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Wednesday, July 23, 2014
Riding Crop
Years ago, before we entered into our current, acknowledged Female Led Marriage, we bought a riding crop.
We would use it when we role played/s scenes during our "vanilla" days. It has some sentimental value to me because I remember it being one of the first D/s - BDSM style accessories and I can remember the complete and utter thrill that went through my body standing in line at the adult super-shop, waiting to pay for this. After, that person at the register was going to know that I was going to somehow engage in kink after my purchase. How naughty. How scandalous.
Fast forward to yesterday when, after cleaning some things in the closet, Mistress K. came across our old buddy he riding crop. She laid it on top of my shorts so I would be sure to notice it when I changed clothes after work. And yes, I did notice, even slapping my hand hard several times, and then trying it on my ass, trying to anticipate what this thing would feel like during a (now) real punishment spanking.
Fast forward again to this morning, after Mistress summoned me to the bathroom to be groomed, but before the actual grooming. She entered the bathroom with crop in one hand, a devilish smile on her face and lube in her other hand. She started jerking my cock, teasing it, trying to get it harder than it already was (not possible). She starting teasing me with the crop, She started slapping various parts of my body. My ass of course. I think she too wanted to know what it was going to be like to use the crop for a future "real" punishment. She slapped my erect cock quite often with soft swats from above, and she swatted by ball several times with softs swats from below.
She used the crop to indicate that I was to spread me legs. Then spread them wider and wider till they were nearly as wide as the would go and still allow me to be able to stand. Then she used the crop to guide my hands to be placed behind my head. I was in the most vulnerable position and she was just beginning to explore various parts of my body with her newly re-discovered toy. She was having a ball alternating firm but gentle swats with crop with deliberate, slow stroking of my lube covered cock. I'll tell you. I believe that she is slowly trying to associate the urge to orgasm with the pain of a spanking. I told her once of a story I read where the Mistress was trying to achieve the ability to train her slave to be able to orgasm merely from receiving a spanking. Mistress K. didn't say that is or would be her intention, but I do remember she seemed to have great interest in hearing that story.
As I mentioned in a recent post (the one previous), I thoroughly enjoy being objectified by Mistress. Standing there, arms behind my head, naked, legs spread wide, vulnerable and knowing that I am about to be positioned in such a way to be groomed, was wonderful. I could not keep my eyes off my Mistress while she was walking around my body having her fun with her crop.
Very hot scene, I am so envious. My wife also has a riding crop, but hasn't used it in a few years. The last time she whipped me with it I almost came in my panties. She thought I did because my red panties were quite wet with pre cum. So,she does not want to,use it as a punishment. Only for some fun. I don' t know how you were able to control yourself and not cum during that. I think she actually wanted you to cum so don't disappoint her next time.
ReplyDeleteHi old friend. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.
DeleteShe very well may have wanted me to come but I wouldn't dare go against the words she was using "don't you dare cum". Sometimes she will prohibit me with her words from cumming, while compelling me with her hands or body to make me cum so that she can find herself in the lovely position of either punishing me for disobeying or using it is as an opportunity to ruin an orgasm. Sometimes, although rarely, she just like to see me cum.
Thanks again AH. Always love hearing from you.
Wonderful post, as always. I absolutely love how the crop feels. Trained to be able to orgasm when spanked - sounds like heaven. lol. Sir has been working on orgasm control with me for awhile now, I can't quite 'cum on demand', but it's getting closer. :)
ReplyDeleteYour now squirmy friend,
brat :)
Thanks Amber. I think I remember that I love how I hate how it feels, but again, we were "playing" then so there was never a real punishment spanking that was delivered with the crop. That being, as always, it is entirely up to Mistress K. to decide what implement is used when a punishment spanking is to be given.
DeleteI don't know if Mistress is actually trying to train me to be able to achieve an orgasm solely from being spanked or not. Of course i'll keep y'all posted if that is the case.
Mistress's attempts at orgasm control have worked very, very well with me, in that she controls them mostly by now allowing them to occur. It has never been a problem to orgasm on command, which is usually the big difference between a man and a woman, don't you think?
Thanks again Amber for hanging around.
Perhaps one of the reasons I like the crop so much, I never get punished with it. It's used more for scenes/play. Sir uses mostly paddles, He makes them and has many different types. Those I so relate to punishment. That and His belts, which I have love/hate for lol.
ReplyDeleteYes, I do really agree - on the differences between and a man and a woman when it comes to orgasm on command. :)
No thanks needed, I so enjoy being here.
P.S Thank you for the absolutely wonderful response on the craving punishment post. I have responded and have a lot of thoughts for the follow up post. :) Your input means a lot. :)
xx
Hi Amber. I replied to your request for permission to use my words/links/quotes in an upcoming response you are preparing. Can't wait to see it. Wow ... such an honor. Thank you.
DeleteYou two sure do seem to find time to have fun - even with kids around. Got to love a wife willing to pay a man that kind of attention. You lucky dog you :)
ReplyDeleteThanks so much IH. She does pay me so much attention and yet, all I can ever seem to want from her is more attention. I am addicted!
DeleteI'm a lucky dg indeed .... *on all fours and waiting to howl
It was interesting seeing your picture of the crop. It looks very much like the one my Mistress has. She is not one for regular spankings, but when it happens that is what she uses. When I'm told to fetch it for her I know that I'm in big trouble. On one memorable occasion I was told to wait, kneeling naked by the front door, with the crop in my mouth until she returned.
ReplyDeleteHoly smokes, that's hot. What happened when she returned? I am truly interest to know what it will be like to receive an actual punishment spanking with the crop. Like I said before, we had only ever used it on each other in the past (prior to FLM) and only in casual role play. I'll keep you posted.
DeleteWhen she arrived home she took the crop and swatted me as I crawled around on all fours trying not to be swatted. It stung, and I was, of course, trying very hard to get away and not be swatted. In the end my bottom was red and stinging.
ReplyDeleteWow ....... Now I know what I have to look forward to, I guess.
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