We soon began to recognize that my attitude was greatly improved when caged, and as such, Mistress K. began to cage me more and more and more often and for longer periods of time. Then, when we had and Mistress wanted to be penetrated, she would have me wear a dildo and strap on cock, for a few reasons but not the least of which was there was no reason to remove my cage.
We began rapidly to move in the direction of (mostly) permanent caged chastity and (mostly) exclusive use of the Vixskin dildo in the strap on harness. That may sound terrible on the surface but it's not! We have both had some of the best sex of our marriage during this time. Yes, me too.
I was allowed as many ejaculations in this past as I normally would have. Once Mistress learned I was able to orgasm (ruined) while caged, it added to the list of good reasons to not have to remove the cage. Most of those ejaculations came via an uncaged ruined orgasm, and I still get those from time to time. The ruined orgasm that comes because I am caged is a just a new variety she's discovered from the (mostly) permanent cage wear. The 2-3 non-ruined orgasms, although there was stimulation allowed until all the ejaculate was, well, ejaculated (full-on orgasm), they were still just a slight improvement over a properly ruined orgasm. Last night was different.
We went and had a nice Italian dinner at our favorite neighborhood joint. Enjoyed some fine 18-year-old scotch were just chillin. Both of us complaining about how tired we were, etc. The dinner was delicious and the scotch, well the scotch lit a fire in Mistress that needed to be put out - pronto! "Let's go now.", she said. In the car she said we were "having sex" when we got home. "The minute we walk in the door you are to get naked and take your cage off. " In the time it took to do that she was naked and growling.
Except for the time described above, you have been caged 24/7 for over a year. My question is cleaning. On the occasions you orgasm while caged, it is removed to clean and then reinstalled. I have volunteered to be put in chastity and she declined. I'm gathering information on fulltime chastity. Any info you can provide on this matter is appreciated.
ReplyDeleteNot entirely full time but moving more and more in that direction. That's why I said (mostly).
DeleteAs far as cleaning goes, that's the beautiful thing about the Jail Bird from Mature metal. Because of its open stainless steel cage design, it can be cleaned pretty thoroughly in the shower without taking it off, even when I've ejaculated. Look it up on the web. I think you'll get the idea. I do remove it in the shower once a week, clean it and reinstall it before I get out of the shower.
Thanks for sharing that great evening! Graham
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome Graham, and thank you for stopping and saying hello.
DeleteWow, what a fantastic night! Happy for you:)
ReplyDeleteI understand staying in the cage and using the dildo works for you both, but I imagine every now and then flesh to flesh must be wonderful for both of you.
Hugs
Roz
Yes Roz, every now and then but in any event, for me, the one thing that is a must is that Mistress gets what she wants, how she wants. When she wants it this way, well ..... it's a yummy treat.
DeleteHave you noticed,, that when one partner becomes submissive, his partners Dominance increases?
ReplyDeleteYes indeed. Or vice versa. Either way, in the context of a loving PE relationship, marinated in trust and respect, live can be insanely beautiful.
DeleteSpeaking of marinated, eating that cum from your Mistress can be a nice submissive ending to that delightful party!
ReplyDeleteHi MRBILL. Nice to hear from you old friend. I agree, if that were something Mistress K. wanted, I agree, it would indeed deepen the level of subspace and be a nice ending to a delightful party. But she doesn't have that desire. Would I if she did? Well, it's not a limit so of course I would but to be honest, the act, in and of itself is not a sexy thought for me. That said, being required to do something by my Mistress Wife for her pleasure would have me diving right in.
DeleteGreat post. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks so much vanessachaland. High praise coming from you.
DeleteA wonderful evening to be sure, thanks for sharing. I'd say that the one thing I truly miss since My Queen and I adopted our current love making dynamics, is the the non-possibility of simultaneous orgasms. Thanks for the momentary opportunity to experience it again vicariously! But of course being able to serve, pleasure and be available to Her any whim more than makes up for it. All the best to you both.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the kind words Devoted Slave. I appreciate you stopping by and leaving a comment.
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