Permanently Caged?

 

Like many of you, I like to look around in Tumblr for sexy things, things that inspire and all around basic fun.  In doing so, I came across someone's account that has helped inspire Mistress K. and I to delve into something very new for us.  Actually, there are three Tumblr accounts that comprise the inspiration.  They are mrs--edge here, Denial Permanente here, and The Vanilla Edge here.  The first are operated by the same lady (we'll call her Mrs. Edge) and the third is run by her husband (we'll call him Tom Allen).

I love these people!  They are very unapologetic about the beautiful lifestyle that they led together.  You can get a better, more thorough description of their lifestyle by going to their pages.  The brief explanation of their lifestyle is that they are a middle aged, married couple that are very much in love with each other.  What makes them unique is that they don't pretend to be anything that might fit into anyone else's categories.  They practice permanent (24/7/365) caged denial for Tom and when they have sex, it is exclusively with the use of a Vixskin dildo made by She Vibe.  Tom is essentially not allowed to have PIV sex with his wife, and it is something that they both very much seem to cherish.  That is the extent of their "lifestyle".  There is no WLM/FLR.  There is female (or male) domination, no spankings, no cuckolding, or any of the other aspects of what many believe go with chastity cage usage.  They are simply a regular, normal, everyday vanilla couple where the husband cock is always caged, and when they have sex with each other, he is only ever wearing a faux cock.  Simple as that.

From all accounts, it appears to be a loving, beautiful relationship that is cherished by each of them.  It's a beautiful story really, and an enviable marriage.    

In recent posts, I have made brief mention of our marriage moving in the direction of a more permanent use of my chastity cage, and the more use of a faux cock for Mistress K. when she desires penetration.  Those posts are here and here.  

As you may know from other posts here, Mistress K. and I will spend quality time together on Sunday mornings, devoted exclusively to our marriage, lifestyle and our WLM.  I will read her blog posts that I come across that I know will be of interest to her, sexy erotic stories on a variety of topics, and generally communicate on a deep, honest level about the state of our union. 

During yesterday's (today is Monday) time together, I read to her, and we talked a lot something that we have been discussing a little recently.  That being permanent (mostly) chastity and the use of her new rubber boyfriend for penetration.  Included, naturally, in the discussion was my willingeness and ability to cum while I am caged.  I saw cum, but realistically the word should be ejaculate because for all intents and purposes, cumming in a cage amounts to a ruined orgasm.  Something we are both very much fans of.  

In a recent post, Mrs. Edge was asked this question:  "Does he still cum sometimes through the cage?"

Her answer was Epic:  "Sometimes? It’s the only way I allow him to come. 😉

Tom is still a horny 20 something year old, at least, in his head. Even though he is locked, when we make love with him wearing his harness and Vixskin, he still gets very close to coming.

About once a month or so, he knows he’s getting very close and that he can’t hold back. And sometimes, I’m really excited by how aroused he us, so I sort of encourage it along by telling him naughty things, like “I can’t even remember what the one in the cage felt like because this one is too good,” or “I love how your new cock is so hot and hard now.” Things like that will usually trigger him. 😈

He has to ask permission, or at least he has to tell me that he’s really close so I can decide to allow him… or not. I do enjoy making him come, so about once a month I let him. But sometimes I drag it out for 2 months. Other times, maybe not. But it’s always my decision, which is the best part!

This very thing was something I read to Mistress K. yesterday.  It spawned a very deep-dive conversation wherein we both wanted to give this kind of thing a try.  And why wouldn't we?  She loves having penetrative sex without having to worry about stopping or worrying about whether I am ready to burst before she has had all the good fucking she wants.  It makes perfect sense.  I took upon myself to ask her if me being mostly caged, and she being penetrated almost exclusively by her new rubber boyfriend in the strapon harness I wear, was something that would interest her.  Long story short .... that is our mode of operation going forward!

Mistress K. made it absolutely clear that she has no desire to move us toward me never being allowed inside her again.  She enjoys me being inside her from time, whether or not she allows me to cum.  In fact, as I told her yesterday, being inside her is my most blissful place to be on this earth.  Which is why we enjoy soaking so much.  Find out more about soaking here.

She asked me again yesterday if i felt that I could orgasm (ejaculate) while fucking her using the strapon.  My answer was ... absolutely!  The rules for ejaculation are still the same.  I may NOT ejaculate permission from Mistress K., even in this new arrangement of being caged and using the strap on to fuck her.  She said that she can that sometimes she can see giving authorization before I fuck her, and that she will likely allow ejaculation when asked during without prior authorization present, but I must still ask.  We even talked about whether or not this constitutes me being cuckolded by a rubber cock.  There was some nervous laughter leading up to an honest answer of yes, it does.

Our rapid journey has taken to places neither of us every thought we'd be, yet here we are.  I am so in love with my beautiful Wife!