Last night I had an occasion to be out on the town with 3 buddies. We're all dads that have kids the same age, which is how we all met. We were out at a sporting event, drinking, having a good time. On the Uber car ride back to our where our cars were, one of the guys in the car suggested we stop off for a night cap at the strip club. It seemed to be a popular idea in the car and in no time, there we were, enjoying the view at the strip club.
Mistress K. does not put any prohibition on me for such things. That being said, I immediately texted her to let her know I'd be home later than originally planned. She replied with a simple "be careful. don't drink and drive". Isn't she the coolest.
Now, I've been to strip clubs plenty in my life, especially when i was in my 30's and even into my 40's. on more than one occasion, I was there with my beautiful (then vanilla) Wife. We always had a great time, especially when we would spend a couple hundred dollars on table dances for her. Strippers seem to fall in love with my Wife within seconds after saying hello. I know the feeling. Anyway, since starting our FLM, I hadn't been to a strip club. I frankly had no desire to go, unless it was going to be a trip that was with Mistress K.. I had even fantasized about being taken there with my chastity cage on and then enduring table dance after table dance. Each time, the stripper would've been informed by Mistress K., that I was wearing a chastity cage because she told me to.
There we were, doing what guys, having a good time. In looking around, I thought to myself how lucky I was to have the kind of love and desire that I have for my one and only source of sexual desire. I can honestly say that while sitting, enjoying the view of the highly sexual environment, I didn't get a hard on once. I liked what I was seeing, but I was looking at it differently than i would've before being fully immersed in my FLM. I looked around and saw desperate man after desperate man trying to fulfill his sexual urges. Inside, I was truly content and even in this wanton environment, I consciously and subconsciously only had a sexual desire for Mistress K. I wasn't looking down my nose at anyone or expecting anything different than what happens every night in a strip club, I was comfortably contented with knowing that my single source of desire was through Mistress K.
I had posted about this before. yes, I still look at beautiful women and admire that beauty, but in my role as a submissive, collared husband in a truly loving female led marriage, I have been transformed (willingly and happily) into only wanting (real or fantasy) sexual desire if it includes Mistress K. I can tell you that this is an extremely wonderful way to feel.
When i got home around 12:30am, Mistress was watching her favorite TV show and when i walked in the door, she simply said "Hi baby. Did you have a good time?" Isn't she the coolest?
What a good post! I just love to see, through your eyes, just how devoted you are to your wife/Mistress.
ReplyDeleteYou couldn't have paid me a bigger compliment little girl. Thank you so much!
Deletesub hub you are a true submissive and very devoted to Mistress K and it shows. You can always look at other women just as long as you feast on the one at home.
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Thank you archedone. I do always look at other women, I just don't imagine myself having sex with them, unless of course Mistress K. is having sex with them too.
DeleteMistress R has a rule. She will tell me to do a chore once. then it's up to me to take care of that chore in a timely manor, which is usually the same day unless at the time she gives the chore I tell her why I can't do it right away. Yesterday she told me to empty the trash. That was in the morning. After diner dishes were done she told me to get her the wooden spoon. I knew that meant she was going to spank me but I didn't know why. I gave her the wooden spoon and she told me to follow her. We went into the laundry room where the trash can is. As soon as she pointed to it I remembered. With out saying anything she pulled my panties down and opened the lid of the trash. Did I tell you to empty this? Yes Mistress sorry. Bend over was the next order. I bent over and the spoon landed on my right then left cheek hard. Ouch, ow, Did you forget something? Ouch, ouch ouch ow ow ow, yes Mistress. She was spanking as she scolded me and between ouches and owes I was trying to answer. Just when (spank, spank, spank, spank) are you going to empty this? Ouch, ouch, just ouch, ouch, as ow ow you finish ouch ow spanking me. About 5 minutes later she stopped spanking me and said now take care of your chore and do it with your panties at your knees. She stood and watched as I removed the garbage bag and put in a clean one. then she said take it out to the dumpster just the way you are. Taking baby steps with my panties at my knees I took the trash to the dumpster. Lucky for me that we keep the dumpster in the garage or someone would have seen my well spanked bottom.
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You are so fortunate to have a Mistress to worship who brings out your submissive side. You are perfect for each other.
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Thanks so much FD. I can't even begin to tell how lucky and fortunate I am.
DeleteSubHub,
ReplyDeleteI just love reading your adoration and devotion to your lovely lady. It makes my heart happy to read this! :)
~ Lady M
Once again Lady M, I have so much appreciation for anyone that will take the time to comment (good or bad) on one of my posts, but ESPECIALLY when that someone is a Dominant Woman ... and again even more so when it is a famous Domme Wife such as yourself.
DeleteI'm humbled and honored.
Thank you
Very nice post. It's nice your Mistress allows you time out with friends and your own getaways too. I'm sure a little time away does you good. How nice you could see the change since becoming hers. David isn't allowed to get hard for anyone but me. I ask him often too who does this cock get hard for. Even in the dungeon with our friends he won't get hard when we swap. I love it. Now if i tell him to watch porn and edge i expect him hard because it's for me.
ReplyDeleteHi Mistress Marie. Thank you for the kind words. I have seen the change in who i fantasize about being sexual with (only Mistress K.), and it wasn't something I was ever conscious about or something Mistress set as a goal. It's nice. It just happened naturally.
DeleteAlthough Mistress K. has not placed a moratorium on my getting an erection for anything other one that is inspired by her, it is a very interesting concept. I have to be honest, I'm pretty certain that I am not well trained enough to be able to always execute on that. Often times, I will see or read something on other blogs (like yours a lot of times) that will get me hard, just using my imagination. For example, your simple words used to describe being in a dungeon with others and the use of the word "swap" caused an erection.
Hi s.h.i.p.
ReplyDeleteWhat a brilliant idea, making you go to a strip club while caged. I might have to steal that for a story, hehehe!
Mistress R and I have occasionally wondered about going to a strip club, but I doubt we ever will. We saw some Spearmint Rhino dancers at Erotica once and they looked bored and about as sexy as a pencil. They may be good looking, but that's plainly not the same as being sexy.
I find it hard to see past the cynical side of it myself. But I'm not the kind of guy to go drinking with the guys.
Like you, i invest all my energy into my Mistress. Isn't it great to feel that way?
It's incredibly great to feel that way my friend. Having all of my sexual energy Mistress-focused is soooo satisfying and I don't at all feel like I am being deprived or missing out. I love it.
DeleteYou don't have to steal the idea RA ..... what's mine is yours. Have at it. Although Mistress K. and I have been to strip clubs in the past, it was never in our Domme/sub dynamic, which is something I'd really like to do. To have a dancer grinding on you while being encased in a plastic cage, and with her having been told by Mistress K. that I am her submissive husband ........ yum. I'm not a stripper apologist but I can tell you that they aren't all like the ones you describe that you met. As a group, they are quite the little actresses to be sure and you'll swear that they really do think you are interesting. *smile
I never blogged about it- but my Man and I went to a strip club for our anniversary (this was after our D/s dynamic started and I was already Pearl).
DeleteHe sat at a back table as he sent me up front. Watching. The girls tried to engage him and he would have nothing of it. To be honest, the dancers were nothing but a willing audience to our own show (if that makes sense). The sexual tension between my Man and I was terrific. Being in a much deeper D/s connection now, I imagine it would be a whole new and erotic experience if we go again!!
That being said, if I were you, the thought of being caged would make me rock hard and in serious pain! I HOPE you get to do this fantasy!! Share it with your Mistress K!!
I have shared it with her Pearl, and will again. She's smiles an evil, loving grin when I share it with her.
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