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Saturday, April 9, 2016

Is your Mistress available?


I occasionally get inquiries from people (almost always men) asking if Mistress K. would like to take them on as an additional slave, as a bull lover or for a discipline spanking, or help her dominate me, or ......... etc., etc., etc.  I understand that not everyone here and on FetLife fully understands the dynamics involved in our life, or in the life of others.  Some clearly see the word "Mistress" and automatically assume that my Wife is a sex craved whore that is always on the lookout for more and more slaves in a never ending quest to find that one person that can cure her of the burden of her unfortunate dominant existence in our marriage.  I get it. 

I don't mind that there are other men (and women) that want to have sexy time with my wife. She is a sexy, beautiful, sweet, loving, caring, strict, sensuous woman.  Not only that, she has RED HAIR, so, you know .... who could actually resist all of that?  Don't let that statement confuse you into believing that I want that to happen, but the idea that there are many others (men and women) that sexually desire my Mistress Wife is exciting.  She has never given any indication that she has any interest in anything or anyone outside of our beautiful love-filled marriage, yet I suppose the mere fact that this blog exists and my account on FetLife exists (here) https://fetlife.com/users/3715601  might lead some to believe that the definition of what a Mistress is (in their own heads) includes an obvious desire for multiple sex partners.  As such, I suppose the constant parade of pursuers will continue. 

26 comments:

  1. while it isn't what you want, do you and of course your Mistress feel a little flattered that people should ask? :D

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    1. I'll ask Mistress what she thinks, but for me ... yes, it is flattering and even a little fun to think about

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  2. When ttwd was active here we received the odd enquiry too, people wanting Rick to dominate them, help him dominate me, join in etc. Not for us either. It kind of freaked me out lol.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. I wouldn't say that it freaked Mistress K. out (maybe a little) but she was always gracious and courteous when she declined, and always thankful for their interest

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  3. Ugh!!! and so the topic rises its ugly head once more. Do I have to take a flight west to slap you around again!!! LOL Don't make me do it :)

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    1. Although I'd love to share a pitcher of beer with, you need not worry my friend. It ain't gonna happen. :-)

      I appreciate you looking out for me though!

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    2. Who knows, maybe someday we can share that pitcher. Be aware, it doesn't take much to get me tipsy though :-).

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    3. that would be fun. It also takes me far less than it used also to get me tipsy too. *smile

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  4. I would like to take a wild guess and say most of those that ask questions like that either want to be controlled or want to control. Maybe they have read blogs or seen spanking movies and want to know what it's like real life. For you and your Mistress I feel you should feel good about people asking it shows they either like or are interested in what you have.
    archedone

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    1. Hi archedone,

      There is a some level of appreciation that others want to find a way to join us, sure, or participate in our happy lives, but we have never given any indication that it is what we seek. I guess that's the nature of the "business". For those that do ask, how would they ever really know, I guess.

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  5. Yeah, you say that but... like deep down, she wants it!

    :)

    Robert Anthony

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  6. As long as no one gets pushy about it, I hope you and your Mistress are able to continue to feel complimented. Others see how happy you are and want that experience for themselves, too! I was thinking yesterday when I was on Fetlife about how many kinky folk there truly are. For everyone who is signed up there, or comments on a blog or sends an email, imagine how many people are out there silenty sharing in this world with us. I think as long as the messages we get are respectful, it's a compliment to know that we've shared our positive experiences with the community and shown that it's something they can have in their lives too (just not from us monogamous folk).

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    1. Thanks Abby. I totally agree. Except for one message, quite some time ago, each of the messages have been very respectful, and for that I/we are grateful.

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  7. Stumbled through to this blog via regularguygonebad and very pleased I did, a great read

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    1. Thank you so much lapsedcatholic. Welcome to my blog and thanks for the kind words. I hope you'll enjoy your stay.

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  8. I suppose blogs can inspire different people in different ways. Your blog has been an inspiration for my FLM. Between yours and I'm Hers, I've shared a lot of your writings with Queen J. We're newer to this than you guys are and your insight helped my wife to understand that I wasn't too far oout there in "Abby normal" land. That other normal men shared my desires and proved that an FLM can indeed be a rewarding and successful style of relationship. For this I am truly grateful and feel to some extent indebted to you! Maybe I can pay it forward a bit with my own blog.

    I hope these request remain fairly tame and you guys keep sharing snippets of your lives with us.
    All the best,
    sublove

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    1. Thanks sublove. Your kind words make it all worth while. I hope that your Queen J. also enjoys the blog as well.

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  9. You haven't posted in awhile but I know you still visit other sites and hope you still look here to see what others are posting on your site. If you would allow it I'd like to relate a spanking that was given to me a few days ago but won't comment on it unless you say it's ok.
    archedone

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    1. Of course it's okay. I'd love to hear all about it

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  10. A few evenings ago we had just finished diner when R said I want you to get ready for a spanking. I asked her where the spanking would take place so I could put the implements in the proper location. She told me the family room. I showered then while she was in the shower I put out the implements on the coffee table and waited for her and when she came out I was in my submissive pose head down and hands behind my back. I thought I would be told to bend over and put my hands on she sofa but she had other ideas. She has a workout ball about 2" high. lay over the ball she said hands flat on the floor. I assumed the position and found it was comfortable and with my legs stretched out my toes rested on the floor. She completed me saying my bottom was well presented and that she was going to start with the paddle as she wanted me to get red fast. With that said the paddle landed SPLAT, SPLAT, SPLAT SPlAT, going from cheek to cheek. I tend to bounce when she spanks and being over the ball accented the movements as there was give to the ball and right away I and the ball were bouncing. She kept up with the paddle for about 4 minutes then told me I was already a nice color but there was a problem, my crack was still nice and white and I was told to reach back and spread my cheeks as the spoon was going to pay me a visit. I did as told and soon the spoon was doing it's work as she spanked the inside of my cheeks and my puckered hole WHAP WHAP WHAP WHAP the spoon landed over and over with me now kicking and hollering. after about another 4 minutes she set the spoon down and I asked if I could get up and was told OH no Mr. Strop also wants to visit your bottom wouldn't you like Mr. Strop talking to you. What else can you say when you are in that position but yes dear I'd love to feel Mr.Strop. With my hands again flat on the floor she told me to bend my knees and stick my bottom out more. I arched for her then the strop did it's job of setting my bottom on fire WHAP, WHAP, WHAP, WHAP the strop danced on my bottom again I and the ball bounced as my feet danced on the floor. after about 5 minutes I asked her to please stop and again I heard not yet honey the belt wants to kiss your bottom would you like that? again my position didn't give me much choice I said yes honey I'd love to have the belt kissing my bottom. SMACK, SMACK, SMACK, SMACK the belt landed time after time and I and the ball were bouncing hollering and a lot of kicking. Finally the spanking stopped and she said I could get up. I stood wanting to rub my bottom but knew better. She sat on the sofa and said on your knees I need attention. I dropped to my knees happy that I was going to be allowed to lick her. She was already wet from spanking me and I enjoyed licking and tasting her until she climaxed. I was then told to stand and masturbate for her. By this time I was hard again from licking her and fondled and pumped my cock for her entertainment. When I was close I told her and she said cum on my legs and I did shooting several long streams. I was then allowed to lick my mess up before we went to bed. She commented that she loved using the ball and could see where it should be used more often.
    archedone

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    1. Wow archedone. What a wonderful event. Thank you so much for sharing in such detail. I'm a little hard from your description. Mistress K also likes to paddle the inside on my butt cheeks from time to time, and will also pay a little attention to my bottom hole when she has her spoon in her hand. Ouchy!

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  11. My wife just left for a Dr. appointment and told me I'm getting another spanking over the ball when she returns and I'm to be showered and naked when she gets back.
    archedone

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  12. i'm just squirming here sitting after getting paddled by the Wife. Main offense? Checking out some bikini (thong butt cutie) girls on the beach during trip this week. i readily admitted She was right. On flight back, She leaned over and told me what would happen when we got to our house.
    i admit i gulped a bit when i was putting away things upstairs, and heard She was there. Getting paddled in panties, some forced leg-humping, then She threw me on the bed and worked my butt over more! It ended with Her forcing me to JO in them, as She watched and commented. Her final comment -- You've soiled them. Now that you've done a load, go down and wash a load (of laundry).
    Best to you all ~
    sara

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