This Is Never a Problem

 This is never a problem in a loving, functional Female Led Relationship.  Why?  Because it's simply not allowed.  

Part of what makes a functional FLR work is the knowledge that his orgasms just don't matter, and that sex and sexual pleasure (orgasms) is exclusively for her.  If she takes pleasure in spanking him for fun or punishment (or both), fucking him with a strap-on, requiring he give her oral on demand, denying his orgasms for however long she wants (including forever), being told to remove his cage then having him masturbate for her to edge of orgasm, being told to stop and being right back into the cage, etc, so forth and so on ... then those things will happen.

Yes Mistress, very clear!

It's incredibly easy to legitimately enjoy being told this and knowing that it fits you to a T.

The second she finds comfort in feeling this way, she can actually begin to experience the joy of living a life of bliss and comfort.

Well-behaved husbands are rewarded for their service, devotion, adoration and service.

"Good boys get treats."  

Sometimes, very loving and wonderful treats.

Not-so-good-boys get corrected.  It's just what a loving Mistress Wife must do consistently to maintain order in her home.

Do your job boys.  Her ass and body is not going to worship itself.

And most importantly, never forget the basic ingredients to a wonderful existence.