Friday, January 30, 2015

The afterglow

This is not an actual picture of us this morning, but it very well could've been.   
 
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Mistress and I were cuddling in bed.  I was naked, she was still in her jammies.  She was bring me up to speed on all the activities in our regular suburban existence.  Then, she decided she wanted to have and orgasm.  Not surprisingly, I had an erection.  Mistress got up to go to the bathroom and when she returned, she was wearing only her pj tops and was naked on the bottom.  She climbed back into bed and immediately straddled my body and slowly lowered herself onto me and inside of her.  She was rocking back and forth and was got herself right to the very edge of her own orgasm when I informed her that I was right at the edge and that seeing her actually have an orgasm would send me over the edge.  She informed me that I would NOT be cumming this morning, even a ruined orgasm.  She was forced to stop right as we was about to orgasm.  GUH!
 
She hopped off of me and retrieved her favorite vibrator and climbed right back on top of me.  I didn't take long and she had a really good orgasm.  I felt terrible that my inability to avoid orgasm cause her to have to stop.  I really do hate that.  I want to be the kind of dependable lover she can always count on.
 
Coincidently, we were I this very same position, doing the very same thing while she was recovering for her orgasm.  So as to not leave any doubt, I did not have an orgasm, which is how Mistress wanted it.  As such, it is exactly what I wanted too.
 
I love you Mistress!

16 comments:

  1. I feel the same disappointment when we have to stop, curtailing her pleasure, because I can't control my orgasm. I really want to not come, but sometimes (often) I have to stop to prevent it.
    Your Mistress did get her orgasm and you did not, happy day!

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    1. Yes MRBILL, you are correct my friend, everyone got what they wanted.

      Thank you as always for stopping by.

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  2. Some times the love we have for our Mistress' and the excitement of the moment can bring us close to climax even though we don't want one. Actually that she got you so close and you didn't even have a ruined orgasm shows your devotion. In the end you both had what you wanted.
    archedone.

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    1. I agree archedone, and being brought down that road is utter bliss.

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  3. I thought you might like to hear what happened to me last night. We showered together where I spent time licking her back door and pussy. after the shower I dried her off then myself. Grabbing me by my cock she led me to the bedroom where she sat on the end of the bed then laid back and told me to get on my knees. She then put her feet on my shoulder and gave me access to her sweet pussy and told me to tease her pussy with my tongue. I licked and sucked for a bit then she handed me her bullet vibe. and told me to put it in her. I put it in as deep as I could then she got up and handed me her strap on. I held it for her as she stepped into it then tightened the belts for her. Bend over the end of the bed she told me and once in position I spread my cheeks for her. My slut wants this doesn't he? Yes Mistress I said as she lubed my back door. then she entered me and said you are my toy tonight and she began to pump me. She must have had her bullet on low as she was in me (I'm guessing) 10-15 minutes before she climaxed. By that time my hole was sore from her pumping me even though she used lots of lube. Then she pulled out and told me to go clean myself. I also took her strap on and cleaned that too. that is enough for tonight dear I'll let you cum tomorrow and we got in bed and cuddled and I went to sleep with an erection.
    archedone

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  4. Hi sub hub,

    I truly hate when that happens too! As I've said on my blog before, the position that I have the most difficulty maintaining composure sometimes is Miss on top. When she is controlling the depth, speed and angle and is getting off really hard with me inside of her I often have to stop and start her so I don't topple over the edge. It's PARTICULARLY difficult for me when she is on top of me and her legs are inside my legs and hers are on the outside. It's called the reverse missionary position. Have you ever tried that position before? It's incredible! When she has her legs on the inside and I am in the "happy baby" yoga position we both feel like it is she doing the penetrating, not me. You've inspired me to make a post about that on my blog, thanks!

    -best boy

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    1. Thanks so much for taking the time to comment best boy. Yes, we have tried the reverse missionary position. I don't recall it being memorable enough to want to put it in the playbook but neither Mistress nor I would be adverse to it.

      I absolutely do LOVE the idea of "happy baby" inspired position you describe. I'll run it up Mistress' flag pole and see if she salutes. Mistress will sometimes purposely withhold a feeling that she is penetrating me because she does not want for me to think it is ever that easy to earn. Guh!

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  5. Goodness! Your blog makes me want to find a man for this, I believe I can enjoy this lifestyle immensely. :o)

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    1. Goodness is right ...... you definitely deserve a lifestyle like this and should indeed be wallowing in it.

      I imagine that if you set your mind to it you'd find a man for this, and if so, I can't wait to hear all about it.

      Thank you so much for the kind words.

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  6. I spent time in that same position this morning and struggled as you did. You're not alone. Sometimes it's hard to do what we are expected to do. But you know as well as I do neither of us would trade our position for any other.

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    1. You're so right IH. Even though it's difficult to perform to the expectation of our respective wives from time to time, I never take for granted how grateful I am to be there, being tested.

      Thanks for stopping old buddy!

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  7. The fact she had an orgasm and you didn't shows her control of you is progressing very well. She seems to be totally in charge of the sexual pleasure for both of you in your relationship and that is the way it should be in a FLR. Will be interested to see what she has planned for you next.

    FD

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    1. FD, Mistress is totally in charge of all sexual pleasure in our relationship, and I completely agree, that is how it should be! I agree that it will be interesting, but I don't think Mistress necessarily "plans" things. I think Mistress continues to look for ways to find more and more comfort in her dominant role, thereby providing more and more pleasure (sexual and otherwise) in her life.

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  8. well at least you did not cum. that is very encouraging....it's so nice when wives cum and husbands are denied....and Im really happy she did not want you to cum either....that's very sexy =.

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    1. Thank you bdenied. I don't disagree, it's very sexy

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