Evolution. Things are indeed changing and they are changing for the better.
All the housework? Yikes. No, not all of the housework. But more and more of it as time goes on. We all know that a Dominant Wife in a loving WLM transforms her husband to be what she wants him to be to better serve her and make to her happy. For some the transition is feminizing him. For others it may be deliberately leading him to accept that he is no longer man enough to sexually satisfy her and use it as a way to justify having sex with other men (or women). For still others it is some or everything in between.
I'm not here to debate the ethics of whatever the submissive husband evolves into, intended or otherwise. Rather I'm talking about changes that can and do occur as a result of a loving, growing and maturing WLM.
Mistress K. and I have been in our WLM officially for about 8 years. In the past 10 months, our marriage and relationship really blossomed and grew into areas that neither of us really ever dreamed of or thought possible. The sexy kinky side, (and all that goes with that) of our WLM has progressed and grown nicely on all levels, including but limited to the frequency of sex.
Mistress K. recently sat me down and informed that was actively, deliberately and methodically going to be training me to enthusiastically accept many more submissive aspects of our marriage. In particular ..... CHORES!
Because of The Covid, I've been working from home for the better part of 10 months now. As such, being at home, the list of house chores has grown significantly. I'm doing things that I was never required to do in the past, even during our WLM. Things like making the bed every day, laundry - hers, mine and the kids, meals and being ultimately responsible for the overall tidiness of the house. Simply put, those chores and responsibilities are satisfactorily done, I'm told I'm a good boy and Mistress is happy; or, they aren't and Mistress is not happy.
When Mistress is happy, good boys gets treats.
When Mistress is not happy, bad husbands get something else.
This may all seem like a terrible thing. Well, I'm here to tell you it is not. It's a beautiful thing. One of my favorite FLM advocate bloggers, Mz Kaylee, wrote an wonderful blog on the topic called Submissive Men and Chores on her amazing blog Femdom Think Tank. For those looking for a practicable, real and useful resource for everything Loving WLM/FLR, I suggest you check her out if you haven't already.
Mz Kaylee does a great job in describing how this evolution in her husband is actually a good thing for him. Not one of those good-for-him that he doesn't see or feel, but one of those good things that he enjoys.
I've written before about how performing my then chore (loading the dishwasher) actually would frequent give me an erection. Yes, I said erection. How could that be? Is loading a dishwasher in and of itself arousing? Of course not. Is performing a task that Mistress K. requires of me arousing ... you better fucking believe it is!
Loading the dishwasher has led to many other domestic chores and when performing, I do them with pride and enthusiasm ... because I want to be her "good boy", because good boys gets treats. It also doesn't hurt that she will often require me to perform these chores while naked, in frilly panties, a butt plug, a ball-stretcher, ball separator or any combination thereof.
W/we are evolving into our best life. I can't wait to see what Mistress decides to train me for next.
Have a great day!
In total agreement. I am in my second 24/7, FLR and DD household. I was trained early on by my second wife in being a submissive husband. Training includes spankings. When that marriage failed after 7 years, (nothing to do with the DD aspect) I met my current Dominant Mistress. Not married this time, but we have kept a 24/7, FLR with DD household in tact for about 12 years. I have many household chores which I have been trained to do correctly. Spankings are still administered for forgetting chores or failing to do then to her satisfaction. That last picture tells the story.
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by Spanked Cowboy. Evolution is part of the training for us. Not in secret but rather she has told me that increasing chores and other aspects of my submission will continue on a deliberate pace.
DeleteTotally agree sub hub. i do all the household chores and that is exactly what my Owner expects of me, it is at the heart of any FLR or WLM.
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Thanks for the comment Poppet Slut, and I agree .... "it is at the heart of any FLR or WLM."
DeleteLove this sub hub, your devotion to Mistress K is a beautiful thing. I totally get it. It's not the joy of the task itself, but the joy of pleasing your Dom/me
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Thank you Roz. You know I always love hearing from you and your kind words and wisdom.
DeleteThe marriage is strong because of my wife. But, I know that I need such a wife. Household chores only when I been as she states a naughty little boy. Being told I will be spanked when I mess up, even in public places. I will say I'm sorry, plead, I must call my wife Mommy when I'm going to get a spanking. Nothing I say will stop from being spanked. The worse are when my mother-in-law is present. Spankings happen in the front room, my pants are pulled down, I must step out of them, my underpants next and step out of them. The bath brush a gift from her mother is applied, wall facing time. If being spanked and a friend of hers drops in, the spanking continues. What you would not like that recently, jammie punishment she started. Depending on what I did, I will wear my jammies the rest of the day, I then have chores to do, I will be going to bed early and in the morning will be given a a bath and then learn if I will be wearing jammies or not. She saids I look so cute in my jammies, a cute naughty little boy. I just respond with yes Mommie. The spanking hurt, I feel very little in my jammies and most of all I do not say anything if someone is present during the spanking. Jack
ReplyDeleteI just let my wife see this blog, she actually caught me, since she controls what I visit. She reminded me of a spanking, that I wish not to remember, right after our marriage. I'm getting a spanking for not showing this blog to her, part of the punishment is to tell you of this spanking. We live in another state from her mother, but she told her daughter that husbands will act like naughty little boys, and that is when the role of Mommy comes into play. Time outs, extra chores, or a spanking is required. I was told to get to the bedroom, and when she came she set up the camera to video my punishment. I was scolding like a naughty little boy, she pulled my pants down and told me to step out of them, then my underpants. Show your bare bottom to the camera, I did as told. She then said, Mother, I take your advise, my naughty little boy is going to get a spanking from his Mommy. I went over her lap, she applied her hand, then the hairbrush. I was kicking, squirming, saying I was sorry. She did not stop. She did finally stop, stood me up, I showed my red bottom to the camera. She then said, when you are a naughty little boy, your going to get a spanking and you will call me Mommy, understand, Yes mommy. Now you face the camera and tell you mother-in-law you have been a naughty little boy and Mommy gave me a spanking. I then faced the wall, the camera still running. My mother-in-law enjoyed the video, she sent a present, a bath brush, and would enjoying see it in action. She has. What my wife does not tell her mother, that my erection is addressed prior to the spanking, she is not easy when relieving me of it. Spankings hurt more after the erection is gone. Now with the addition of Jammie punishment, I try to be a good little boy. My mother-in-law agrees with it and seeing me getting a spanking in my jammies with my bottoms pulled down over my Mommy lap, I hate for her to see, but a naughty little boy does not disobey his Mommy unless he wants a longer, harder spanking. Jack
ReplyDelete@Poppet Subslut Our situations seem very close. Lets talk. cowboy_lac@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteNot allowed on yahoo, got caught talk about spankings, I thought my wife was gone, I was playing with myself when she caught me. She insured I would not be on that sight again, she monitors this sight. The spanking I got for being on that sight and masturbating, well lets just say, sitting was very hard, and she took some pictures to remind me. Jack
DeleteUm, Jack, perhaps you ought to consider actual obedience and not just the illusion of obedience? You and your Wife will be much happier.
DeleteDon't get what your wanting to say. I'm very much obedient to my wife. The spankings are for real, She has restrictions, I get some freedom when it comes to the internet, but she controls that. I don't know about your situation but I've been soundly spanked with the bath brush in the present of others, and my mother-in-law has little tolerance for my behavior, either at her home or mine, she has given me some spankings to remember, Jack
DeleteSorry Jack< not judging at all and I should've been more clear about I was specifically talking about. When you said this " ..... I was playing with myself when she caught me"
DeleteI guess I was equating this to my marriage. I am specifically prohibited from playing with myself. That kind of disobedience is akin to infidelity in my marriage which is why, for us anyway, that kind of disobeidence is a game changer.
My wife I told her of my past, the spanking magazines, she listen, best not do it again, and sternly said, if you do and the conversation ended. Well i got caught, she had cut me off for a week, part of her punishment. I needed relieve, but wrong timing. My mother-in-law was visiting and they talk for along time, I went to the bathroom, and about to cum my wife walked in, bath brush in hand, just what I thought she said. Leave the pants here she said, and bare from the waist down taken to the front room. She told her mother, and I was soon over her lap getting a spanking like no other. When she finished, my mother-in-law was smiling, very nice indeed dear. I faced the wall, saying nothing, then I heard my wife tell me to come to her. I stood there, a sound scolding, and my mother-in-law said Dear I must go, you have a very naughty little boy that needs your attention. Jack
DeleteChores are are what really drew my wife into this lifestyle. To be fair to me I was doing a share of the household chores before WLM, but now it is probably 90%. It is the one thing that my wife can show dominance on a daily basis. It is very normal now for her to say such and such needs to be done and then adds the word "now" to the command. That's my cue to drop what I am doing and take on her project. Other chores are daily or continuous. Those are the chores that are punishable if they are not done. I forgot to make the bed one day after she got up, I have not since. Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays- Alan
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for commenting Alan. I think the addition of "now" to any command, or even suggestion, implies the same thing for all of us. Failure of execution of chores or other disappointments indeed ends with punishments in our house.
DeleteIt is (was) Merry Christmas for us. Thank you
Pathetic. Have at least some pride. Geez...
ReplyDeleteYou have to live this lifestyle to understand that you are wrong.
Delete"unknown" and anonymous is pathetic