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Mistress K. has always said that my blog was a place where i could write absolutely anything" I wanted and that she would never censor or edit what i put here. Of course I have to promise to remain discrete and never to reveal anything that could jeopardize our privacy, but aside from that, I was free to write anything I want without fear of repercussions from her.
I asked her if there was a name or term she otherwise preferred and she said, "maybe, but i don't know what that is."
Now I have a job to do. Find a word or phrase that describes strap on anal penetration by a Mistress of her loving submissive husband, that isn't "pegging".
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I'm not doing this because I have to. I don't have to. I'm doing this because I don't want Mistress to always have a negative connotation that goes along with the use of a word that she doesn't like.
Any ideas?
Pegging was chosen by Dan Savage after many of his readers sent in their suggestions. I liked "bobbing" and "to bob", as in Bend Over Boyfriend.
ReplyDeleteThere, you see how educational these naughty sex blogs can be? Thanks for the lesson Roberto and thank you for stopping by and commenting.
DeleteWhy not just a good old fashion "fucking you"? If a man were to say that he fucked his wife, we KNOW what that means. I think that your Mistress K likes to fuck you and you like to be fucked BY her. Sounds better than pegging =)
ReplyDeleteWhile we are at it....can your readers help find a different word for "squirting"? I cannot stand saying that word!
I like where your head is at PN!
DeleteI think that Mistress K. like to fuck me too, although I'm not certain it as much as i like to be fucked by her. There is hardly a more intimate way for me to be reminded of my submission to her. Especially when we do it missionary style. I love looking into her eyes while that is happening.
Thanks for the comments. I give an alternate to "squirting" a good think.
Though squirting doesn't bother me, I do like to say "the dam broke", "the flood gates opened" and "there she blows" haha
DeleteThanks for commenting HS. Is squirting something that you do? Mistress K. does not "squirt" even when she is having repeated, hard orgasms. I am admittedly a neophite when it comes to female ejaculation.
DeletePlease share if you find something for "squirting" who came up with that anyways ? It's so not delicate I guess that make sense it sounds rough.
ReplyDeleteOk as far as the question how about you give your "toy" a name so you can say Mistress K like to (insert name here ) me ? I mean all my toys have names and we do that. It just a thought ?
Squirting ..... I've never been with someone that does that and personally, there is nothing about it in fantasy that is especially appealing either. But hell, I'm sure there are plenty of people that would say the same thing about "pegging".
DeleteI don't think it is a question about giving a toy a name, but trather the activity itself. I don't know that I have often heard anyone call the rubber cock that Mistress would strap on to herself a peg, yet the activity is widely kown as pegging. Weird.
I think I like the suggestion made by Pearl Necklace best, and that is to call it fucking me. That is what she is doing. The anticipation of it is what allows me to safely fall deep into the subspace. It is the activity that while it is happening, I can feel our souls connect. Yeah, I so much prefer to call it "fucking me" than pegging me.
BigDlils, thank you so much for stopping by and being a part of all this. I very much appreciate it.
When R wants to peg me she says a few different things. Like I'm going to stretch you open and fill you up or I think your back door needs attention. and lay on your belly I'm going to hump you. So you could say Mistress K stretched me open, or Mistress K filled my back door, and Mistress K filled me up.
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One more comment. I love the last picture he's laying on the table and spreading his cheeks apart giving her better access to having his hole stretched and filled.
ReplyDeleteMany times I've spread myself open for R and love doing it as it shows her I'm submitting to what she is going to do to me.
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Thanks so much archedone. I love both pictures. The first one resembles Mistress K a great deal. Not so much in the facial feature but very much everywhere else, from the hair to the uber confidence. Yummy.
DeleteI absolutely love the second picture also. It is the quintessential representation of a loving FLM and what every submissive husband wants to be .... an eager ass whore for his Mistress.
I agree, I don't much like the word pegging... but using the strap on on cagedmonkey isn't always hard, rough fucking... So a nicer, softer, more living term might be a good thing. Yes subhub, looking into his eyes during that is a totally different thing than "fucking him in the ass." :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Lady M. Pegging to me sounds like a construction term. As I think it through, I prefer the term fucking in much the same fashion it is used when a man fucks a woman. I've never actually felt like I wanted Mistress to want to peg. I have constantly felt like I wanted Mistress to fuck me.
DeleteThanks so much for stopping by Lady M.
My wife does "squirt" sometimes and I greatly enjoy it, particularly when I am receiving her gushing in my mouth. What a submissive feeling to have your mistress coming in your mouth and drinking her nectar.
ReplyDeleteI don't have any suggestions for alternate names for pegging. How about making love ?
We use the term butt fucking. As in ,"you will get a good butt fucking tonight". The term brings to mind different scenarios for different people.
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