My phone rang. It was Mistress K. She was on her way home from visiting a friend. When I answered I heard ... "Two things. Go put on panties and have a glass of wine poured for me when I walk in the door." "Yes Mistress" was my simple reply. She said "Thank you lover" and then hung up.
When she walked in the door 5 minutes later, of course her glass of wine was waiting for her and of course her slave husband was wearing panties. The tiny lace thong panties did very little to contain the hardest and quickest erection I have in a long time. I handed her the glass of wine and she told me to go wait for her next to her throne. A few minutes later she arrived at her throne, fully clothed from her day at work. She sat in her chair and scooted forward and simply said "worship me". Worshipping her body is my absolute favorite task that she assigns to me. Moments later she had me pull off her blouse but she remained in her bra. She looked as beautiful and as sexy as any woman that ever existed, and I was told to get her vibrator. She had me place the vibe between her cloth covered pussy and my extremely hard cock. I was instructed to continue with my worshipping.
In that position, She purposely held herself at the edge of her orgasm for several minutes until I reached the point of cumming. I was told I would not be ejaculating while she continued to edge herself. Curiously, she never did allow herself to orgasm and a few minutes later she informed me that she was done with me and ordered to the kitchen to start dinner while she changed her clothes.
Wow, just wow!
Friday, March 30, 2018
Saturday, March 24, 2018
Who else knows?
I know that logic and reason tell me that keeping our relationship to ourselves (except for her one best friend that lives far away - read here) is the most prudent plan. I just can't escape the desire for Mistress to have a friend that knows she is a Mistress Wife. Someone that she can trust never to reveal our lifestyle to anyone ... ever. Someone that she can confide in, to talk with about her fears, accomplishments, excitements ... or anything that comes into her head in our relationship ... you know, like best-girlfriends do in every other aspect of their lives.
Hand to God .... I don't want this for Mistress K. because I think it will eventually lead to sex with her friend(s). I truly want for her to have a way to be able to talk about the exciting things she does behind closed doors with her friends. Mistress K. and I have talked about it often, if she were just able to speak frankly with some of her friends that have constant marriage issues, and reveal to them the natural course of a FLM .......... well you get the idea. To be able to talk about and explain this ..............
To be able to explain the benefits of strict, disciplinary actions to enforce what is a natural source of enjoyment for the Mistress Wife and dutiful husband. How arguments or fights rarely occur, and when they do, they are resolved super quick and to everyone's satisfaction.
Friends helping friends ..... When there is a natural way for friends to be able to help friends, well good things happen.
Friday, March 23, 2018
Regrets
I was recently asked by someone (via email) if I had any regrets about being in the kind of relationship that Mistress K. and I have. My answer was instinctive and immediate .... "I have absolutely no regrets about offering my submission to my beloved wife." Why would I? I have the distinct honor and privilege of serving, being owned by and worshipping the woman that I love more than any other woman I have loved before. Our lifestyle has given us the depth of love, respect and closeness we had never experienced before in our time together.
He replied with "Perhaps regret was the wrong word. Clearly you love, honor, obey and cherish you wife in ways that most men could only hope for." He went on to ask whether or not there were things in our existence together that I wish were different. That got me thinking. Again, my immediate and instinctive answer was no. I truly do love be the primary source of pleasure in Mistress K.'s life, be it sexually or otherwise. All of that is true. But .... (there's always a but, isn't there?) it got me thinking further. If I had a magic wand, what would I change that isn't already perfect?
Aside from the obviously known/assumed problems that vanilla life does to get in the way of open Dominant/submissive existence like kids, work, school, social obligations, etc. There are a few things I would like to be able to "tweek" in order to make things better.
First, I'd like to be able to speed up the rate by which Mistress K. continues to evolve in her Dominance. Over time, Mistress K. has had epiphanies that have allowed her to better be able to fully enjoy the power exchange dynamic we have. As time goes on, she is more and able to find comfort in the knowledge that when she imposes something, or merely wants something, that she isn't being selfish, mean, cruel or in any way putting me in a position to actually regret being her owned slave husband. She gets closer and closer each day to the realization that being in servitude to her, even if at that particular moment it isn't something I may not want to do, that I derive genuine pleasure in being subject to her. If she says we are going a particular movie that I don't want to see, we are going to that movie, and I "will enjoy myself" because being with me "while I am enjoying myself" is something that pleases her. I go to the movie and even though somewhere below the surface I may not really be liking it, I quickly begin to enjoy myself because I am doing something my Goddess Wife has imposed on me. Things like that.
Another example is .... Over the past year or so, one of those epiphanies was the necessity of being consistent with her corrective behavior whenever she is displeased with me for whatever reason. For us that means spankings. The spankings I have received over that time have been less frequent but have more severe in terms of redness and stingy sensations on my bare bottom. In other words, they hurt! She has come to genuinely know that when she administers a punishment spanking, EVERYTHING in our life together immediately gets better for each of us. I don't like it when I am being spanked. But I cherish and so thankful that she gives them to me. There is just something so beautiful about the post spanking after care that I crave. Being naked, kneeling before, ass-on-fire-sweating and thanking her with passion for the spanking I just received is an amazing way to assert each of our respective roles that we have committed to each other. It is an incredible feeling, and even though the pain of a spanking is significant .... I want more. I want longer. I want harder and I want to be brought to a level of retribution that will actually bring me to tears. I am confident that the previously mention evolution that Mistress K. is currently enjoying will ultimately bring us there and as such will become a natural and cherished part of our existence together. I know, I know, this is one of those be careful what you ask for things to be sure.
Lastly, with my hypothetical magic wand, I would wave it and fix the built in problem that comes from orgasm control/denial and repeated tease and denial. Tease and denial is an amazingly important part of our life. It helps "stoke the fire" and allows me to achieve a (nearly) constant state of desire for her, which was the goal in the beginning for me when I first asked her to become my Mistress Wife. With it though comes the problem of not being able to last very long without the uncontrollable urge to cum. It is a conundrum, a catch 22. There are times that Mistress K. wants to be to fucked long, slow, fast, hard. Those times when she wants to surrender her body and be fucked good and long. Fucked like a wanton slut, even bordering on the edge of being my little sex slave, To be ravaged and used as an objectified sex object. To be ...... sorry, I digress. You get the idea.
In reality, when it has been a few months since my previous orgasm, having this beautiful creature before in a wanton state is almost enough by itself to cause me to come, let alone fucking her like she is begging for. You may remember in a post a long time ago that I have been actually able to orgasm from merely witnessing Mistress K. orgasm. By fucking air while she is cumming. So switching from someone that is truly honored to be merely be allowed to be inside of her, to someone that is expected to treat her like a submissive fuck doll is, well, challenging. Currently our solution to that problem is the use of a relatively thick walled penis extension and liberal use of numbing spray. That combination works marvelously, but there is a certain amount of preparation that is necessary which takes away from her ability to demand it in a moments notice.
Because I so very much love to watch Mistress K. orgasm, I have even offered to arrange for an erotic massage for her, with me present, and for her to enjoy as she saw fit .... at the time, in the throes of whatever passion might exist at the time. I know ..... it get it, it is a toe in the door of something that could lead to a cuckhold situation. Although I know to never say never about anything ever, I don't believe the erotic massage will happen because Mistress K. appreciated the offer, but declined.
The email writer went on to ask about what fantasies I or Mistress K. might have, but I was hesitant to go there with him then, and there isn't enough "ink and paper" here to be able to do it justice.
Let me ask you dear friends, what things about your situation would you like to change for the better if you had a magic wand? Do you have any regrets? I'd love to know.
Till next time! Thanks for stopping by.
He replied with "Perhaps regret was the wrong word. Clearly you love, honor, obey and cherish you wife in ways that most men could only hope for." He went on to ask whether or not there were things in our existence together that I wish were different. That got me thinking. Again, my immediate and instinctive answer was no. I truly do love be the primary source of pleasure in Mistress K.'s life, be it sexually or otherwise. All of that is true. But .... (there's always a but, isn't there?) it got me thinking further. If I had a magic wand, what would I change that isn't already perfect?
Aside from the obviously known/assumed problems that vanilla life does to get in the way of open Dominant/submissive existence like kids, work, school, social obligations, etc. There are a few things I would like to be able to "tweek" in order to make things better.
First, I'd like to be able to speed up the rate by which Mistress K. continues to evolve in her Dominance. Over time, Mistress K. has had epiphanies that have allowed her to better be able to fully enjoy the power exchange dynamic we have. As time goes on, she is more and able to find comfort in the knowledge that when she imposes something, or merely wants something, that she isn't being selfish, mean, cruel or in any way putting me in a position to actually regret being her owned slave husband. She gets closer and closer each day to the realization that being in servitude to her, even if at that particular moment it isn't something I may not want to do, that I derive genuine pleasure in being subject to her. If she says we are going a particular movie that I don't want to see, we are going to that movie, and I "will enjoy myself" because being with me "while I am enjoying myself" is something that pleases her. I go to the movie and even though somewhere below the surface I may not really be liking it, I quickly begin to enjoy myself because I am doing something my Goddess Wife has imposed on me. Things like that.
Another example is .... Over the past year or so, one of those epiphanies was the necessity of being consistent with her corrective behavior whenever she is displeased with me for whatever reason. For us that means spankings. The spankings I have received over that time have been less frequent but have more severe in terms of redness and stingy sensations on my bare bottom. In other words, they hurt! She has come to genuinely know that when she administers a punishment spanking, EVERYTHING in our life together immediately gets better for each of us. I don't like it when I am being spanked. But I cherish and so thankful that she gives them to me. There is just something so beautiful about the post spanking after care that I crave. Being naked, kneeling before, ass-on-fire-sweating and thanking her with passion for the spanking I just received is an amazing way to assert each of our respective roles that we have committed to each other. It is an incredible feeling, and even though the pain of a spanking is significant .... I want more. I want longer. I want harder and I want to be brought to a level of retribution that will actually bring me to tears. I am confident that the previously mention evolution that Mistress K. is currently enjoying will ultimately bring us there and as such will become a natural and cherished part of our existence together. I know, I know, this is one of those be careful what you ask for things to be sure.
Lastly, with my hypothetical magic wand, I would wave it and fix the built in problem that comes from orgasm control/denial and repeated tease and denial. Tease and denial is an amazingly important part of our life. It helps "stoke the fire" and allows me to achieve a (nearly) constant state of desire for her, which was the goal in the beginning for me when I first asked her to become my Mistress Wife. With it though comes the problem of not being able to last very long without the uncontrollable urge to cum. It is a conundrum, a catch 22. There are times that Mistress K. wants to be to fucked long, slow, fast, hard. Those times when she wants to surrender her body and be fucked good and long. Fucked like a wanton slut, even bordering on the edge of being my little sex slave, To be ravaged and used as an objectified sex object. To be ...... sorry, I digress. You get the idea.
In reality, when it has been a few months since my previous orgasm, having this beautiful creature before in a wanton state is almost enough by itself to cause me to come, let alone fucking her like she is begging for. You may remember in a post a long time ago that I have been actually able to orgasm from merely witnessing Mistress K. orgasm. By fucking air while she is cumming. So switching from someone that is truly honored to be merely be allowed to be inside of her, to someone that is expected to treat her like a submissive fuck doll is, well, challenging. Currently our solution to that problem is the use of a relatively thick walled penis extension and liberal use of numbing spray. That combination works marvelously, but there is a certain amount of preparation that is necessary which takes away from her ability to demand it in a moments notice.
Because I so very much love to watch Mistress K. orgasm, I have even offered to arrange for an erotic massage for her, with me present, and for her to enjoy as she saw fit .... at the time, in the throes of whatever passion might exist at the time. I know ..... it get it, it is a toe in the door of something that could lead to a cuckhold situation. Although I know to never say never about anything ever, I don't believe the erotic massage will happen because Mistress K. appreciated the offer, but declined.
The email writer went on to ask about what fantasies I or Mistress K. might have, but I was hesitant to go there with him then, and there isn't enough "ink and paper" here to be able to do it justice.
Let me ask you dear friends, what things about your situation would you like to change for the better if you had a magic wand? Do you have any regrets? I'd love to know.
Till next time! Thanks for stopping by.
Monday, March 19, 2018
Words Matter
"let's get this done while the kids are out of the house. Come with me." Those were the words I heard yesterday morning. I didn't know for sure, but I had pretty good idea it was time to be spanked. See, I had left the BBQ in-cleaned after it was used on Thursday night, and after Mistress told me to clean it on two separate occasions, Mistress sent me a picture of the uncovered, in-clean BBQ on Sunday morning with a single word under it. "Punishment!"
When we got into the closet she pointed to the place on island where my hands usually go for my spanking. Without being told, I removed my shorts and stood there dutifully waiting my fate. "I am in a hurry so this will be quick and meaningful!"
In less than 2 minutes my poor white ass had a distinct redish/purpleish/whiteish streak across the middle where Mistress's leather paddle did the bulk of its damage. It hurt like hell! When she laid the paddle on the counter between my hands I knew she was finished. I immediately stood, then knelt in front of her and thanked her for my spanking. She kissed me on the head and left to run her errands.
I am so in love with this woman.
When we got into the closet she pointed to the place on island where my hands usually go for my spanking. Without being told, I removed my shorts and stood there dutifully waiting my fate. "I am in a hurry so this will be quick and meaningful!"
In less than 2 minutes my poor white ass had a distinct redish/purpleish/whiteish streak across the middle where Mistress's leather paddle did the bulk of its damage. It hurt like hell! When she laid the paddle on the counter between my hands I knew she was finished. I immediately stood, then knelt in front of her and thanked her for my spanking. She kissed me on the head and left to run her errands.
I am so in love with this woman.
Thursday, March 15, 2018
Femdom Boot Camp
Hello again everyone. Two posts in one day? What the hell?
My previous post mentioned a spanking I was waiting to get, and a subsequent comment mentioning that it was very light, very easy and with not much stingy. That was the second spanking in a row that very light and easy. Each of those spankings have left wanting to do something I had hoped Mistress and I could do ... Boot Camp!
There used to be lots of information on D/s Boot Camps which included information on how to conduct them. The basic idea behind the boot camp is for both the Mistress and subhub (in our case) to experience intense activities in our respective roles. If I remember correctly, over a designated period of time (usually a weekend), the Dominant would take the submissive through intense experience related to his/her role as a submissive. The idea being to deeply drive home the necessary, required experiences that submissive must go through, intensely experienced. Things like scheduled, repeated and harsh spanking sessions. The kind that take the sub (and the Dominant for that) beyond where he/she normally goes during a session. Other things that the couple uniquely experience together on a recurring/daily basis are intensely experienced, whatever those might be.
I'd like to ask for your help. Are you aware of resources available to read about? Perhaps you've even experienced a Boot Camp scenario and has some advice to give?
I believe that it would be VERY beneficial for Mistress K. and I to each experience a somewhat prolonged (weekend) period of time where we can each participate in our respective roles in an intense fashion. Each of us being able to exist in Dommespace and subspace for more than just fleeting moments, would set a nice baseline for the loving, trusting, awesome relationship that we have.
Please let me know your thoughts.
Thank you in advance.
My previous post mentioned a spanking I was waiting to get, and a subsequent comment mentioning that it was very light, very easy and with not much stingy. That was the second spanking in a row that very light and easy. Each of those spankings have left wanting to do something I had hoped Mistress and I could do ... Boot Camp!
There used to be lots of information on D/s Boot Camps which included information on how to conduct them. The basic idea behind the boot camp is for both the Mistress and subhub (in our case) to experience intense activities in our respective roles. If I remember correctly, over a designated period of time (usually a weekend), the Dominant would take the submissive through intense experience related to his/her role as a submissive. The idea being to deeply drive home the necessary, required experiences that submissive must go through, intensely experienced. Things like scheduled, repeated and harsh spanking sessions. The kind that take the sub (and the Dominant for that) beyond where he/she normally goes during a session. Other things that the couple uniquely experience together on a recurring/daily basis are intensely experienced, whatever those might be.
I'd like to ask for your help. Are you aware of resources available to read about? Perhaps you've even experienced a Boot Camp scenario and has some advice to give?
I believe that it would be VERY beneficial for Mistress K. and I to each experience a somewhat prolonged (weekend) period of time where we can each participate in our respective roles in an intense fashion. Each of us being able to exist in Dommespace and subspace for more than just fleeting moments, would set a nice baseline for the loving, trusting, awesome relationship that we have.
Please let me know your thoughts.
Thank you in advance.
Waiting to get spanked
In the past several months, Mistress K. hasn't spanked me hardly at all. She attribute that to my occasional forgetful, or arguably disrespectful attitude she feels I sometimes display.
I'm literally sitting here, waiting for her to finish getting ready for work (blow dryer running as we speak), for her to get dressed, and the to be summoned into the closet for what promises to be an enthusiastic spanking. And I am nervous ........
I'm literally sitting here, waiting for her to finish getting ready for work (blow dryer running as we speak), for her to get dressed, and the to be summoned into the closet for what promises to be an enthusiastic spanking. And I am nervous ........
Tuesday, March 13, 2018
Matching panties
Yesterday was a first for Mistress K. and I. We wore matching panties. Mistress K. picked out panties for me to wear that matched exactly the panties that she was going to wear that day.
Not the best picture, but here are the ones I wore:
Not the best picture, but here are the ones I wore:
Black, thong, lacey. Yummy! I felt as sexy in them as she is!
Monday, March 12, 2018
You've got mail
Yesterday I received a private message from someone on Fetlife. This nice person made a few comments and appreciated the pictures I had posted, but also said they noticed that I seemed to have a "proclivity" for spanking pictures where the submissive is in a standing position, and bound. I guess I do. Probably because that is my favorite way to be spanked. There is just something so inherently special about being naked, bound and standing for a spanking, where it is for the fun of Mistress K., or if it is for a punishment. When against a wall, there is no moving forward to lessen the severity of the impact. Oddly, there just aren't that many pictures depicting submissives bound to a wall for a spanking.
Here are a few that I've already got in my Fetlife pictures:
About to get Serious
Looks chilly in there
Don't you dare move
Rope and Pully
Hooked
Every house should have a hook in the ceiling
Think about what you did
Bend over the table NOW
(BTW, if you'd like to FL friends, click here sub hubs FetLife
Here are a few that I've already got in my Fetlife pictures:
About to get Serious
Looks chilly in there
Don't you dare move
Rope and Pully
Hooked
Every house should have a hook in the ceiling
Think about what you did
Bend over the table NOW
(BTW, if you'd like to FL friends, click here sub hubs FetLife
Saturday, March 10, 2018
I'm getting a Tattoo
If you and I were friends, you'd already know that I am (and always have been) completely against tattoos. I would've told you that under any circumstance, getting a tattoo is a bad idea. That is until Mistress K. agreed to let me get a tattoo that would symbolize my submission, my devotion, my servitude and my love for her. I have subtly asked for one in the past, only to be thought of as not being serious about it by Mistress K. After all, she has long known about how I feel about tattoos.
All that changed on Thursday of this week. Previous vague suggestions for me being marked as her property were met with an unenthusiastic, but courteous "ha, ha". On Thursday when I sent her the same version of a cursive K.
The reply I got was an emphatic "Let's do it!!!"
Holy shit .... now what? I immediately began to monitor what my true feelings were about it, now that it seemed like there was a real possibility that it would come true. Is this one of this "watch what you ask for" things? No, it wasn't one of those. I immediately felt pride and arousal at the prospect of being permanently marked as Mistress K.'s submissive. Her toy. Her owned property. Branded if you will.
On Thursday, after having a chance to think all day about the reality of this maybe actually happening, I called Mistress K. on the phone for the sole purpose of being able to tell her how honored I felt about being allowed to wear her brand. Also at that moment, I had the hardest "love boner" I have ever had in my whole life. (For those that may be new to the blog, a love boner is an erection that I get from solely and merely thinking about the love I feel for my wife, nothing else - no sexual thoughts).
Last night (Friday night) at dinner, was the first time we've had to really talk about getting this tattoo. Of course I needed to confirm that she was serious. She was! Then we started to talk about what the tattoo would look like, and where on my body it should go. I told Mistress K. that before we had a chance to discuss it and for her to decide, I had always thought it would be something like "Property of Mistress, and the above K", right above my cock. I don't know why, other than that seems to be a typical location for such a thing.
Mistress K. mentioned that her though was that it would go on my right ass cheek. Why? She didn't know either, but it was what first came to mind. We have plenty of time to figure those things out because Mistress has said that will happen on our anniversary, which is in the fall.
The design is TBD, but initially Mistress K. was thinking she'd like a K much like in the picture, with the stem of a single white rose snaking its way up the straight part of the letter. Why a single white rose? Because a single white rose is the symbol for a submissive male, Dominant Female relationship, or so we have been told. Whether it truly is or not .... we really don't know. But, we were told that once before and by God we are sticking with that!!!
Your suggestions would be more than welcomed. Please weigh-in if you have an opinion on what the design should look, where it should be on my body, or frankly .... anything else that may be on your mind. You know how I love to hear from you.
Have a great Saturday everyone!!!!
Thursday, March 8, 2018
Spontaneous
We've been super busy lately. Because of that, there has been less opportunity for us to indulge in our way of life. Mistress K. realized that it has been some time since she had administered a spanking, and although there are no present punishments having been earned, She felt it was necessary for one.
"Before you get into the shower, get my paddle, take down your pants and go lay on the bed." Out of nowhere that came. Being a surprise, I immediately began to wonder what I may have done to earn this pending spanking. "You've done nothing pet. This will be maintenance", she said.
The spanking itself was very light. There was really only one or two swings of the paddle that produced a small wince on my part. What was incredible though ... I immediately fell into something that I haven't experienced in some time. Supspace! Throughout the day yesterday, and ever since< my mind wallows in the unmitigated joy of being naked, vulnerable and having to present my bottom to Mistress K, for, well, whatever she wanted it for. I have since told her (perhaps too many times) how grateful that I am to have her, that she continues to want to own me, my mind and my body and that she would love me enough to administer a bare bottom spanking, even if (maybe especially if) was wasn't earned.
I am the luckiest man in the world. She is truly a Goddess!
"Before you get into the shower, get my paddle, take down your pants and go lay on the bed." Out of nowhere that came. Being a surprise, I immediately began to wonder what I may have done to earn this pending spanking. "You've done nothing pet. This will be maintenance", she said.
The spanking itself was very light. There was really only one or two swings of the paddle that produced a small wince on my part. What was incredible though ... I immediately fell into something that I haven't experienced in some time. Supspace! Throughout the day yesterday, and ever since< my mind wallows in the unmitigated joy of being naked, vulnerable and having to present my bottom to Mistress K, for, well, whatever she wanted it for. I have since told her (perhaps too many times) how grateful that I am to have her, that she continues to want to own me, my mind and my body and that she would love me enough to administer a bare bottom spanking, even if (maybe especially if) was wasn't earned.
I am the luckiest man in the world. She is truly a Goddess!