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Friday, November 18, 2016
Is it a coincidence? I don't think so
Just sayin ...... As you can see from the article here, the divorce rate in the US is at a 35 years low. Of course I cannot prove it, but I believe that the rise in popularity of Female Led Marriages partly explains this phenomenon. Then again, I could be wrong. Your thoughts?
My wife and I will be married 35 years in 2017 and she is my Dominant Wife.
ReplyDeleteSee? *smile
DeletePerhaps and it may be because people are marrying that bit later and are more committed. Time to change the oath back to where the man says he will obey?
ReplyDeleteI like both the idea and the notion! Perhaps you are correct on both counts
DeleteI do believe that female led marriages are on the rise or are at least more out in the open. Really I believe both, they are more common and not as hidden.
ReplyDeleteA large part is the woman claiming and controlling her own sexuality, her deciding the when, how, and with whom.
I agree with most of that. I believe that the internet has allowed those of us who live in this lifestyle to be able to know that there are others out there that feel the same, and therefore aren't apt to feel all alone and weird.
DeleteIn any event, a FLM is good for a marriage
You may have something there sub hub. You don't hear about FLM marriages going bad. Can you imagine the spanking you would get if you tried to take charge ouch.
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It would be avoiding the spanking that motivates me .... it would be the constant desire to add pleasure to the life of my Wife. I take charge in everywhere ... everywhere she wants me to.
DeleteInteresting article Sub hub. It's great to see :)
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Roz
thanks Roz. Great to "see" you again!
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I totally think you're right. True here, anyway! Seems She likes us better this way! ~sara
ReplyDeleteWe may be on to something ...........
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ReplyDeleteI responded before reading the article. Now am I reading that graph correctly? In 1970 the Divorce to marriage rate was 15/76 or 19% divorce rate while today the same ratio is 17/32 or about 53%? OK, so the rate of divorces look to be dropping but so is the rate of women marrying and the rate of failure is still ominously high.
ReplyDeleteCome on my friend ...... don't rain on my parade with facts. *smile .........
DeleteSeriously though, I totally understand your point and I agree. Just trying to do my little part to promote a lifestyle that I truly believe would make many more marriages last and be fulfilling if they were better understood and accepted.
How's things for you ???
I noticed both slopes seem to change more shortly after you started your blog :P
ReplyDeleteThank you for that my friend. I doubt that I have much of an impact on the masses. I think that more and more of "us" are able to communicate about how we wish to live because of things like blogs.
DeleteA little off the topic. A wish for you....May your head be between her legs at least 3Xs a day and may she ruin your orgasms 2Xs a day to keep you empty. You should be drained before bed time.
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What a delightful wish archedone. I hope your wish for me comes true......... I really do.
DeleteActually I was probably off a little she should ruin your climaxes each day until you can't climax. And to add a little spice she should have you propped up so you can watch her teasing you and your cum flowing from your cock and running down your shaft each time she teases you. I know I'd love to have it happen to me.
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archedone
Wow ... I love where your head is at!
DeleteAnother question....Does Mistress K read your blog? Had she read my last comment? If so maybe she will act on it and drain you like you have never been drained.
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Hi archedone .... She does read my blog, although it has been some time since she has. She would love to be able to, but the fire in her to do so doesn't burn as hot as it does with me. In addition, it has been some time since she attended to her email account. I ma required to give her daily reminders of this FLM related (such as when a spanking is due (like now) and if she has new email in her "Goddess Account") She has recently promised that she would attend to those emails because she knows it is rude to ignore people that have taken the time to send her a note.
DeleteThe rise in male chastity device sales may also be a factor.
ReplyDeleteI used to be a jealous sob, but living the past 11 years locked in chastity, has me being acceptable to her having a lover while she keeps me faithful.
Hi Zydecobrett. Thank you so much for your comment. I agree, I think. Is the rise in chastity device sales because of increased FLR's in the country, or is the rise in sales because of increased FLR's? Who knows, but I like it.
DeleteI don't think I could ever fully get to the point of not being jealous if my Mistress were to take another (male) lover. I can absolutely see the excitement of seeing her experience sexual ecstasy, but I'm pretty sure at the end of the day it would rip at my heart.