Hi everyone. It's been a while since we have talked and I've missed you all.
All is well (very well) in Mistress K.'s house. We are surviving, even thriving during this pandemic and our beloved lifestyle continues to grow and deepen our love for each other.
As the title implies, we are now empty nesters having recently delivered our youngest child to college. We went through the expected few days of sadness associated with realizing that your child(ren) no longer wake up everyday in their rooms, in your house. For those of you that have experienced such a thing, I'm sure you can sympathize.
Then, we did realize that we were indeed all alone in our house. Nobody to worry about seeing or hearing us as we do what we we do. No longer having to "wait till later" for the service she wants or needs to be delivered, or for the proper punishments to be meted out. No longer being restricted from me being summoned to wherever she is in the house and ordered to produce an erection or to edge myself simply for her viewing pleasure. Even though we have only just stepped through the open door into the new and unknown areas of growth in our WLM, there has been a noticeable giddy-up, an invigorated enthusiasm in Mistress K.'s leadership as the Mistress of the house and as my owner.
Punishments are swift, decisive and the spankings are much harder than they have been in the past. Mistress has far less tolerance for any level of service and devotion that does meet her current heightened expectations of me as her submissive/slave husband. All of which has me constantly at or near the kind of subspace I have always dreamed of.
This benchmark in our lives should prove to be very interesting and exciting as we now have the ability to explore even more aspects and benefits of a truly Wife Led Marriage, and all the potential activities associated with it that we otherwise never could consider with kids in the house. Who knows what those things will be but I don't mind admitting that I am beyond excited for what our near and long term futures will look like.
One last thing, Mistress K. continues to love having me caged. I have a standing order that I am to put my jiggly bits under lock and key, without instruction, anytime we are not physically in the same location. As such, I am caged A LOT!
Thanks for stopping by. We'll talk soon
SHIP
Things certainly ramped up a bit at our house as well after the kids moved out. Irene is quite strict with her discipline. She does not employ a cage, but she'll leave me tied to a chair in her closet with a smoking hot bottom for an extended period.
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Congratulations Rosco and thank you stopping by. Even though we are a good 10 years into our WLM, the cage is a new thing for us and because the damn thing is so comfortable and doesn't begin to stink after just 1 day, Mistress is loving it. We'll see where that goes and where else Mistress decides to take us.
DeleteGreat to see you post! So glad to hear you and Mistress K are thriving and exploring new avenues to your WLM now you are empty nesters.
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Roz
Thanks Roz. I missed you too! ;-)
DeleteWelcome to empty-nester status. I'm glad to hear you and your wife are taking advantage of it. For us, I actually was surprised at how little change it seemed to make. Looking back it may be that the reason it felt like such an incremental event is we were both still working, which kept us busy and distracted during the week, and our kids went to college locally, so even after they moved out they were still around a lot on weekends. Still, even as the house has gotten progressively emptier for longer periods of time, things haven't changed a lot. Inertia is a powerful force . . .
ReplyDelete"Inertia is a powerful force . . ." I hear ya brother. We are neck deep in inertia right now. Exciting to see where it takes us.
DeleteThanks for stopping by and saying hello.
Hi Subhub,
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! The freedom of empty nesting provided the start of our FLM. Although our youngest did attend college locally and surprised us by showing up one day as I was "slaving" away cleaning the kitchen floor, suitably attired or not attired I should say.
It was a glorious time but ended a year ago when our oldest moved back home. Unfortunately, we found that during his years in college he has developed schizophrenia and is really not capable of living on his own now.
So we are back to trying to sneak it in when we can. Trips and vacations are regaining their cachet.
Sorry to hear this - ours is home with depression. Sadly, many families are in similar situations. We're sending hope, faith and love for healing!
DeleteAnd meanwhile, Congratulations SHiP! The empty nest is the perfect place for intense and extended FLR experiences!
CK
"Mistress has far less tolerance for any level of service and devotion that does meet her current heightened expectations of me as her submissive/slave husband."
ReplyDeleteGood for her. :)
Good for her indeed vanessachaland! Good for her subhub as well. Thank you for chinning in with your wisdom.
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