Sunday, October 11, 2015

Looking Back so I can look forward



Occasionally it's fun and exciting to go back over some of the material that I waded through in the beginning during my "research" in the beginning.  Re-reading some of the things that helped Mistress K. and I. get to where we are.  Deeper in love than either of us thought possible.

Below is a link for one such site.  It's called "Caring Domination" and for me, it was a instrumental to my decision to ask Mistress K. to accept my submission. 

http://cair4.com/

There's a quick tour as well, which I also remember being helpful:

http://cair4.com/toursub1.htm

But, it was the following words that spoke to me in the most meaningful way and was the basis for which I asked my wife to accept my submission and her role and the dominant in our life together.

"The ultimate control over a man is not hypnosis, blackmail, tying him up, or any of the male submissive fantasies. The ultimate control is love."

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8 comments:

  1. DelFonteOctober 11, 2015 at 8:24 AM

    Lovely quote and picture. Congratulations on your upcoming anniversary.
    hugs DF

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    1. sub hub in phxOctober 12, 2015 at 6:33 AM

      Thanks so much Del Fonte. We are referring to this as our 16th and our 1st Anniversay.

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  2. stay at home momOctober 11, 2015 at 3:24 PM

    Hi sub hub, being tied up is definitely not only a male fantasy. :) I love 'the ultimate control is love'. True for many subs, isn't it? I am happy that you have such a loving relationship.

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. sub hub in phxOctober 12, 2015 at 6:34 AM

      Hi sweetie .... Don't get me wrong, being tied up is not a bad thing. Oh no indeed it is not. ;-) I always appreciate when you comment here Ni Na. Thank you. XOXO and hugs back

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  3. AnonymousOctober 11, 2015 at 3:33 PM

    Congrats on your upcoming anniversary. That quote is beautiful!

    I always enjoy looking back. That moment was truly a foundation for trust building. He always answered every question I had through the research He encouraged me to do before I made a decision on to go this route or not.

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    1. sub hub in phxOctober 12, 2015 at 6:35 AM

      Thank you HS. Thank you sooo much. I can remember the anxiety, lust, fear, I was feeling leading up to asking Mistress K. to accept my submission.

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  4. RozOctober 12, 2015 at 1:30 AM

    Hi sub hub, congratulations on your upcoming anniversary. Lovely quote :)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. sub hub in phxOctober 12, 2015 at 6:36 AM

      Thank you my dear friend!! I can always count on you to stop by and say hi!

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