I'm restless and I can't figure out why. Mistress is as loving, caring, attentive and beautiful as ever. I couldn't be more pleased to be subject to her whims. I still yearn for something dramatic. I don't know exactly what might quench that desire, but I feel like I need to subject to something that absolutely pushes my limits and I would have no say in it. A dangerous comment, I know, but ...................
For goodness sake, what do you want? Are you talking about taking a cock or being whipped, or something?
ReplyDeleteI think perhaps what sub hub may be saying, is more that he needs have his limits pushed. :) x
DeleteHi brat, I tried to use the "email me" thing on your page, but I don't know if it went through (because it's been "sending" for 20 minutes) I asked for your email addy in that message. Please ping me at mine so I'll have yours and then we can chat. I'd really like that.
Deletemortuarychick @ gmail.com :) On my first cup of coffee here this morning, and couldn't find yours either. lol. xx I'll be around off/on all day here in between baking and such, I'll keep an eye out for you! :)
DeleteBrother sub - I don't know if it's just me, but I am thinking you'll get more comments like the one I am about to leave... that says, omg, so normal. I think we all go through it for different reasons. I know I do. Some of us need to have those limits tested, have things pushed at times. For me, it helps me grow - sometimes it'll be pushing a soft limit that I or He wishes I did better with, or pushing into grounds that are unfamiliar, or long lost. Have you asked for permission to speak to your beautiful Mistress about it?
ReplyDeleteWith all that being said, I think the restlessness thing we are sharing right now, perhaps in different ways, though. That doesn't surprise me, though - as always, we are connected submissive spirits.lol
My email is always open if you want to talk. :)
xx Hugs!
I'd love to. What is your email addy? For some reason I can't find it.
DeleteOh, yes...the itch. I know the feeling.
ReplyDeleteI agree with brat, go talk to her about it. Maybe it would be one of those things that fall under the "be careful what you ask for" category, but why think about that now, when you can do it after the fact? ;)
Listen to Brat. :)
ReplyDeleteI think it is normal to want to push your limits and I really think talking to your Mistress is the best thing to do. She needs to know how you feel so she can adjust things (if she thinks that is best).
Hugs.
i can understand that as a sub you want your limits pushed. But that is kind of vague. Have you thoughts any specifics you are looking for?
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Having your limits pushed can be interesting. But are you really asking to get more of what you already have or are you asking your Mistress to give you something new that you have not done. She will not know what you crave until you tell her how you feel.
ReplyDeletearchedone
Everyone, the advice you have all given is exactly the right advice, and that is to talk to Mistress about it. At the moment I wrote that post, I guess I was feeling a little selfish and pouty, wanting for Mistress to be able to read y mind and understand .... well, I don't really know if it was that I was just looking for attention or if I needed to be taken outside of my comfort zone. It seems that our routine is becoming, well that, just routine. This as a result of the always-there clash of real life versus a utopia that one always dreams of.
ReplyDeleteThank you my dear blog friends Amber, Misty, Master's Pet, Florida Dom and archedone. Thank you so much for being here.
To my other anonymous friend that was the first commenter, I really hope that some day you might wish to identify yourself. You seem to be a pretty straightforward person, and I suspect you might the same anon that has commented in the past as an anon Mistress.