Friday, May 21, 2021

My Favorite Morning Instructions

 Truth be told, when I am waiting on Mistress to give my morning instructions for the day, I especially enjoy enjoy hearing " .... and you'll do all of those things today wearing some pretty panties and a butt plug."

Yeah, there's just something awesome about wearing a butt plug and a pair of nice fitting thong panties at the same time.

Thank you Mistress!

Thursday, April 29, 2021

Shaved or not

I came across this article today that asks the question ... Why Do We Have Pubic Hair?

I know trends come and go and until government passes a law that requires that everyone be shaved or everyone be hairy down there (just kidding of course ... or am I?), it's still a person perference.

My preference is shaved.  Shaved fully.  Shaved smooth. Shaved bald.  Thankfully that is Mistress K's preference as well.

What is your preference and why?  

Friday, April 16, 2021

Jen Psaki

Jen Psaki

I have ZERO interest in your politics, just like I assume you could care less about mine.  Forget the politics.  I don't want to hear about it.  What I do think is ... there is just something so sexy about this woman.   Rawr!

Perhaps it has something to do with my partiality toward redheads, but whatever the reason,  RAWR !!!

Perhaps it's a combination of her red hair and her clear and obvious confidence, intelligence and strength

Perhaps it's all of the above plus a good sense of humor?  Hell, I don't even know if she has a sense of humor.

I guess it doesn't matter what the RAWR is for me, just that there is RAWR there for me.

Happy weekend everyone !!!

Saturday, April 10, 2021

Pantied, Plugged and Caged

 For the first in weeks, Mistress K. and I have the house to ourselves for the entire weekend.  Mistress wasted zero time in establishing the tone for the weekend.  

Last night I was required to wear a butt plug to sleep, lacey red thong panties and of course, my cage.  This morning, I was informed that this will be attire this weekend until further notice.

Subspace switch on!

Thursday, April 8, 2021

Obedient Love Podcasts - Ms. Viola Voltairine

Recently I came across a wonderful site that has valuable information about things WLM/FLR from the perspective of  Ms. Viola Voltairine.  You can find her Podcast site her - 

During one of our special Sunday Morning Reading times recently, we listened to two of Viola's podcasts together.  One was about "the many aspects of long term chastity".  It was excellent!  Especially for us because of our recent purchase of a quality chastity cage that I cold wear for long periods of time.  Mistress K. has taken a recent interest in me being caged for periods of time that were explained to me as 

"Not sure.  I'll see how I feel as we go on.  It WILL be more often than not though"

The other podcast we listened to and loved was all about communication, and in particular to those she describes as "successful, long term Femdom couples".  It too was excellent.  I suggest you give them a listen.  I'm confident you'll be glad you did.

Lastly, blog posts that are only words are boring.  Here's some gratuitous sexy pictures:

It's what good boys get when they behave well enough to earn a treat.

Have always wanted to experience the excruciating joy of being placed in a humbler.  Hopefully some day.

Speaking of hopefully some day, I've always wanted (and encouraged) Mistress to find herself a nice female sub to have on hand.  I'm certain it would add to the bliss in her life.

Another treat given to a well behaved husband.

Redheads are just so gorgeous.  None as much as Mistress K., but gorgeous nonetheless.

Mind?  Would I mind?  I would consider it an honor.  Fucking her with a strapon or sleeve to orgasm is, to me, the sexiest form of denial.

Have a beautiful weekend everyone !!

Friday, April 2, 2021

I thought it was a fun question

 I came across a fun question on FetLife today in the group - Submissive men - and women who love them.  Normally the things you see on FetLife are inane question and comments by trolls and cretins.  Every so often though ….

The question was:

To the slaves out there:

To the slaves out there. If you were given a carte blanche from your mistress to worship her the way you want for one night, after being in chastity for a month what would you do? Would you enjoy the freedom?

Here was my response:

I'd bathe her in a beautiful fragrant bath. Shave her legs, armpits and pussy just the way she likes. After drying her off completely, I'd lead her to the chair in our bedroom we call her throne. A lovely, comfortable easy chairs with arms. I'd sit her down, scooch her ass to the edge and proceed to orally worship her pussy and ass to several orgasms, until she said stop, with my tongue. After she regained her composure, I'd lay her down on the bed and use her vibrator to more orgasms, Finally, I'd don the dildo that attaches to my chin and give her the pleasure of penetration and oral stimulation on her clit until she had enough. I'd finish it on our massage table with a luxurious full body massage.

I thought it was a great question.  Subs/slaves …. what would you do.  Dommes …. would this carte blanches freedom be something you'd want to ever give your sub/slave?

Please do let me know what you would do if you could.

Happy Holidays to those who celebrate Easter!


Tuesday, March 30, 2021

Until I Tell You Otherwise

This picture is an accurate representation of my current daily status.  With the purchase of the exquisitely made, properly sized and super comfortable Jail Bird cage from Mature Metal, I've been transformed from a dutiful husband that would only occasionally wear and uncomfortable (plastic tube) cage only when being punished, to a dutiful husband that wears a steel cage until I am told otherwise.

Permanent?  Did she say permanent?  Gulp!

Although I seriously doubt that being caged will not be anything near permanent, I am certain that it will be more often than not.  Where it goes from there is anyone's guess.  Anyone except for Mistress K. that is.  She has fallen in love with the way the Jail Bird looks on me, and the constant symbolistic reminder of what it represents when I am wearing.  Having worn it for a week straight already (before sending it in for a small adjustment), Mistress already knows that discomfort and lack of hygiene that was associated with the plastic cage is NOT an issue.

It seems to have already clicked with Mistress K. and she has made it about herself, which of course she has every right to do.  Like in the picture, she will unlock the cage only when it suits HER.  

Am I complaining?  No. Not in the least.  Wearing this cage has had a very beneficial phycological effect on me in my role in our loving WLM.  I was disappointed that it needed to come to be sent back for re-sizing, and very eager to get it returned as soon as possible.  So much so in fact that I sent it overnight to Mature Metal.  They were amazing by the way, and got it back to me very quickly.  

Wearing the cage is of course a constant reminder for me of my devotion and servitude to my Mistress Wife, and I enjoy wallowing in how that makes me feel.  I'm sure there will be days when I will want it off, but in the meantime ... all good.  It also has the effect of essentially making me feel as though my cock has been taken out of the equation when sexy, kinky naughty time happens.  This helps me focus better on my pleasure tasks at hand and also naturally makes me feel that I can focus on other parts of my body to absorb the pleasure of sex with Mistress.

I don't need to remind that 2020 was an interesting year for each of us.  It seems that 2021 and beyond will be interesting as well.  I cannot wait to see where this benchmark in our journey takes us in our beautiful, loving WLM.