Not that I ever wonder about my desire, dedication and love for my Mistress Wife, but sometimes there are small little things that happen that confirm my feelings are both conscious and subconscious. Just 5 minutes ago I cleaned the dirty dishes in the sink and emptied the dishwasher. When I was done I was rock hard. I stopped for a moment ant thought about why and it was a subconscious affirmation that I do receive genuine pleasure in giving pleasure to Mistress K., even though in this case the pleasure that she received was subtle.
Before we entered our acknowledged FLM, I used to get what I called "love boners". These were erections that I would get from time to time simply by thinking about the level to which I loved this incredible woman. I wasn't thinking about any sex act with her, but merely the love in my heart for her.
It all makes total sense to be now. Doing the dishes gave me a love boner.
It's actually pretty ironic...I stopped to read this post in the midst of doing my own dishes here!
ReplyDeleteBefore M/s, doing the dishes and cleaning the kitchen was something that I did when mad or frustrated. Now I do it with pride.
However, I admit...don't think I have ever experienced a "love boner" while doing them. Hmmm....I am sure never to view doing the dishes in the same light again after reading this:)
It would be a miracle if you actually did experience a love boner in the past, but I'll bet you've experience the little girl version of it. *smile
DeleteThanks for stopping by to comment. I always appreciate it.
I truly know what you mean. I will get turned on thinking about how much I love the man I married. AND, it's also a turn on when he does something as small as doing the dishes. It's not about the dishes--it's about the thought for me and the selflessness that went into the action that turn me on.
ReplyDeleteThank you for commenting Autumn. I really do appreciate hearing from lovely people like you. It's not about the dishes for me either of course. I guess it just that when I am doing the dishes, and stop for a second to acknowledge why (only because she said to), I move in the direction of subspace.
DeleteI echo Autumn's thoughts. It isn't about 'what' you are doing but rather 'why' you are doing it - that it's being done because you have submitted to your spouse, and the dominance that you know they possess over you - as well as the shared love. I love those 'hard-on' moments and they happen all the time during my day. Yummy response indeed.
ReplyDeleteIn a true loving D/s relationship, the strength of that is really hard to describe. I grow to love my Mistress more every single and can assure, it isn't because she's willing to indulge in a kink. it is because I truly do get genuine pleasure from being of service to her.
DeleteBtw old buddy, how ya feeling?
I am reading most recent to old as I catch up on your posts (I've been a way for a while) but again, lovely! You KNOW already but I will say it every time I feel it....You and your Mistress K are bathed in love, from the mundane vanilla activities to the full on kink and it is an absolute joy to hear about. Jay, we love our owners in such a similar way. When I read your updates, I see me (in a sweet male version of course). Your Mistress K is everything you need and you to her, just LOVELY!! Those love boners have to just make you so proud showing how deep your regard is for her. XOXO P
ReplyDeletePearl ........ yes I do know, but please don't ever stop saying it every time you feel! We are bathed in love and for that I couldn't be more a more grateful husband. Yes, it seems we do love our owners in a very similar way. I don't know about you Pearl (maybe I do), but I believe it is the right way! Every time I get one of those love boners, it is quiet, real affirmation that the basis for my love and dedication to this Goddess comes from a true, genuine love and desire to please her, and not lust.
DeleteThanks as always for reading and commenting. Welcome back. I look forward to hearing more from you and seeing more of your own posts.
XOXOX