"Don't make your wife choose. Let her have all the cock she wants."

While looking through Twitter, I came across a GIF that showed a woman on her knees with a cock in each hand and the caption "Don't make your wife choose.  Let her have all the cock she wants."  The second I read that; I had an epiphany.  It occurred to me that even though Mistress K. and I don't practice cuckolding, hotwifing, or any other variation of the term that denotes her fucking other men, I can honestly say I would let her have as many cocks as she wanted.  In fact, she has four cocks now.  Mine and her three 'boyfriends' that we keep in our sex closet, that go into the strapon harness that we share.  

Mistress K. is a confident, highly sexual, beautiful, demure redheaded, and freckled woman who is dripping with grace and class.  Her standing in life and in her community is important to her.  Her wedding vows are very sacred to her and ever since we first got together, she has steadfastly declared that she wants nothing to do anything that might or could risk the magical relationship we were building and enjoy to this day.  

Is the above picture a realistic, viable scenario?  Absolutely.  Does she fantasize and even talk about other men that she would fuck, or like to fuck?  Absolutely.  Does she want to?  No. Well, she does have a hall pass of about 5-10 men (actors) that if given the chance, she would fuck in a heartbeat.  But that doesn't count.  Even then, if I were a betting man, believe she'd pass on fucking any of them if such an opportunity would arise.

The only thing preventing her from being that woman in the picture is a lack of desire to fuck other men.  If that were to change, she'd have that, because it's always been, and will always be about what SHE wants. 

As her loyal, devoted, and worshipping submissive husband, I have declared to her (in our collaring ceremony vows) that my purpose in her life is to make her life as joyful and blissful as possible.  We've talked about it.  If someday her desires turned in the direction of fucking other men, I would support her decision.  After all, it is not a hard limit.  A soft limit, yes, but not a hard limit. We'd discuss in a very deep and meaningful way in order to establish boundaries so as to not risk destroying our beautiful life together.  We are both keenly aware of how risky it is to play with wire while existing on the razor's edge of disaster. We both know that feelings can and often do develop when fucking is involved and even if people promise that those emotional feelings won't develop, they do.  And when that happens, it is the beginning of the end no matter how much either of them denies that a serious problem has developed.  

The situation is only made more confusing and complicated by the porn-fueled version of what cuckolding and hotwifing are about.  99% of the cuckold porn that exists makes the absolute assumption that it originates solely from the husband, that the wife is a reluctant participant at first, but once she's tasted other cock, she wants more and more, and that in becoming a cuckoldress/hotwife, her life is much more enriched because of it.  Of course, there are real-life examples of that exact scenario and to those people, I say good on you both.  Anytime a couple can truly find something that gives them both extreme joy and pleasure in their together, a beautiful existence is the result.

What we don't ever hear about (or know) is what happens when one or both of them discovers that they have gotten fatally burned by the fire they were playing with or that the razor's edge of danger they were playing on has sliced them in two.  When that happens, they just fade away into the ether, never to be heard from again because their marriage is over and their life seems ruined.  Not that this happens to everyone in the cuck/hotwife world.  Only to those that were unaware of what it means to communicate and negotiate their feelings and instead think they know because they are horny, eager, or just blissfully ignorant of the reasons they were on that path in the first place.  Our relationship is far too important to Mistress K. and I to even risk being on that razor's edge and playing with fire.  

The above picture is what it looks like when previously discussed boundaries feelings change.  What a heartbreaking thing it would be to discover one day that your whole existence has changed like this.  Life-shattering heartbreak.  Not what W/we signed up for or agreed to.  

OK subhub, enough of the blah, blah, yudda, yudda.  You say that if Mistress K. wanted to fuck other men, you'd "let her" and support in that.  Under what circumstances would that be acceptable?    

I hesitate to put down "rules" because I am not the one that makes the rules in my marriage, but these are the things that for me, would have to be our sacred boundaries;

• Absolutely zero humiliation or degradation.  Not from him.  Not from her.  Zero.  Zilch. Nada!  None of this "fucked by a real man" or "his cock is so much bigger than yours that yours doesn't satisfy me anymore", or "he says that I am his now and not yours", or "I am only allowed to have sex with you or allow you to see me naked if he says it's ok", etc., etc., etc. bullshit!!  Not having it.
• Considering him, or calling him "my boyfriend".  He is not your boyfriend, he is your human sex toy and other than he has the ability to get up and leave the minute you are done fucking, he is no different that beautiful rubber cock in the nightstand drawer.
• No dates, no vacations, no alone time away from the other things in your life.  
• No hanging around after he's done fucking you.  No sleeping over, no breakfast and other than the 10-15 minutes after sex that humans that have just fucked need together, no cuddle time.  
• I would need to be present.

I once saw a meme where the wife gets pissed at and throws the bull out because he made the mistake of thinking she thought her husband was a small-dicked, weak man, and made a comment.  She stood up for husband, reminded the bull that it's the weak men that women like her use as a sex toy, and to "get the fuck out of here you piece of shit."  It made me smile.  So yeah, I'd want that too.

Yes Mistress!  If that is what you want, that is what I will do. You can have the cocks you want Mistress.  

Isn't that a beautiful sentiment and picture?