Tuesday, December 8, 2020

Using Pegging as a Tool



Pegging ... it's more than most people think.  Of course for many FLR/WLM's and Femdom relationships, pegging is a staple.  It just makes sense. For many WLM couples, pegging is the even the primary means of penetration ... because there is hardly a better and more intimate way for a Dominant Female to sexually express her leadership, and her love to her husband/boyfriend. 


Other than the way it is depicted in porn and other places, pegging is a beautiful love-making experience between a man and a woman.

My blog friend Emma, author of the Evolving Your Man site has a wonderful take on pegging as evidenced by the several blogs she has published on the subject.  Her most recent blog post is especially good when explaining the benefits to a WLM for the man, and in particular the woman.  

From her post:

"So what about pegging?

Pegging is an eye opening experience and one of the most sexually emotional experiences that a man can try. For a man, the act of pegging is about relaxing his body and accepting penetration." 

With Emma's permission, here is a link to her post - Gender Balance and Understanding: Using Pegging as a tool.  I encourage you go take a look, and while your there, look around at her site and even register.  You'll be glad you did.



17 comments:

  1. Interesting post sub hub, thank you for sharing the link.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thank you as always Roz for the kind words. You're always so sweet.

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  2. I agree. It is a multi-faceted act....much more than mere "butt-fucking".

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  3. Pegging has become an increasing part of my submission in our 24/7, FLR. She used to do it about quarterly to reinforce my submissive role...similar to the caption in the first photo above. More recently, there have been additions to her anal arsenal and I find myself ass up being plugged or pegged more often. I still find pegging to be the ultimate act of submission for a male submissive.

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    1. I thought that for a long time, pegging being the ultimate act of submission for male sub. Fast forward to my next Femdom relationship, yes i got pegged, but she also introduced me to being the beta male with an alpha male visiting. I was quickly introduced to fluffing, which has had way more effect on making me even more submissive than pegging ever did.

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    2. Thanks for your comment Anonymous.

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  4. "I still find pegging to be the ultimate act of submission for a male submissive."

    If not THE ultimate act, it's right up there! Thanks for commenting my friend.

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  5. I really hate the term "pegging" and I'm guilty of using it as well. It may be appropriate for a sexual experience that's devoid of any emotional intimacy but not for a committed and/or loving relationship.

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    1. That's a good point. Perhaps we should use a more fitting term ... like fucking?

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    2. I am curious about two things:
      1. How far along were you into your WLM when you (I am assuming you brought it up) brought up the idea of pegging?
      2. How did you introduce this concept?

      I am trying to visualize this conversation with my wife:
      Me: Hey honey, I got your an early holiday gift?
      Wife: How thoughtful of you. What a great husband.
      Me: It is always hard buying gifts for you, but I am pretty sure you don't have one of these already.........

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    3. Hi Charlie. Thanks for the comment and the questions.

      Answers to the questions:

      1. We actually did some pegging prior to the onset of of our WLM. We were just kind of kinky that way back then too. I did bring it up the first time with Her but wasn't too worried about her reaction or that she might think I was a freak. We were freaks together basically from the beginning.

      2. I just asked her.

      Early Christmas gifts are always fun

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  6. >2. I just asked her.
    You are braver than me.

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    1. Ha. I guess I'm lucky. She's the kind of woman that I didn't need to be brave to ask.

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  7. Is pegging sexually arousing or satisfying for the woman who is pegging her man? Can a woman orgasm from it? As a male, it would be more exciting for me if I knew the answers to these questions is yes.

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    1. That would be up to the woman doing the fucking. Did you read the blog in the link? There are plenty of women that do derive pleasure from pegging their men, for a variety of reason.

      If she is just doing solely to please him, there's a good chance she won't enjoy it. But then again, that peobably is not a WLM

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  8. Thank You and I have a super give: complete kitchen remodel

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