am in line for a punishment. As I wonder about how, where, when and how badly it will hurt, I find myself thinking about the various positions that could be used to facilitate my spanking. Will it be spontaneous when we find ourselves alone? Will it be planned for a specific time? Will it be one of those spankings that for some reason stings very badly from the very first swat?
Each of the different positions offers a unique experience to receiving a punishment. Likewise, I'm sure it provides unique experience for Mistress as well. Any preferences that I may have, although unimportant in the grand scheme of things vary depending on whether I am pondering my fate, that moment right after realizing that it will happen that minute or just fantasizing about.
Best position for maximum punishment spanking effect in my opinion? Standing! Particularly with the front of my body purposely pressed against the wall. Also, standing with hands on my head. There is an added element of humiliation that helps drive the point home. Kneeling upright while being required to stroke my cock while being punished. It adds the element of tease and denial while being corrected. By far, the ultimate and most effective for of punishment spanking is post-orgasm spanking. It has only happened once. She was really not happy with me and she ordered me to our room, told me to strip, kneel and masturbate to completion. Immediately after I came, she paddled my ass hard. Let me tell, the last thing you want right after having an orgasm is a punishment spanking! Only once so far and I hope to avoid one in the future.
Fantasizing about it? Isn't it suppose to hurt? Yes. Isn't it supposed to correct a behavior? Yes. Isn't it something you wish would be over soon after it starts even though there will be more pain than you might want? Yes! Then why the fantasy? A good question that I don't know that I have answer for except to say that a punishment spanking is the cornerstone of a WLM. That, in and of itself is something of a blunt reminder (when it is happening) of what my place in my loving marriage is and as such, is comforting. The stinging redness of my ass notwithstanding, being in the moment is both necessary and cleansing. When it is over, so is the matter that was being corrected.
I find that in being a submissive, punishment spankings are very much like those things you see or read about in the "lifestyle" that are arousing to fantasize about but when it I happening, you may feel entirely different. We do not participate in what we consider extreme D/s behavior. We don't cuck, she does not feminize me (although she does make me wear panties from time to time). I don't have to consume my cum after I ejaculate (she thinks it's gross), etc........ Yet at some point in previous fantasy thoughts, those things and others may have been in that little black box of deviant thoughts each of has inside us. Spankings happen and will continue to happen because that is what Mistress wants. As for those other things .... one of them will never happen (hard limit) and it is not likely that either of the other two will, but then again, that's not up to me.
OK, now back to wondering the when, where, how and how bad it will hurt.
Each of the different positions offers a unique experience to receiving a punishment. Likewise, I'm sure it provides unique experience for Mistress as well. Any preferences that I may have, although unimportant in the grand scheme of things vary depending on whether I am pondering my fate, that moment right after realizing that it will happen that minute or just fantasizing about.
Best position for maximum punishment spanking effect in my opinion? Standing! Particularly with the front of my body purposely pressed against the wall. Also, standing with hands on my head. There is an added element of humiliation that helps drive the point home. Kneeling upright while being required to stroke my cock while being punished. It adds the element of tease and denial while being corrected. By far, the ultimate and most effective for of punishment spanking is post-orgasm spanking. It has only happened once. She was really not happy with me and she ordered me to our room, told me to strip, kneel and masturbate to completion. Immediately after I came, she paddled my ass hard. Let me tell, the last thing you want right after having an orgasm is a punishment spanking! Only once so far and I hope to avoid one in the future.
Fantasizing about it? Isn't it suppose to hurt? Yes. Isn't it supposed to correct a behavior? Yes. Isn't it something you wish would be over soon after it starts even though there will be more pain than you might want? Yes! Then why the fantasy? A good question that I don't know that I have answer for except to say that a punishment spanking is the cornerstone of a WLM. That, in and of itself is something of a blunt reminder (when it is happening) of what my place in my loving marriage is and as such, is comforting. The stinging redness of my ass notwithstanding, being in the moment is both necessary and cleansing. When it is over, so is the matter that was being corrected.
I find that in being a submissive, punishment spankings are very much like those things you see or read about in the "lifestyle" that are arousing to fantasize about but when it I happening, you may feel entirely different. We do not participate in what we consider extreme D/s behavior. We don't cuck, she does not feminize me (although she does make me wear panties from time to time). I don't have to consume my cum after I ejaculate (she thinks it's gross), etc........ Yet at some point in previous fantasy thoughts, those things and others may have been in that little black box of deviant thoughts each of has inside us. Spankings happen and will continue to happen because that is what Mistress wants. As for those other things .... one of them will never happen (hard limit) and it is not likely that either of the other two will, but then again, that's not up to me.
OK, now back to wondering the when, where, how and how bad it will hurt.
More Ceremony news
OK, all of the preliminary plans and commitments have been made with our lovely officiant and we are go. now we have until the ceremony in October to decide on all the little details that will go into making our commitment ceremony what we want it to be.
She had given us some sample vows for us to consider and tweak and I have to say it is a giant burden lifted off of our shoulders. I often hate having to star at a blank "piece of paper" to start writing. She was kind enough to provide us with wonderful words to start with and we are very appreciative of that.
Some of my blogger pals had given a few suggestions (thank you) on some of the small details of the ceremony, like what to wear (or not wear) and that has been very helpful too. Because our lifestyle is incredibly private, we will not be able to exchange our vows in front of friends or family, which is ok. In our previous vanilla vow renewal ceremonies we were alone together then too.
Venue (probably a suite at a resort), vows for each other, what to wear (me, probably only a cage, a plug and a collar - her ... whatever she wants of course) and deciding on how we will consummate our union are all the things left to consider.
I am excited, a little nervous and so very eager to be there with the woman I love so much.
She had given us some sample vows for us to consider and tweak and I have to say it is a giant burden lifted off of our shoulders. I often hate having to star at a blank "piece of paper" to start writing. She was kind enough to provide us with wonderful words to start with and we are very appreciative of that.
Some of my blogger pals had given a few suggestions (thank you) on some of the small details of the ceremony, like what to wear (or not wear) and that has been very helpful too. Because our lifestyle is incredibly private, we will not be able to exchange our vows in front of friends or family, which is ok. In our previous vanilla vow renewal ceremonies we were alone together then too.
Venue (probably a suite at a resort), vows for each other, what to wear (me, probably only a cage, a plug and a collar - her ... whatever she wants of course) and deciding on how we will consummate our union are all the things left to consider.
I am excited, a little nervous and so very eager to be there with the woman I love so much.
Tuesday, March 4, 2014
a ring and panties
My required attire this morning was a cock ring and a pair of lacey pink panties. mmmm, yeah!
Chastity
I haven't had a real orgasm since Valentine's Day. Since then, I have ejaculated once (ruined orgasm). S of this writing it has been 18 days since I had an orgasm. I had a random thought go through my head that for some reason I was going to have an orgasm soon, maybe even tonight ... and i don't want it too. It might seem like i am complaining, but i assure you i am not. Quite the contrary.
When you see the word chastity, you probably normally go right to a vision of a cock cage or other chastity device. Although does make me wear one from time to time (CB6000), she only ever does it for punishment purposes anymore, and that is only when She is really pissed. Anyway, chastity does not mean a cage exclusively. Chastity is merely the act of preventing someone from having access to their own sexual pleasure. That said, i live in chastity with occasional respites from it. In this case, it has been 18 days. Not a long time compared to some of the stories I read and see here and there, but for me, it is. Mistress seems to be lengthening the period of time between my real orgasms each time. For what purpose, i do not know but then again, who am i to ask?
When you see the word chastity, you probably normally go right to a vision of a cock cage or other chastity device. Although does make me wear one from time to time (CB6000), she only ever does it for punishment purposes anymore, and that is only when She is really pissed. Anyway, chastity does not mean a cage exclusively. Chastity is merely the act of preventing someone from having access to their own sexual pleasure. That said, i live in chastity with occasional respites from it. In this case, it has been 18 days. Not a long time compared to some of the stories I read and see here and there, but for me, it is. Mistress seems to be lengthening the period of time between my real orgasms each time. For what purpose, i do not know but then again, who am i to ask?
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